As a mother, how can I raise a boy with such a powerful boyfriend?

A few nights ago, I was lying beside the bed weakly due to a high fever, watching my son playing with toys next to me. When I was drowsy, I was woken up by my two and a half year old son. While blowing on the warm water in the cup, the little guy stretched out his fleshy little hand and handed over two pills. She carefully told me, \”Mom, the medicine is a bit bitter, so be brave!\” At this time, the weak old woman like me was deeply moved by the scene in front of me. It turned out that the child knew that I was sick, and asked my grandma for help, and asked for cold medicine, hoping that I Get well soon. Like any family with a boy, most of the day is spent in a state of hesitation. I can\’t understand the fun this kid has in hitting and killing with a stick every day, nor can I explore the child\’s devilish laughter when he cuts the toy into pieces. I felt helpless that every cabinet in the house was in a mess. It\’s this \”naughty child\” who provokes the volcanic eruption every minute. Once warmed up, people lose their temper in an instant and are caught off guard. How do we raise a son whose boyfriend is full of energy? Let you bathe in love and deeply experience the warmth of love. A child is like a petite flower. Only by pouring love and care into it on the way of growth and making it feel safe will it bloom with dazzling brilliance in the flowering period. The son of Huo Siyan and Du Jiang, Huh Huh, has gained numerous fans in \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”. Many netizens marveled at this child\’s way of thinking and powerful vocabulary, and even admitted that his emotional intelligence far exceeds that of children of the same age. What makes Uh-huh’s communication skills so powerful? It is not difficult to see through the program. In their little home, the word that often comes up is \”I love you.\” Uhm\’s parents are never stingy in expressing love. It is this kind of firm expression in daily life that builds strong self-confidence in their children. In the new season of \”Mom is Superman\”, the warm-hearted man once again upgraded to a love-talking little prince, interpreting the rhythm of \”fancy pampering mom\” all the time. The scene that touched me the most was on Mother\’s Day. Little Uhm, dressed in a cartoon giraffe costume, walked up to Huo Siyan and said to her affectionately: Mom, thank you for giving birth to me. Then he sang a song \”Only Mom is Good in the World\” to wish my mother a happy holiday. Mother Huo Siyan\’s eyes shone with tears of emotion. Seeing this, the old mother wiped the wet corners of her eyes and shouted in her heart: It would be great for my son, who is so warm to be wet, to give me a round. It is precisely because my father loves my mother that he has made plans for this holiday in advance even though he is busy working outside. It is precisely because the son loves his mother that he can express his heartfelt gratitude to his mother. Love makes this small family full of cohesion. Psychologist Winnicott once said: If you want your baby to eventually develop into a healthy, independent and gregarious adult, you must give him a good start. This good start exists between you and the baby. In the natural family relationship, the key is \”love\”. On the road of children\’s growth, we carefully irrigate them with love and express them with actions. Communicate patiently when it’s time to pour in your feelings, rely on each other when it’s time to build trust, ride out the storm, and wait for the flowers to bloom. Sense of responsibility is the most basic character I teach you. From the moment a baby is born, he is an independent person. He has the right to face choices alone and be responsible for them. Parents are ordinaryTaking care of everything for your children in a 360-degree manner will only make your children lose their sense of responsibility while enjoying the success. When encountering setbacks or mistakes in the future, you can feel free to make excuses for yourself and shirk responsibility. A few days ago, I took my son to eat at KFC. A mother\’s approach made the people dining there look at her with admiration. At that time, the child probably couldn\’t resist the temptation of the ice cream and clamored to hold the tray by himself. When his mother said it was a bit heavy, he still insisted on carrying it by himself. Unexpectedly, with a slip of his hand, the tray he had just received fell to the ground, and French fries, ice cream and Coke spilled all over the floor. Suddenly, the child\’s cry attracted everyone\’s attention. Just when everyone expected that the child would be scolded or even beaten, his mother squatted down and comforted the child, \”Oh, you must be very sad. It doesn\’t matter, you were too impatient this time. Remember to be careful next time, or ask your mother for help.