Why do children always refuse to listen to what we say?

Last weekend, the sun was shining brightly and the cherries in the fields turned red. We went out to pick cherries in the fields with our classmates and their families. When the two children saw the big and red cherries, they were so excited that they kept picking them in the basket. After picking this cherry tree, we want to move to the next forest. The two rows of cherry trees are connected by an aisle that looks like a swamp. So, my daughter took the basket…

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I was reluctant to let my child suffer, but in the end, life was all given to him

A few days ago, a relative called and said he wanted to come and see the old man. Grandma is very happy. But he heard that the old man was not at his original place and had come to my house. Because the journey was a bit far, I had no choice but to give up. Grandma told me his story again. In fact, I have heard this story for many years. Back then, everyone said that grandma’s eldest sister had a good life, married a village cadre, and had a good family background. born…

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Zeng Shiqiang’s comprehensive skills in parent-child relationship are 10,000 times more important than education

Ruirui is a child in our kindergarten. He has very poor self-control. Not only can he not sit still, he often yells for no reason. He does not know how to interact with others. If he likes someone, he may slap him in the face. Later he was diagnosed with sensory integration disorder. The left brain was at the level of an eight-year-old child, and the right brain was only at the level of a two-year-old child. Ruirui\’s mother panicked now. She used to ignore her children, but when she got angry…

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Do you think your child is listening to you? wrong! He\’s listening to your subtext.

When we went out to eat a few days ago, a mother and her son were sitting next to us. The child, who looked about three or four years old, was pouring water from the kettle into a cup to drink. In less than two minutes, my mother\’s mouth almost never stopped: Pour slowly, don\’t burn your hands. Okay, okay, don\’t fall again. Hold on tight and don\’t spill it. Drink in small sips, be careful of scalding… Every movement of the child…

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Child, if you can, please let me be your confidant

Yesterday evening, at the gate of Mizhi No. 3 Middle School in Shaanxi Province, a group of students were attacked with a knife on their way home from school. 19 students (14 women and 5 men) were injured and 9 of them died (7 women and 2 men). The murderer was caught on the spot. He said: When he was a student at Mizhi No. 3 Middle School, he was bullied on campus, so he hated the students. Today he killed someone with a knife in order to vent his hatred and take revenge on society. Even if there are thousands…

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Be careful how you manage your emotions, it can become a disaster in your child\’s life

I was on duty at the school gate that day. As usual, I looked at the cute smiling faces and said \”good morning\” to every child. Dabao and Xiaobao are twin little boys. Their mother sent the two children to the door to prepare to leave. The child lost his temper and rushed towards his mother\’s battery car while crying. Mom bent down and comforted her for a while, but Dabao still didn’t want to enter the campus…

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Who says snacks are junk food? These snacks can be eaten regularly by your baby…

Let alone children, many parents who are already parents cannot give up snacks. Even if you say, \”I have very good control, I never give snacks to my children!\” But is childhood without snacks still complete? ! Actually, snacks are not necessarily evil, it just depends on how parents choose them for their babies. Eating the right amount is healthy, eating too much is unhealthy…

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Mom, thank you for not becoming a resentful woman

People often say: If you don’t raise children, you don’t know the kindness of your parents. It was during the hardships of raising children that I suddenly asked: How did my mother survive in the first place? I would collapse after raising one. My mother raised four. How did she try not to go crazy? We brothers and sisters were born one after another. My mother must have suffered a lot in those years. We have an old family photo in our house…

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Please be prepared, children will always embarrass us…

What do you worry about most every time you take your children out? Is the child not eating well, not getting enough sleep, or not having enough fun? If you really think so, I can only say, dear, your child is still too young to be a big monster. Yelling in restaurants, crying in shopping malls, and acting out in playgrounds are the things that really scare us. \”Thanks to him\” became the crowd…

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Why does \”coaxing\” not work when a child is willful and loses his temper?

Yesterday, my sister brought her nephew to Qingdao to see me. As a result, my daughter acted like a little hedgehog the whole time, full of disgust and hostility towards her brother. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen my little nephew, so I inevitably give him a kiss and a hug. My daughter keeps pestering me: “Mom, hug, mom,” and even pushes her brother. Knowing that her daughter was competing with her brother for favor, she patiently explained to her: \”Mom still likes you the most…

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