How to discuss ambitions with children

Recently, in the process of answering questions with parents, I found that many parents do not talk about ambitions with their children. Indeed, many adolescent children lack ambitions and do not know why they should study! ! ! In fact, when children are growing up, in addition to paying attention to the scores in school, parents should often have \”vision conversations\” with their children. This is a good way to cultivate \”academic masters\”! What is a “vision conversation”? Vision dialogue is to regularly communicate with children about the world view, and what kind of person do you want to be in this world view? Help your child find the intersection between him and the world! How to discuss worldview? 1. Science and technology news 2. Financial news 3. Biographies 4. Film and television works 5. News in fields that family members are interested in. These contents do not have high requirements for parents and children, and you can do it if you are willing! How to help children find the intersection between themselves and the world? 1. Who are the outstanding people in the field that the child is interested in? How did it grow? Who are the better organizations and companies? How was it started? How to join them? For example, if a child is interested in games, who is good at playing games in this field, and who is the best person to design games? How did it grow? CCTV recommends over 500 excellent documentaries with high scores. Are there any famous companies in the field of self-discipline addiction that children watch? How to join them? 2. Parents can also talk about their own lives. What is your biggest regret? How is it caused? What are the highlight moments in your life? What setbacks have you experienced? How did you overcome it? In fact, it is about how parents themselves find the intersection between themselves and the world. Life education > Life education > Survival education. There is a very important thing in life: parents with a lot of ambitions only talk to their children about learning, which is too young. Life is far beyond learning. ! What is this very important ambition? The ambition is mainly to find answers to two questions: 1. Who am I? 2. What can I do for the world? Take action with your kids!