Congratulations, your child has started to say \”no\” to you

A few days ago, I received messages from several mothers in my mailbox. A mother said that her child, who was more than 3 years old, suddenly seemed to have changed. The son who used to be obedient and well-behaved is gone. Now, no matter what his mother says, he always likes to say \”no\” to ask him to eat, and he just says, \”I don\’t want to eat.\” I asked him to wear pants, but he just ran around the living room with his butt naked, saying that I don’t wear pants. Asked him to drink water, he also…

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How to cultivate children\’s sense of time? This is the best answer I\’ve ever seen

My best friend’s daughter is 4 years old, smart and lovable. I was chatting a few days ago, and my best friend was worried about her daughter. \”Every night I start giving her a bath at 8 o\’clock, and it takes half an hour to put away the toys. Sometimes she is still up after ten o\’clock. She can\’t get up in the morning, and she takes a long time to wash herself. She is always late for kindergarten.\” \”She has no sense of time. What should I do after I go to school?\” My best friend was a little anxious…

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If you are lazy today, your child will take the responsibility for you tomorrow.

When I returned to my hometown, I met my second aunt again. The second aunt is obviously old, and her hair is gray. As soon as she saw us, the second aunt smiled and said, \”It\’s better to study more. If you study more, you won\’t have to suffer like us.\” We exchanged greetings with the second aunt and left. Ever since people in the village were admitted to college one after another, my second aunt began to talk about how good it was to study. The older I got, the better…

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In intergenerational education, who is the most suitable person to take care of children?

In fact, it is really difficult to write about intergenerational education. Because if you are not careful, some elderly people will be hurt. For example, I take a walk in the neighborhood. I often encounter a grandma holding or pushing her little granddaughter. The girl should be only half a year old. Once I followed them cautiously. I heard the child in front of me yelling \”Wow wow wow wow.\” Grandma walked forward gently and smiled…

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What exactly is teaching by words and deeds? The truth turns out to be not simple

Recently, I have to look at little Lisa with admiration. Ningning wanted to eat candy, but I refused to give it to her. She hugged my thigh and begged, shouting \”Tangtang, Tangtang\” loudly. Suddenly, Lisa, who was sitting in the middle of the living room, said a high-level word in a milky voice but very clearly: \”Tangtang\”. Ning Ning is playing with the kinetic sand, shoveling from left to right with a small shovel, playing…

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I never spank my children, so why are they covered in bruises?

Yesterday, I had a conflict with my son and daughter. Around 5 o\’clock in the morning, my daughter suddenly lay on top of me and said aggrievedly: \”Mom, I wet my pants.\” When I was changing the sheets, my son was woken up. By the time I put the sheets in the washing machine and prepared to take the kids to sleep again, they had already started playing. Being possessed by the god of sleep, I fell on the bed and fell asleep. I vaguely heard my son…

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The 8 most harmful behaviors of parents to their children, the number one behavior is actually…

\”Look at other people\’s children!\” \”Look at other people\’s children!\” When I was sending my daughter to piano lessons, I met a mother who yelled at her daughter. \”Everyone knows how to play, why can\’t you?\” The little girl lowered her head and whispered back: \”Then why don\’t you let him call you mom!\” The mother was so angry that she chopped off her feet, looking extremely angry. Steel look. Although the child…

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Parents\’ \”criticism\” is deeply hurting their children

A few days ago, I met a mother and daughter in the toy section of the mall. The little girl pointed to a set of Balala Little Fairies and said, \”Mom, I want to buy this.\” \”I made a promise before I went out today that I wouldn\’t buy any toys. Yeah!\” Upon hearing this, the child immediately stamped his little feet and said, \”No, I want it.\” The mother also raised her voice: \”We already have a lot at home, we can\’t buy any more.\”…

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How much do babies like to fight? I am not afraid for my mother

I was shopping in the supermarket that day, and there was a mother in front of me who was looking at the list, scanning the goods, and taking care of her two babies. The eldest daughter is about five years old, and the youngest son is at most three years old. After a while, the two little guys started fighting for the same toy. There were so many dolls, but there was only one Peppa Pig left. And the two of them were crying and only wanted this one. The small ones obviously can\’t win over the big ones, they can\’t…

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The teacher said my child has ADHD…please don\’t judge easily, okay?

Some time ago, I took Xiaopai to attend a friend\’s child\’s birthday party, and met a mother who complained bitterly to me. And I didn\’t know her at all, and she didn\’t know me either. I just stood aside and watched the children jumping up and down. She suddenly asked me, are your children energetic and naughty? Uh, I looked like she was making a fuss and looking like a big sister…

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