This little story about a child being bullied hurt the hearts of many parents

Yesterday, I came across a video in the legal education section: a 17-year-old boy studying at a local vocational school. His parents have been working away from home for many years, and he has been living with his grandparents. One day, the boy\’s grandmother received a call from the police saying that her grandson had been beaten. Since the boy is more sensible and well-behaved, his grandmother never thought that such a thing would happen to her own child. What made her even more unbelievable was that the school, which was originally full of books, was like hell to her grandson. After police investigation, it was found that the boy had been bullied by five classmates and roommates for a long time. At first, these \”class bullies\” noticed that the boy was thin and made fun of him with nicknames. They also forced him to stand at the door and bow and say \”Welcome.\” Due to his personality, the boy endured their verbal insults. But sometimes never underestimate someone\’s malice, even if they are underage. After these \”class bullies\” returned to the dormitory, they not only asked the boys to sweep the floor and fetch water for them, but also beat and insulted them whenever they didn\’t get their way. What is even more disgusting is that after being criticized by the school, they did not restrain themselves, but intensified their behavior. In the dormitory, he stripped the boy of his clothes and molested him more than once. But what is sad is that the boy always hides in the toilet and under the quilt and cries. Even at home, when his grandma asks him what\’s wrong, he hesitates and refuses to say anything. Alas, I don’t know how the boy survived such days. How much torture and destruction he suffered in his heart and body. Later, because he couldn\’t bear it anymore, the boy chose to call the police. It was only then that these \”class bullies\” became afraid. They quickly called their parents for help. When their parents arrived at the police station, their first reaction was to excuse their children, saying that they were still young and ignorant and were just joking too much. At most, it can be regarded as a fight between classmates, and it will not rise to the level of crime. Gee, the children raised by parents with such a sense of right and wrong are destined to go further and further down the road of crime. I guess after reading this, some friends will ask depressedly, \”Why did the boy choose to remain silent for a long time and not ask for help from teachers and family members?\” In fact, in real life, many children never give help to their families and families after being bullied at school. Teacher says. If their parents discover that they are depressed and injured, many children will make up lies and remain silent about being bullied. They are not stupid, but they have too much helplessness in their hearts. Raising Boys Collector\’s Edition PDF download [on the bestseller list for 15 consecutive years] Telling the teacher will not help, but will lead to retaliation. When a child is bullied at school, the first person he calls for help must be the teacher. But sometimes the teacher may not realize the seriousness of the matter, but instead always fight against each other. There is a saying that goes, \”No tears until you see the coffin.\” The \”class bullies\” will not restrain themselves unless they are severely punished. They are very vengeful and are likely to find trouble with their children every day. Because I knew that even if I told the teacher, it would not help, but would lead to a more terrible experience. The child becomes silent and stops expressing his or her pain. Even if I tell my family, I won\’t get any understanding or help. Many children who are bullied are introverted, well-behaved and sensible. They understand the hard work and difficulties of their families, so theyI really don\’t want to cause any trouble to my family. Just like the boy mentioned above, his grandfather is honest and quiet, his grandmother is in poor health, and his parents are not around. In this family environment, the boy knew that even if he told his family, there was nothing they could do. Of course, there is also a situation where when a child tells his family that he is being bullied, he does not receive understanding, comfort and help, but instead gets accusations or even a beating. For example, some family members are afraid of causing trouble, so they scold and blame their children without asking questions clearly, \”Why don\’t people bully others? If you don\’t provoke them, will they bully you?\” However, some family members don\’t believe what their children say no matter what. Over time, the children You will lose trust in them. Even if you are bullied, it still sucks in your heart. Finally, I want to say that every child who has experienced school bullying has an indelible scar in his heart. Therefore, you must pay more attention to your children\’s life at school and maintain a good parent-child relationship. In addition, let children develop good qualities of confidence and bravery, and do not always give people the feeling of being weak and bullied. When your child is bullied, tell him to resist and face it bravely. Don\’t tolerate it again and again. This will only embolden the evildoers and make the bullying more and more serious.