Competing with Douyin to compete for children, how can a mother win?

A VC said: Some people say that Douyin is the spiritual opium of the new era. This is not conclusive, but it obviously has the potential of an opium. For me, who has been involved in Internet companies, it is difficult to ignore such hot words such as financing, traffic, and valuation when faced with such a popular product. So one day I deliberately downloaded Douyin to see what it was about. I originally…

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How to raise a boy at home and feel more secure inside

Many of our boys are suffering in silence. The reason this is so harmful is due to the prejudices of adults. For example, you will often hear words like this: \”It\’s so shameful for a man to cry!\” \”I\’ve never seen you so stingy when you give toys to your sister to play with. A man must be generous, you know?\” There is also a very lethal sentence. Common words. \”How dare boys…

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For the sake of the future of his children, Andy Lau, who is the king, can only be an ordinary parent.

Andy Lau’s daughter graduated from kindergarten! Not long ago, Andy Lau wore a light-colored casual suit and attended his daughter\’s kindergarten graduation ceremony with his wife Zhu Liqian. Most of the time, he stared intently at the graduation stage, smiling from time to time. When his daughter received her diploma, he stood up with excitement. He exchanged thoughts with his wife from time to time and watched Andy Lau\’s performance…

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What should you do if your child talks back and disobeys? This is a good thing!

My cousin said that she was very angry with her son Xiao Shanbao recently. The exam is about to come, so Xiao Shanbao should go home and open his pad to play around. His cousin advised him to finish his homework first and then play. Xiaoshanbao pushed back: Why can\’t I play first and then do my homework? In the English mock test the next day, Xiao Shanbao made a lot of mistakes and made several mistakes in very simple words. My cousin was very angry. She didn’t expect Xiaoshanbao…

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Is it so difficult to listen well to children? Watching a reality show will make you vomit blood

Hunan Satellite TV produced a variety show \”Youth Talk\”, which allowed children to stand on a high platform and shout out their feelings. A clip of a girl shouting to her mother went viral on Weibo. A friend forwarded the link and told me angrily: \”It made me angry and wanted to cry. I was also raised like this. I swear to God that I will never become such a mother!\” Seeing how excited she was, I hurriedly …

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Why is it more scary for grandma to take care of children than grandma?

After my sister gave birth to her child, her whole person changed. Specifically, she is in a state of high tension whenever she encounters something related to her children. There is almost nothing else in her eyes except her children. The most direct consequence of this change was the frequent conflicts between her and my mother. At first, I was on my mother\’s side, especially when my mother cried and \”accused\” my sister…

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How much trouble has your urging caused to the child?

Picture: The boy with gray eyes On the weekend, the family went hiking. My son slept late the day before and got up early because he was climbing a mountain. He screamed and got up quickly. The speed of dressing and eating is twice as fast as when I go to school on weekdays. I endured it for a long time and finally did not say anything like, It would be better if you go to school so soon. After breakfast, he packed his satchel and said, Mom and Dad,…

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When children are irritable and lose their temper, that is when they need love the most.

A friend said her 7-year-old daughter ran away from home. It turns out that last night, my daughter made a fuss and insisted on letting her friends tell her bedtime stories. After hearing the stories one after another, her daughter just refused to sleep. After working all day, my friend was sleepy and tired, so she said to her daughter in a hurry: \”Believe it or not, I will send you back to your hometown tomorrow!\” \”You don\’t need to send me there, I will run away from home to find my grandma.\” After that, the daughter…

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Participating in a charity sale in my son’s class, I saw three completely different types of parents.

A few days ago, I participated in a charity sale at my son’s school. Because there was something going on in my hometown, I didn’t go home until the day before the event. That night I looked at the items he had prepared for the charity sale. There are five or six books in total, and a few small toys. He chose the books well. \”The Magic School Bus\” and \”You Look Delicious\” were both taken out by him. And toys seem a bit too stingy…

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Using the right methods of criticism and self-criticism, children become more and more confident

At the beginning of this month, at the invitation of the teacher, I went to Xiaopai School to chat about her recent study situation. Unexpectedly, she encountered a small accident. During recess, one of Xiaopai\’s classmates suddenly sat on the floor and burst into tears. No matter how much the teacher and classmates comforted him, he couldn\’t stop crying. He cried for more than half an hour. At first they thought something big had happened, but after the teacher inquired carefully, he roughly understood…

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