I was heartbroken by two children today. My tears were not low, but looking at what the children said, I shed tears over and over again. In \”Youth Talk\”, Ouyang Shuangrong, a second-grade girl, wants her parents to spend her birthday with her. She said: \”In my impression, my parents have never spent their birthdays with me. When I see other children\’s birthdays with their parents, I am very…
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Children who feel safe inside will not have bad luck
A few days ago, I accidentally saw photos of Li Yan attending a catwalk show in Paris for the second time, and I was once again touched by this confident little girl. This 12-year-old girl dares to expose her shortcomings to the media and the spotlight again and again. Her inner strength has long surpassed that of children of the same age. We all know that Li Yan has been born with two labels: the second generation star and cleft lip and palate. this…
What is maternal love? Those Chinese children ruined by \”maternal love\”
Recently, a TV series called \”Your Children Are Not Your Children\” caught the attention of Beaver Mom. This film and television drama from Taiwan has attracted a lot of attention and heated discussions since its launch, and its ratings on Douban have also skyrocketed. Out of 10 points, it achieved an impressive score of 8 points, which is relatively rare in domestic dramas. Among them, the one that most arouses concern among Beaver Mom…
When children are angry with us, that is when they need us most
There was a video that lasted just five minutes and made my chest feel tight. The title is very eye-catching: \”This is the scariest child I have ever seen.\” As soon as the video started, the child started to run rampant, throwing things when he saw them, turning over tables when he saw them, and hitting people when he saw them. It fully meets people\’s expectations of \”naughty children\”. Seeing the child in this state, the mother dragged him and only said, \”Why are you so angry?\”…
Who took away the child\’s happiness? It\’s the love of your selfish genes
Recently, Zhu Yuchen’s mother has become popular. Her shocking remarks on the show triggered heated discussions among the melon-eating crowd. She gets up early at four o\’clock every day to stew pear juice for her son, and intervenes in every relationship of her son. She insists that women should be good wives and mothers. Under her mother\’s strict control, Zhu Yuchen was forced to become a mama\’s boy. Her first love, Tang Wei, broke up and Jiang Yan, who was about to get married, also broke up. So…
Why does the more you comfort a child, the harder he cries?
Some time ago, my son Xiaoshu just started going to kindergarten and made a new friend, Xuanxuan. One day after school, Xuanxuan’s mother and I were walking and chatting, while the two children were playing together. At this time, Xiaoshu wanted to pick a dandelion on the roadside, but Xuanxuan stopped Xiaoshu. The little tree insisted on picking it, so the two little guys argued for a while, and Xuanxuan began to cry violently. Xuanxuan mother…
There are many benefits of baby swimming, but many parents ignore it before their baby learns to swim.
A friend\’s child is one year older than Ogawa and just signed up for swimming lessons last month. However, after a few weeks, there was no improvement at all. Every time there is class, her children sit by the pool and dare not go into the water. Even if he saw other children practicing vigorously with the coach, he would not be moved at all. I want my child to learn to swim as soon as possible, but I don’t want him to be “forced” into the water by the coach. My friend said…
What should I do if my child has low self-esteem? It turns out that there is such a family behind it all…
Children who are pushed away will deeply feel that \”I am not lovable.\” Children who are hit will deeply feel that \”I can\’t do it.\” At a party a few days ago, a friend who is a teacher talked about a child, and everyone cried. The little girl is 8 years old and in second grade. She is a delicate and beautiful child. But she was too inferior and never dared to raise her hand to answer questions. The teacher called on her and she stood up…
If you don’t understand your child’s temperament type, you will never be able to teach your child well.
Sometimes, you will hear parents complain: \”This child has a really weird temper\” and \”This child is really difficult to raise\”… In fact, in many cases it is because parents don\’t know their children well enough. What we usually call \”temper\” is actually \”temperament type\” in psychological terms. There is no distinction between good and bad temperament, and children with different temperaments require different care. What is temperament? …
What should parents do when their children are bullied? A more effective method than teaching \”fight back\” is…
Today when I was browsing Weibo, I saw Cao Cao and Diao Chan posting a video about school violence. The title is: Campus violence has finally reversed. The story in the video goes something like this: A group of seven or eight-year-old girls were practicing dancing in a dance studio, and one of the stronger girls, A, pushed B to the ground without mercy. The teacher did not notice A\’s move and thought that B did not practice well…