Complaining is the poison that hurts children the most

A mother talked about her interaction with her son: she was sad and blamed herself. The 7-year-old son Tongtong said to his mother seriously one day: \”Mom, why did you and your father choose to give birth to me? If it weren\’t for me, you would just take care of your father. Now you have to get up early every day to send me to school.\” , cook for me, and work harder to earn money and pay my tuition.\” The mother listened to her son\’s words…

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Don’t be held hostage by your imagination, determine the direction and take steps first

The day before yesterday, when I was listening to the class monitor\’s lecture on the Analects of Confucius, the passage about Ran Qiu struck me immediately. Ran Qiu said: \”It\’s not that I don\’t speak the way of Master, it\’s because I don\’t have enough power.\” Confucius said: \”Those who don\’t have enough power will give up on the middle way. Today\’s female painting.\” Meaning, Ran Qiu said: \”It\’s not that I don\’t like the teacher\’s teachings. , because the ability is not enough.\” Confucius said: \”If the ability is not enough, you will stop when you can\’t walk anymore…

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My son is always slapped and cursed by his classmates. This mother’s behavior is thought-provoking

Late one night a few days ago, the mother of my son’s classmate suddenly contacted me: My child told me that there is a classmate in the class who always slaps him, and also slaps your child, and also calls him particularly dirty words… I have reported this to the teacher. …… What? Slap? Swear words? There was a \”buzzing\” sound in my mind, and all kinds of news and videos of \”school bullying\” flashed through my mind. I was heartbroken and angry…

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Releasing the child\’s nature may be a lie

Yesterday, the little guy said to me today, \”Dad, my feet hurt when I play football; my hands hurt when I play the piano; and my head hurts when I play chess.\” He said it very smoothly and looked at me with a smile. I know that after his freshness period has passed, he starts to feel a little bitter. When children learn something, they all rush towards it with sweet hope at first. But after walking down, I found that I was really tired! So I wanted to retreat. I laugh too…

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My child cannot afford to lose, should I always let him win?

I want to be number one no matter what I do. Like to emphasize the fact that \”I won.\” Even though he obviously didn\’t win, he still said he won. If you realize that others have beaten you, you will be unhappy. Like challenging tasks. If the task is too difficult to complete, you will be so angry that you will break the jar. Su Bao basically hit all of the above. Is your baby like this too? …

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What should I do if my children are addicted to games? The solution can be solved in half an hour with the magic weapon of \”family meeting\”

What should I do if Chengzi loves to play games? We had a family meeting. One afternoon, when I was picking up Chengzi from school, Chengzi said, \”Mom, let\’s have a family meeting tonight.\” I asked, \”Okay, what\’s the issue?\” \”I always want to solve it. Problems with looking at mobile phones and wanting to play games.\” I was a little curious: \”Why do you suddenly want to solve this problem?\”…

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If there are boys in the family, these three types of education should be done as early as possible

Since becoming a parent, I often wonder how to raise the children in front of me? It really doesn’t just happen by being fed and growing taller. A few days ago, when I was taking my son to buy vegetables at the vegetable market, I met a group of middle school students approaching. Walking at the front was a tall and handsome boy. Judging from the appearance, he is really a nice young man. But he held a cigarette in his hand and acted as if there was no one around on the road…

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When children are \”willful\”, 90% of parents do the wrong thing

It is not difficult to find in life that some children are very obedient. They listen to what their parents say and are willing to do what their parents say. In contrast, some children are very \”strong\”, that is, very willful. As long as their desires are not satisfied, they will behave wildly and act willfully and arrogantly. Wayward children give parents headaches. A few days ago, an advertisement was passed by Xiao Shitou\’s house…

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Why do children get angry when they wake up?

It seems that many children have trouble getting up in the morning. I also often encounter \”Waterloo\” in the morning. If I am not careful, it will become a situation of \”I look fierce and evil, and Baoduo has tears in his eyes.\” This morning period has become the only unhappy part of my parenting life. I also wonder, he is usually quite well-behaved, why is he having trouble getting up? never mind…

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This hot little video broke the hearts of all parents: The best gift to your children is your health

This short advertising video, hailed as \”the most heart-wrenching in 2018\”, lasted less than 5 minutes, but it touched the hearts of millions of netizens and broke the Internet. Every scene in the advertisement is based on real life experiences. The protagonist of the story is like someone around you, maybe you and me. Did the first half of the video feel familiar to you? While staying up the longest night,…

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