A family that cares about everything will never grow out of a child with a broad mind.

The structure of the family determines the child\’s perspective on the world. There is a question on Zhihu: \”Does the pattern of parents have a big impact on children?\” One highly praised answer is: \”Very big. Whether parents are positive or negative has a great impact on children.\” Yu Minhong, founder of New Oriental Zeng once said: \”It is difficult for a child who comes from a fussy family to be broad-minded, and it is also difficult to find an innocent child in a secular family.\” Do children look at the world from a broad perspective, or from a narrow perspective? The key to looking at the world lies in your parents. Because of the movie \”Young You\”, popular actor Yi Yang Qianxi\’s acting skills have been praised and affirmed by many netizens. In addition to his wonderful performance in the film, his speech at the opening ceremony of the Chinese Theater Academy was also impressive. He said: \”As future art workers, in addition to looking straight up and looking up, our eyes should look down, look down on suffering and illness, and look down on corners and gaps.\” \”What we see in our eyes, in addition to the prosperous scenery, should also include the warmth and warmth of the world. , what we should have, in addition to an open-minded vision and mind, we also need a creative soul that is compassionate and compassionate.\” This speech really showed the rare high-level pattern of the post-00 generation. Such a pattern is inseparable from the influence of his mother on him. His mother\’s positive outlook on life has influenced Yi Yang Qianxi since he was a child. He not only works hard to make progress but also loves himself, his parents and the world. Many of the perspectives from which we view the world come from the way our parents view the world. Writer Lu Jinbo once said: \”Don\’t just create a secular, immediate, and small world for your child. You must show it to her from an early age.\” Starry sky, ocean, dinosaurs, myths, sages. In this way, when he grows up, he will have enough mind to tolerate all kinds of boring life.\” The best education for parents is to use their own personality charm, way of thinking, Infect your children with your attitude towards the world. The bigger your pattern is, the better the outcome of your children will be. Don\’t ruin your child\’s life by fussing over trivial matters. Someone once said, \”Parents are the children of the past, and children are the parents of the future. Parents are copy machines, and children are copies. For many problems, we have to look for them from the source instead of blaming the results.\” There are no born naughty children, only education Missing parents. Anyone who can educate noble children must be from a noble family. A person who grew up in a very narrow family must not have a noble personality. The so-called expensiveness does not mean the amount of wealth, but the nobleness of the parents, the nobleness of the parents, the nobleness of the parents\’ educational philosophy, and even more valuable, the parents\’ precepts and deeds. I still remember a video shared by netizens not long ago: In a playground in a shopping mall in Hangzhou, a girl accidentally stepped on a boy\’s foot, and the little girl\’s mother kept apologizing. The little boy\’s mother seemed unyielding and kept roaring hysterically, completely ignoring her husband\’s comfort at her side and her son being scared to tears. At this time, the boy\’s mother had lost control of her emotions and lost all her demeanor. Chen Xiyi said in his handed down work \”Xin Xiang Pian\”: \”Competing with qi baht, how can we expect great success?\” qi baht is the unit of weight in ancient times. One qi is one quarter of one tael, and one baht is one tael. of twenty-four. People who care about such a small thing, how can it be possible to afford great events and great blessings? Parents who care about everything often end up raising children who are timid, cowardly, or equally careless. An ancient saying goes: Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and mice give birth to burrows. This is the truth. The values ​​​​of a native family determine the fate of a child\’s life. Instead of beating and scolding children with sincerity, choosing and picking on good teachers in good schools, and blaming various ills and shortcomings in society, it is better to start from the parents themselves. Parents with foresight train their children this way. Cultivating a child with a broad mind will not only benefit him throughout his life, but will also be beneficial to his physical health and the harmony and affection among family members. The core ingredient of having a broad mind is tolerance. At the Nobel Prize for Literature award ceremony, Mo Yan recalled his mother’s story: When he was a child, he followed his mother to pick wheat ears in the collective field. He was discovered by the people guarding the wheat field, and his mother was slapped by the tall watchman. . The scene of his mother falling to the ground helpless made Mo Yan unforgettable. Many years later, Mo Yan met the gray-haired caretaker again in the market. When he wanted to rush forward for revenge, his mother held him back. My mother said: \”Son, the person who hit me is not the same person as this old man.\” Also during the Mid-Autumn Festival, the family rarely made a meal of dumplings, and each person only had one bowl. An old man begging came to the door of his house. Mo Yan gave half a bowl of sweet potatoes to the beggar. The beggar was a little dissatisfied. Mo Yan said angrily: \”Our family can\’t eat dumplings a few times a year. Each person only has a small bowl. It\’s good to give you sweet potatoes!\” After hearing Mo Yan\’s words, his mother immediately stopped him and scolded him, and then picked up half of his bowl. The dumplings were poured into the old man\’s bowl. Tolerance, kindness, and not fussing over things are the life patterns of this illiterate mother. There are no great principles of lofty ideals, only examples of setting an example. Bai Yansong wrote in \”Letter to My Son: Learn Tolerance\”: \”If you can choose all the virtues by yourself, son, you should first pick out tolerance. It will make you put love first, and tolerance will make you easy-going, It allows you to take things that some people value very lightly. Tolerance will also prevent you from insomnia. No matter how big the unhappiness or fierce conflict is, you will not spend the night in a tolerant mind.\” There are no shortcuts on the road to growth. . Therefore, to truly love a child is not to put him in a greenhouse, but to let him have stars and sea in his eyes and warm light in his heart. In the face of wind and rain, you can be unafraid and wait for the wind and rain to calm down. The road of life is firm and loving.