My baby will go to kindergarten soon. How to deal with separation anxiety?

A few days ago, a mother said that her 3-year-old son was looking for a kindergarten. Unexpectedly, the little guy talked well at home and was fine with his mother accompanying him at school. But when it came time to separate, my son just refused to let go. Finally she forced the child\’s hand away. The teacher also said you go first, it’s okay to cry. But in the end she still couldn\’t bear it, and said she would wait a few days to send it off, and then brought…

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Baby, don\’t be like me

Baby, mommy loves you very much. Mom is here today to tell you frankly about my past. I hope you can learn from it and not make the same mistakes as mom. Don’t fight for toys with your friends. My mother used to be good friends with a girl from the neighbor. The girl wears two braids and goes to and from school with her mother every day. But in order to fight for a good-looking goose-yellow hairpin, we…

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10 traits of highly intelligent children, do your children have them?

People with an IQ of 130 or above are generally considered \”high IQ\” among the population, accounting for about 2% of the population. For example, whether a child can be admitted to a 985 college in the future has a lot to do with heredity and IQ to a certain extent. Surveys show that the IQ of students in 985 colleges is above 120 to 125. In first-tier cities, the admission rate of 985 colleges accounts for 10% of their peers. 5%. Mutually…

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Children with clear psychological boundaries will be more independent

It was my mother-in-law’s birthday the day before yesterday, and my son happily returned to his hometown with his beloved toy car. However, a small thing made my mother-in-law and I feel unhappy. As soon as he got home, his son couldn\’t wait to put the toy car on the ground and start playing with it. Upon seeing this, the little nephew quickly ran over and quickly took it aside to play with. Several times, my son tried to take the car back, but was…

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What should I do if my child is dawdling in doing things? Because you always urge me

If we were to make a ranking list and vote for the educational issues that trouble parents the most, I would guess that \”children are too lazy\” would probably make the top ten. Dilly-dallying seems to be a chronic disease, sweeping across all age groups from four or five years old to adolescence. Many parents are troubled by this and have no solution. I have a lot to say about this matter, and I might not be able to finish it even if I write 10,000 words, because I have…

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Why don\’t you let your mother-in-law take care of the children? What this mother said is true.

I am the mother of a 2-year-old boy and live with my husband in Guangzhou. When I was pregnant with the child, my parents-in-law hoped that I could leave the child in my hometown and let them take care of it. But this means being separated from the child, so I tend to take care of it myself. However, I still feel a little guilty because my mother-in-law thinks so highly of my grandson. After giving birth to the child, I stayed at my husband\’s house for two…

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The sad record of helping left-behind children in China: no one cares when they are alive, and no one knows when they are dead

A few days ago, I watched a Japanese movie \”Nobody Knows\” that was released in 2004. The movie\’s scenes were very refreshing, but the content was very cruel. The protagonist of the film is Ming, a 14-year-old boy who is the older brother of three younger siblings. These four children are all gangsters, and they have the same mother and half father. The children\’s mother is an unstable person. One day she left 2…

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Poor boys are the most hurtful!

Last weekend, I took my son to the mall to buy him some summer clothes. Various children\’s clothing stores are filled with beautiful clothes. But almost two-thirds of the place was hung with girls\’ clothes. When it comes to finding clothes for boys, there really aren’t many opportunities to choose. \”Why do boys always have so few clothes?\” \”Girls love to be beautiful! If you want to dress beautifully, everyone is willing to give girls…

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Parents, you missed my golden childhood, and you will never have the chance to come back again.

I watched \”Youth Talk\” a few days ago. Many children stood on the stage and bravely expressed their wishes. Among them, the most mentioned one was that they wanted to be accompanied by their parents. There was a boy whose mother went to Guangzhou to start a business alone when he was a child. The boy was grateful that his mother had created good material conditions for him, but what he longed for more was his mother\’s company. He said to his mother: From my childhood…

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