In the lower grades of primary school, the correct way to accompany your children to do homework

After entering elementary school, 95% of children need their parents to accompany them when doing homework. Those 5% who don\’t need to be accompanied are mainly very outstanding academic children. From the perspective of being responsible for your children and your own future, the sooner you accompany, the sooner you will be relieved, and the sooner you accompany, the sooner you will save worry. When it comes to accompanying our children to do homework, each of us has a very different understanding and operation. The feeling I used to have can be combined with the word \”heart\” to form many famous phrases, such as heart blockage, myocardial infarction, heart fatigue, and palpitations. Later, it escalated to carelessness and short-sightedness, and then the problem almost disappeared. When I was in first grade, I thought about whether to buy some life insurance; I also wondered how my good friend who was doing heart stent business was doing lately. After several years of real experience, I now feel that I have survived and there is nothing wrong with me, because my heart is already at the level of a field army. Let\’s get back to the topic, I think the word \”accompany\” in accompanying children to do their homework is very learned. Accompanying means accompanying and accompanying, but it is not offside or interfering. If you position this angle well, half the battle is won. How can I write my homework quickly? Efficient homework lessons for children aged 5 to 12, all 12 MP4 lessons. Therefore, the most important thing for accompanying children in homework is to keep parents emotionally stable. When you are in a good state of mind, companionship is most efficient and the atmosphere is the most pleasant. If we are tired from the day, thinking about boring work, and looking at a pile of unfinished housework, then the unknown fire will have been ignited when we sit down. At this time, we see the child in a daze, playing with a rubber , for a while I can’t find the book, for a while I can’t write the question, and for a while I write it wrong again, then the 80% will burst out, even if I can think about it, I have to hold back the internal injury. If you think about it from their perspective, we may have had these problems with them since childhood, and if you are a boy, you will probably have your daddy’s naughty gene at play. I once asked my friend Mr. Yun how he studied when he was a child, and he said: My grandfather watched me study and write with a stick every day, and beat me if I didn\’t write well. Therefore, we must be open-minded. We are ordinary people and children too. The fact that we can be so majestic, calm and composed now (our shining points in everything) is the result of years of practice; we also looked forward to it every day when we were children. I\’m on vacation and don\’t want to go to school. Children are just walking their own path in life, which shows that they are innocent children (not that they are ignorant). In fact, I have always admired Lele. I definitely never learned so much complicated knowledge when I was his age. I don’t even remember what I learned in the third grade of elementary school, but it must have been simple. My current attitude toward Lele’s mathematics is to be free-ranging. That is, he does not study online courses and teaching materials in advance, and lets him go to class with unknown knowledge and listen with questions. This semester’s math class started learning division formulas, so after the teacher started teaching division of two dividends, he was not very good at writing homework in the evening. I think he might have listened to it in class and then forgotten it. When he asked me how to calculate, I was a little confused. I also forgot whether it was correct to write the division formula this way. I thought about it for a long time and gave him a rough outline of my method. He thought for a while and then understood, and continued to do the questions. I have always been shy in front of his homework.The more \”modest\” person, I told his mother that he had forgotten the previous content, and some of the things he learned were not very clear, so he would not particularly count on me. I gave him the topic and discussed with him whether it was the right thing to do, so that he could recall the class and remember it in the future. In this way, he will dare to discuss with me even if he doesn\’t know how to do it, and he will not have too much psychological burden when doing homework. We should accompany our children with an equal attitude, and should not bring other things and bad emotions into the process, so as to make the process of homework simple. Homework is a process of consolidating knowledge. We must first accept the reality that they are not proactive, and then calmly put forward our requirements to them. Even if we do not do well, there will be next time, slowly. Grow and make progress slowly. Don\’t make your child nervous at the thought of homework, and don\’t turn homework into a test or test. Do not put homework as a priority for the whole family. Don’t do homework while there are people carrying water, delivering fruits, sharpening pencils, and clearing the place. There are also people who are staring at books and looking at them closely. The more this happens, the more children will feel that homework is a special thing, and they will not be able to find it. We need to let our children know and convey this message to them. Homework is your own business. I am helping you now. If you need any help, you can ask your parents for help. You are studying for yourself, not for your parents. Companionship is needed, but not watching and staring at them. We can also watch him write, watch his stroke order and their layout, and complete it in a state where he will not feel annoyed or uncomfortable. Moreover, we also need to give ourselves something to do. Lele is doing homework, and sometimes I will do housework while I come over to check on him when he has nothing to do. Sometimes I would watch him write and write. I would also hold a notebook or book in my hand, or something else that could be done. Sometimes I would look at my phone secretly, and he would not care what I was doing. Moreover, I think children should be trained in their ability to do homework in noisy environments from an early age. In this way, when he grows up, he will get used to completing his homework in any environment and will not always complain about the noise and interruption. Lele has his own study table, but in order to watch him while working, I often let him do his homework on the dining table, and he is used to it. He writes his, and I do my own. I think this is the integration of study and life. Think about what we were like when we were children. Not everyone has a dedicated study table and his own room, but top students can still study while herding sheep. After finishing their homework, give them free time and let them write their homework with goals in mind. At the same time, we should use more encouragement methods. Encouragement is always easier for people to make progress than discouragement. When accompanying your children to do homework, don’t be too demanding. If the requirements are high, it is best if they can remember it; if they cannot remember it, then choose to take it slow. Lele\’s first and second grade homework was really appalling. Originally, his handwriting was large and small, not so neat, and he didn\’t know how to pay attention to cleanliness and tidiness. After rubbing his hand on the paper for a while, the paper turned black. I was quite angry about this, and sometimes I would erase the words and ask him to rewrite them. In the end, it depends on who can convince whom. Most of the time, even though he is tired and unhappy (he also knowsIt won’t work without changing it), just do it again according to my request. Gradually he memorized the process and requirements, and his writing became neater than before. Essentials for Family Education: How to Encourage Children’s Progress and Self-Confidence, 70 episodes in total. Praise and affirm their progress more, and your children will benefit from it. Even if you look at his handwriting today, he still looks like an earthworm, but he will gradually get better. Lele started to write the character \”walking aside\” when he was in first grade. Every time I saw him writing this radical, I was very anxious. I couldn\’t master it well when I taught him to write it, and he also wrote backwards. Later, I gave up. After two years, he came to his own realization. Now writing this radical is obviously much better than before. The last time I saw it, I seriously encouraged him to \”make progress in his writing.\” Accompanying children to do homework is a battle of wits and courage, and everyone has their own history of blood and tears. A mother who has never collapsed must have raised a repaying child. However, anger is anger. We still need to summarize and refine a set of methods suitable for our children in this process, and then slowly increase the requirements and lengthen the line slowly, so that he can equate this matter with himself. , let him find the gap and take the initiative to grow from the teacher\’s evaluation and the comparison of classmates\’ homework.