The pursuit of ideal education requires serious and responsible teachers + reasonable parents + diligent and hard-working students

It’s the beginning of school again, and it’s a time when hope and anxiety are flying together, and we’re busy and nervous. It\’s interesting to say that at this time, I can hear two voices, one is parents\’ dissatisfaction with teachers, and the other is teachers\’ worries about parents. There was an article before that talked about the issue of selecting classes at the beginning of the school year. As a result, it triggered heated discussions on many platforms. Some parents complained that their children had encountered unscrupulous teachers who ruined their children, and then criticized some teachers in the school. Unreasonable phenomena were criticized. Some teachers say that when it comes to other people\’s children, they should ignore them if they can, and relax if they can. Otherwise, if something happens, they won\’t be able to cope with it. Throughout the year, there have been so many incidents of teachers being sued by parents and beaten by students. Thinking about it makes me feel terrified. Of course, the above situations are isolated phenomena, but the concerns of parents and teachers cannot be said to be unreasonable. Because although it is an isolated phenomenon, it is 100% if it falls on you. The purpose of education by British educator Whitehead PDF However, if teachers and parents build high walls in their hearts and are wary of each other or even hate each other, it is impossible to do a good job in education. The most ideal education must be a trinity of serious and responsible teachers, reasonable parents, and diligent students, all of which are indispensable. In school education, the importance of teachers is self-evident. A teacher\’s word, action, criticism, and praise may have an important impact on a student\’s life. Bi Shumin once mentioned in an article that a criticism from her music teacher when she was young made her \”involuntarily bend her body and slump. From then on, this posture lasted throughout my boyhood and youth.\” Moreover, she never had it again in her life. Opened his mouth and sang. Although Bi Shumin understood the teacher\’s intentions and difficulties when she grew up, \”the painful memory she left in a young boy\’s heart could not be erased, and the scars that were burned were still burning with smoke decades later.\” .\” Fortunately, Bi Shumin has achieved good results in other areas through personal efforts. The teacher\’s criticism only made her never sing again. But in reality, there must be many children who have deviated from the course of life because of inappropriate teacher behavior. An irresponsible teacher can really ruin a child\’s life. Every teacher should know that every student in your class is the entire world of a family. Teachers must understand parents’ anxiety and painstaking efforts, and take every child seriously no matter how difficult or tiring it is. This is the basic ethics of the teaching profession. School education also requires parents’ understanding and support. First, for teachers, we must understand their work. We should be able to imagine what it must be like for a teacher to face fifty or sixty children in the classroom. Therefore, parents should be strong supporters of teachers and cooperate with their work. No matter how responsible teachers are, there will be times when they fail to think of and fail to do a good job, which requires parents to have more understanding and communication. Don\’t complain or sue at every turn, let alone fight with each other at every turn. Sit down and talk more often, and think more from the other person\’s perspective, and you may be able to understand the other person.Fang’s difficulties. Second, for children, we must understand their difficulties. Every parent hopes that their child will be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, and they all hope that their child will get full marks. But each child\’s ability is different. You were not a top student when you were in school. Why should your children have to be the first in the exam now? Although today\’s children are much richer materially than in the past, they are indeed under great pressure to study. As a parent, just let your children develop their abilities and never set unrealistic goals. Don\’t be that stupid bird. If you can\’t fly, you just lay eggs and let your offspring fly as hard as they can. In the entire education process, the most important person is the student. As the saying goes, \”If the roots of a tree don\’t move, the leaves will sway in vain.\” If a child has no desire to work hard and make progress, it will be useless for parents and teachers to worry. However, few children consciously like to go to school from an early age, and the habit of learning must be cultivated by adults from an early age. Really good students all have a common characteristic, that is, they have strong self-discipline and purposefulness, can identify their goals, and persist in pursuing them. Both parents and teachers should put the cultivation of good study habits in children first and let them realize the importance of reading. In the final analysis, education cannot rely on the efforts of one party, but requires the close cooperation of teachers, parents, and students. If teachers are serious and responsible, parents are reasonable, and students work hard, there is no reason why their grades cannot improve and education cannot be successful. The new school year should start with harmonizing the relationship between the three. mutual encouragement!