How to get closer to your children

Suhomlinsky said: \”The foundation of educational talent lies in the deep belief that it is possible to successfully educate every child. I do not believe that there are hopeless children, teenagers or young men and women.\” Teachers always maintain a childlike innocence, learn to feel the inner world of children, and think about problems from the students\’ standpoint. Only by walking into them, feeling their hearts, and caring about them can we win their respect and trust. [Case Background] Student L only went to kindergarten for one year because of his mother\’s doting. As a result, he was very unruly and would not enter the classroom during class, so I searched for him all over the campus. The courseware is very lively, and I am always out of tune during class. I don’t know which page to turn to in the textbook. In line with the teaching style of never giving up on any child and achieving success for everyone, I patiently guided him and taught him carefully. Top 10 bestsellers Li Zhongying\’s Comprehensive Parent-Child Relationship Skills e-book [Case Analysis and Reflection] Fortunately, the school has introduced the \”7 Habits of Highly Effective People\”. When I participated in Coach Mai\’s training course, there was a case that particularly impressed me. Shen: The female teacher took over one of the worst classes, but she said to the students: \”I am the best teacher, and you are the best children.\” A miracle happened. So I think I also want to say to my children, \”You are the best, and I am also the oldest and best teacher.\” I also often tell this child privately, you are the best child, and I work hard to find his strengths. During a meeting with his mother, I learned that he wanted to be a special forces soldier when he grew up. So, I motivated him from this aspect. I would also chat with him and tell him about the characteristics of special forces, such as being very loyal and loving to help classmates. This naturally brought us closer, and he developed a strong sense of trust and closeness to me. I clearly felt that he liked me very much and also liked my math class. I usually ask some relatively simple questions for him to answer in class to improve his self-confidence. After school every day, he actually finished the little champion\’s homework ahead of time. His mother also told me: The child likes mathematics very much. He no longer always lies on the ground, he will often rush to wipe the blackboard, and will take the initiative to lend learning materials to students in need… Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: \”I don’t want your gold, I don’t want your silver, as long as you \”Heart.\” As long as the teacher cares about, respects, understands, and trusts the students, then all the buds of the students will grow better after being cared for and nourished by the teacher\’s words and actions.