Parents who control their children in the name of love are the ones who should be educated

Today’s article is written to all parents, especially my father and my mother, who can take the time to watch this documentary, which only has three episodes. The content of the documentary is simple: four children from three families are in trouble because they dropped out of school. The parents had no choice but to send their children to a special school in Wuhan to receive \”reformation.\” During the \”reformation\” period, the child undergoes 81 days of training and…

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A father with high emotional intelligence and a mother with a good mood are the best feng shui for a family.

I saw a piece of news some time ago: A 10-year-old girl lost her temper at her mother because she got up and said a lot of hurtful words. The mother sadly locked herself in the room, but the father deftly resolved the awkwardness between mother and daughter. The father wrote down 15 things that the mother had done for his daughter and asked her daughter to confirm them one by one. ● Did your mother buy you clothes? ● …

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Children do not obey how to do? Don\’t let \”disobedience\” harm your child…

My cousin posted on WeChat Moments late at night, saying that she felt very tired recently. I quickly sent her a private message to ask her what was wrong. It turned out that it was my naughty nephew who made her so angry. I heard from my cousin that my 9-year-old nephew has recently become obsessed with watching cartoons, such as Peppa Pig, Paw Paw Squad, and Ultraman. He is always watching TV when he should do his homework, and he is still watching it during meals, no matter what. listen. I asked my cousin…

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What is the impact of watching TV on children? Don’t ignore this before the age of 5

\”Why can you adults watch TV, but not children?\” \”You adults are so overbearing!\” The sister-in-law was very angry at her son\’s words. It turned out that my sister-in-law sent her son to my grandma’s house for the summer vacation. After coming back these days, my son stays at home and watches TV every day. He can\’t even shout, as if he wants to catch up on all the cartoons he has missed in the past few years. As soon as I turn off the TV, I get all kinds of angry…

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The most powerful soft power: the importance of children’s independence

A few days ago, when I went to visit a friend in a rehabilitation center, I was deeply moved by a mother and her son. \”Mom, don\’t cry. I\’m not afraid of pain. I\’ll keep practicing.\” A little boy about ten years old, with the support of his mother, walked forward with difficulty. I heard from a friend that the little boy injured his left leg in a car accident and ruptured his Achilles tendon. In order to prevent her son from becoming disabled, this mother…

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What makes children more knowledgeable than traveling is this

As soon as the summer vacation begins, the \”travel sharing\” mode has been launched in WeChat Moments. The difference is that almost every summer travel photo has a baby in it. Check Moments before going to bed, and you can walk from the ends of the earth to the Hulunbuir Prairie, and from the beaches of Qingdao to the Potala Palace in Tibet without leaving home. A few days ago, my best friend Tangtang also took her 5-year-old daughter to \”go out to see…

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Why are women grumpy? You can also watch this mother’s transformation

Four or five months after returning home from the divorce, life gradually settled down. The child gradually became familiar with living with his grandparents. One day when I was playing with the child, the child looked at me and suddenly said with a smile, \”My previous mother was the most grumpy mother in the world.\” I have to admit that when the child was three or four years old, because of There is a problem in the marriage, hesitating between separation and not separation, and taking on a lot of responsibility…

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Parents are the best tutors for their children, that is, the love between husband and wife

I once saw a question on Zhihu: What does it feel like to be a child whose parents have bad relationships? The person who asked the question also talked about his own experience and feelings: Every time when the New Year comes, I always dare not go back. Memories are filled with parents blaming each other and quarreling. They disliked each other, but did not separate for various reasons. When I was a kid, every time they quarreled, threw things, and had a cold war, I would cry helplessly in the corner…

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A collection of 5 breakfast recipes for children. The first one is the most harmful to your children. Don’t eat it again.

A few days ago, the neighbor\’s child was poisoned! This is no joke. 6-year-old Dongdong went to an interest class. Within a few minutes, he started vomiting and became so dizzy that he could not stand. The teacher rushed him to the hospital. After checking, I found out that Dongdong was suffering from nitrite poisoning. It turns out that Dongdong likes to eat white porridge with pickles for breakfast. That morning he ate a lot of grandma\’s freshly pickled vegetables…

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alert! I can’t imagine the consequences of criticizing children at these 7 moments…

A few days ago, I saw a piece of news: A girl was criticized by her mother for trivial family matters, and she hid in the mountains and forests without saying anything. In the end, the police searched for 30 hours overnight to find the girl. Some people said: \”He ran away from home after just a few words of criticism. This child is too ignorant.\” Some people said: \”Mom must have criticized too much.\” In fact,…

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