\” \”The crying little guy didn\’t seem to be scolded, but was gently comforted by his mother. With their heads pounding like garlic, at their mother\’s suggestion, the mother and son picked up the remaining ice cream and French fries on the floor with paper towels and threw them into the trash can, and borrowed a mop to mop the floor clean. Although the staff immediately arranged for someone to come over and clean, the mother gently stopped her: it was him who failed to do a good job and he should be responsible. After doing this, the mother bought another ice cream for the child. Seeing the child carefully holding the ice cream in his hands and licking it sweetly, I think he seemed to understand the meaning of responsibility. Responsibility is to do one thing well to the best of one\’s ability and to protect things that are important to oneself. In this process, children will inevitably not understand and make mistakes. As a parent, guide with an inclusive attitude and let your children appreciate the powerful charm of a responsible person. On the other hand, some parents blame their children for slippery ground when they fall when they are toddlers; when their children forget to bring their homework books and are criticized by the teacher, they blame themselves for not helping their children tidy up. Even when the child\’s behavior endangers society, the child is excused on the grounds that \”he is just a child\”. From the beginning to the end, it is believed that the child can do no wrong. This attitude of evading responsibility directly affects the child\’s life. A person who lacks a sense of responsibility for his family and society will eventually become selfish, narrow-minded, find it difficult to integrate into the collective, and will even find it difficult to join the society. Share half of the housework with you and share love with each other. Depending on the child\’s different stages, choose to let the baby join in the housework, starting from simply folding clothes and wiping the table, and transitioning to doing laundry and cooking. This not only increases the parent-child interaction, but also promotes the child\’s transformation from being completely dependent on his parents to becoming a wealthy and independent person. courage. Children who are willing to participate in housework know better about sharing the joy, and also know how to cherish the fruits of others\’ labor and promote their all-round development. On Weibo, a video of Tydus, a 3-year-old boy from California, sparked a heated discussion among mothers. In the video, Tydus talks about preparing a dinner for the girl who is special to him. From buying ingredients to picking flowers and placing tables and chairs, the young man did everything in an orderly manner. Food is microwaved and bread is put into the oven, all in a deft and natural manner. There was an incident when he got the juice. The first time the juice slipped and spilled all over the floor. He wiped it clean and poured it again. The second time he actually…He even fell down with the cup. The moment the little guy fell, my heart clenched. But he quickly got up and went to get the juice again. There was no frustration or annoyance throughout the whole process, and I even sang a cheerful song, telling myself: Be careful this time. After carefully checking the prepared food, a special girl came – his mother. When his mother surprised him for dinner and expressed her gratitude, he expressed affectionately, \”Mom, I love you.\” The mothers in the group couldn\’t help but sigh, and their eyes confirmed that this was really a diamond-level little lover. The little boy devoted himself to the joy of housework throughout the whole process. Even if he failed repeatedly, he still did not get discouraged, did not complain, and moved forward optimistically. There is a joke on the Internet: It is said that a daughter is her mother’s little cotton-padded jacket, careful, kind, gentle and considerate. So what is a son? The netizen with the most likes replied: My son wears a leather jacket. When it’s cold, it can’t protect me from the cold. When it’s warm, it’s too hot. It’s expensive. It’s a pity to throw it away. I can only wear it to show off, and brag about it to everyone I meet. leather jacket. Such a reply immediately made mothers with baby boys hide their faces and sigh. Hey! Moms, there is no need to worry. Our sons just have rough lines and are informal. Ours is a leather jacket, and it is also a shock-resistant leather jacket. Will you try it when the storm comes? I will definitely be able to step forward and protect you. That little lover from the past life, may you learn responsibility and responsibility in love. Learn respect and gratitude in life practice. As we grow together, we are full of manpower and doting on our mother.