The meaning of traveling with children is the most romantic education

Recently, a Taiwanese mother took her 2-year-old daughter on a ten-day tour of Europe with a group. Because her daughter kept crying and affected the group members, she was scolded, \”Wouldn\’t you arrest the child and beat him to death?\” The mother was deeply apologetic, but also very aggrieved. She posted a message hoping that mothers with small children could be more tolerant. and considerate. This mother said that she has five children, but this is the first time she has met…

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Sometimes, I just want you to hug me and talk nonsense

3-year-old Doudou has just started kindergarten this year. Recently, he has been crying before going to bed at night: \”Don\’t go to kindergarten tomorrow!\” Doudou\’s mother has to coax him for a long time before he will fall asleep. When she opened her eyes in the morning, the first thing Doudou did was to ask: \”Are you going to kindergarten today?\” After receiving a positive answer, Doudou covered her head with a quilt and cried: \”I haven\’t slept enough! Not today.\” ..

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Once parents understand this, they will no longer have the heart to spank their children

The recent behavior of neighbor Xiaomei\’s son has made her very anxious. She asked me very carefully: Do you think I should hit him? The two-year-old child has been super stubborn recently and refuses to listen to anything he says. Without paying attention, he used his hands to press the jacks, looked for a stool to look for food, and dumped the clothes in the cupboard everywhere. As long as the room feels quiet, my son is acting like a demon. yesterday…

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No matter what the reason, extending a butcher\’s knife to a child is unforgivable

It’s the May Day holiday again, spring is in full bloom, highways are free, and many families have arranged trips. But there are 9 lovely children, but they can no longer enjoy the beautiful spring and feel the warmth of family. Just two days before the long holiday, at about 18:10 on April 27, an injury case occurred in the lane outside the gate of Mizhi County No. 3 Middle School. A man committed an attack with a dagger, causing…

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Your lack of self-discipline is ruining your children

I once watched an interview show. The interviewee, Wu Min (pseudonym), was a divorced woman with an irregular lifestyle, heavy drinking, and severe obesity. She weighed nearly 300 pounds in her early 30s. She originally had a good job in a hospital. After the divorce, she felt emotionally traumatized and was fired from her job because she had no intention of working. With her lover gone and her job lost, she began to give up on herself, spending all day…

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When a child makes a mistake, the more he yells, the worse he gets. This is the simplest and most effective way.

A few days ago, I was planning to have an \”art creation (hua)\” with my son at home. I usually pour the paint into the palette and then he paints. Then I received an emergency call due to an unexpected situation. After hanging up the phone, I saw Ding Dong boy imitating me and pouring out paint. Then my face was covered with colorful colors from the sofa to the floor to the crawling mat to his body… .

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Don\’t try to change your child, he has your shadow on him

When many mothers get together to talk about their children, they always hear one sentence, \”I don\’t want my children to be like me.\” A few days ago, a mother left a message saying: \”Father Yu, my baby is 1 year and 7 months old, a boy, and others. The child feels a bit introverted in comparison. For example, when taking him to early childhood education, his mother has to hold her hand all the time. Other children play by themselves in class, but he rarely plays by himself and requires his parents to accompany him…

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How to get children out of mobile games

My son has become a mobile phone addict. Last year was the most addictive year for my 9-year-old son to play games. When the holiday was about to come, I asked him where he was going to play. He said he didn\’t want to go anywhere and just wanted to stay at home and play games. He also told me seriously that he would never ruin his vacation with travel again. At that time, playing games became my son’s favorite thing. What did you like before…

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Dad, determines the temperature of a home

Every time I write about family. There are often messages from mothers, \”Where is dad? Fish dad, you have to work hard to arouse dads\’ attention to the family.\” \”We have to remind dads to work hard to grow up, and don\’t want their wives to grow up. He is still ready to be his own middle-aged greasy man. ” In many mother groups, mothers call their husbands “pig teammates.” Some are helpless…

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Raising children, in the final analysis, means fighting for the mother

When I hold parent-teacher conferences for my children, I find an interesting phenomenon. Most of the people who come to the parent-teacher conferences are mothers, and few fathers. Another time while watching \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, my daughter asked: Why is this show called \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”? It\’s obviously \”Where\’s Mom?\” Later I realized that in most families, the mother takes care of the children, which is nothing unusual. Only by letting the father take care of the children…

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