What courses should I focus on in primary school? Only after entering junior high school can I become outstanding.

A teacher with 20 years of teaching experience once said: \”How far a child can go in the future can be seen from elementary school!\” That makes sense! Elementary school is the stage of laying the foundation. If the foundation is not strong, the ground will be shaken. \”Win at the End\” says that if a child cannot understand in class, he can only sit in the classroom and wait for time. Although this student carries his schoolbag to school every day, he is actually dawdling and has been eliminated. He is just waiting for the high school entrance examination. Or just go through the formalities for the college entrance examination. If you don\’t study well in primary school, you won\’t be able to connect to junior high school, and going to class will be like listening to a book from heaven. If you don\’t understand, it will affect the quality of your homework. If you don\’t do your homework well, you won\’t be able to consolidate the knowledge you have learned, and you will naturally be confused during the exam. Last time I talked with the parents of their children\’s classmates about their children\’s problems. The parents regretted not being ruthless in managing their children in elementary school, which made it difficult for their children to go to junior high school. I feel the same way! After my son entered junior high school, many of the problems he encountered were, in summary, the result of not insisting that he do well when he was a child and being too laissez-faire, which will gradually appear in junior high school. If a child does not lay these foundations well, the three years of junior high school will hold him back. The child could have become a comprehensively developed child. However, due to the indulgence in primary school, serious partiality to subjects has occurred, especially in Chinese language and sports. In summary, I regret not persisting in doing these three things. The first one: The reading child was a child who loved to read before the third grade. He read thousands of picture books and dozens of chapter books. But after the third grade, because I was particularly obsessed with technology, I squeezed out reading time. I don\’t like reading literature books and I feel sleepy when I read them. Because he was too busy with work and did not plan well for him, he read less and superficially. The final impact is that the reading comprehension is incomprehensible, and the text summarization and organizational skills are relatively poor. Hao Jingfang said: Most of the wisdom in this world is passed down through books. Let’s not talk about this for now, let’s talk about Chinese scores. The current Chinese language test tests ability and a lot of extracurricular knowledge. For example, if you fill in the blanks based on a certain plot in the book, you will naturally not be able to answer if you have not read the book. There are many books involved, and the questions are very random. You must read a lot and read intensively. The younger the child, the easier it is to develop reading skills. When the child reaches the third grade, he will become slightly rebellious. If he does not pay attention to the guidance, the child will easily go downhill in his own direction. Don’t think that just because your child loves reading in the early stages, it doesn’t mean that your child will love reading forever. In primary school, we must persist in reading as always. As long as parents persist, children will persist. Second: Writing When a child first enters first grade, his handwriting is particularly neat and beautiful, and his sitting posture is very upright. He is often set as a model in the class and is the target of imitation by his classmates. He also likes to write very much. He proposed to sign up for a writing class and studied very seriously. It was also after the third grade that the child suddenly learned to \”save trouble\”. When doing homework, he wrote very small characters, and he could write 4 lines in one grid. He said that this would help him write faster. Sometimes two pens are used to write together, in various ways. The writing is no longer neat and there are too many scribbles. Because of the handwriting problem, I often get angry with my child, but he refuses to change despite repeated admonitions. When the junior high school exams were changed to computer grading, his font was the least popular. The marking teacher cannot see clearly and has an impressionNo, some words are easily confused. Some teachers have said that such handwriting will lose 5-10 points. In exams where scores are crucial, 1 score can affect your ranking and further education, let alone 5-10 scores, how miserable it would be. In the first year of junior high school, the teacher will also set aside time for children to practice calligraphy, but this will be gone by the second year of junior high school. If primary school students do not practice calligraphy well, there will be almost no chance for junior high school students. In junior high school, I had a lot of homework, and I didn’t have the patience to write properly. Therefore, children must practice calligraphy well in primary school. Don\’t relax in the third grade, don\’t take it for granted that the child will correct it on his own, let the child realize the importance of writing, and go to training if you can. Habit formation does not happen overnight, it requires persistence. Third: Sports: Children also liked sports when they were young, such as cycling, roller skating, swimming, badminton, etc. They learned it easily and effortlessly, but they did not stick to it. After children have their own ideas, they will become lazy and only want to play with toys at home and not want to go out for sports. After puberty, the weight gradually increases, and it becomes difficult to exercise, so the person becomes less interested in exercising. There are physical education tests in primary schools, but they have little to do with further education, and parents don’t know much about test scores, so it’s easy to ignore their children’s sports. After junior high school, physical education test is an important subject, just like physics and chemistry, second only to Chinese, mathematics and English in importance. If you are not good at sports, your further studies and scholarships will be restricted. If your athletic ability is poor in primary school, you will not be able to make it to the top in junior high school. You will have to endure poor results or have to work a hundred times harder than others. Some children develop problems with their legs in order to achieve good results, which is very distressing. Parents love their children and have far-reaching plans. They must make their children fall in love with sports from an early age and persist in it. By the time they reach junior high school, they will be able to easily handle sports tests. It is difficult for children to persist, and only parents have to make a lot of efforts. Develop the habit of taking your children to exercise every day, and only if conditions allow for physical training can your children benefit. What foundations need to be laid in primary school? CCTV recommends over 500 excellent documentaries with high scores. Children will become addicted to self-discipline after watching them. Although grades in primary school are important, the development of children\’s comprehensive abilities cannot be ignored. Some abilities are related to a child\’s future life and are more important than grades. 1. Time management It is mentioned in \”I Use Reading to Educate Children\” that successful people are all people with excellent time management skills. The earlier time management skills are developed, the better. After children enter primary school, their lives will become very regular, including going to and from school, taking lunch breaks, and eating on time. When you get home, you have to do your homework. Don\’t be careless. Plan your time well. Complete your homework first, then play, and be orderly. This way you can learn solidly and have fun. 2. Habit cultivation American psychologist William James said: \”Sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.\” Elementary school At this stage, special attention should be paid to habit cultivation, such as these important habits: completing homework on time, independent study, independent thinking, correct reading and writing posture, cherishing items, cherishing food, being thrifty, paying attention to hygiene, neat clothes, organized schoolbags, civility and courtesy,learn to be grateful. 3. Self-care ability Nowadays, we often say that children are indifferent to their four bodies and five grains. This is because our parents take too much care and give our children too few opportunities to exercise. In fact, children are fully capable of doing their own things. Letting children do some things by themselves will not only enhance their hands-on ability, but also give them a sense of belonging and value, making them more confident. Children aged 6-12 are fully capable of cooking some simple meals, making their own beds, cleaning their own rooms, packing their own schoolbags, and carrying their own schoolbags to school. 4. Psychological Nurturing Freud believed that children aged 6-12 are in a psychological latency period, and psychological nurturing is very important. Today\’s children are very fragile and cannot withstand any setbacks, so we must pay more attention to the improvement of their psychological quality. How to do it? Professor Li Minjin said: When children are 6-12 years old, it is extremely important for parents to help their children find their own value. Respect children, let them have the right to choose, have the right to decide family affairs, and let them gain a sense of value. Help children find things they are interested in and become a light for future pursuits. The primary school stage is the initial stage of compulsory education, and it is also a stage where children\’s mental development is very rapid. Failure to lay a good foundation will affect the next few decades. Many parents become parents of students for the first time and feel at a loss. As someone who has experienced it, I have summarized some experiences and lessons. I hope parents and friends can read it carefully to assist in their future planning.