Praising your child like this may be hurting him

My daughter Yanyan originally loved dancing. Every time she heard that she was going to dance, she was very excited. All her friends praised her: \”Yanyan, you are so talented and you dance so beautifully.\” However, one day she didn\’t want to dance anymore and they forced her to go. She didn\’t want to stand in the classroom with her head down. move. The family feels that the child may lack self-confidence, so in order to make her more confident…

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Having a sense of boundaries is the first lesson of being a parent

Parents should be more mature than their children. In October 2016, Zhang Liangying posted on Weibo to announce that she would marry Feng Ke. Immediately afterwards, her mother Zhang Guiying posted an open letter online. The main idea of ​​the open letter was: Feng Ke tricked my daughter into being a mistress. , and also embezzled the shares of my daughter and her company. This is not a man worthy of being entrusted with life. I am very opposed to it but I can’t persuade my daughter…

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You get angry with your child just because he is weak and can be bullied

Xiaolan is a stay-at-home mother of two children. Her eldest son is in first grade and her youngest daughter has just learned to walk. When the second child was born, her mother-in-law came to take care of Xiaolan for four months, which was considered to be the most benevolent thing. After her mother-in-law returned, Xiaolan pushed the younger one in a stroller in the morning and sent the older one to kindergarten. Then she bought groceries, cooked, washed, mopped the floor, and took care of the children\’s eating, drinking, peeing, and urination. In the evening, she pushed the younger one to pick up the older one. go home…

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Relatives are cold-blooded than outsiders! Beat the girl until her nose bleeds and she doesn\’t stop beating her

Someone shared a video he took in a supermarket. A little girl about 4 years old was crying loudly, and her nosebleed was all over the floor. A supermarket employee was helping her wipe a nosebleed. Opposite the girl, an adult man stepped forward and slapped her hard. The girl cried even harder… Who was this man? What\’s his relationship with the girl? Why does a girl get a nosebleed? …

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Why were the children who could have been raised well been raised crookedly?

Everyone who has a child can’t help but compare their own child with other people’s children, either explicitly or covertly, right? Fat or thin, tall or short, whether you talk sooner or later, walk sooner or later, or even how much you eat, you don’t want to fall behind others, right? What do you prefer to hear from the bottom of your heart? Is it when someone says, \”Your child is so smart!\”? People have an indescribable yearning and love for \”prodigies\”…

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Child, I don’t want you to earn face for me

My mother-in-law took the child out to play on the weekend. When she came back, she said to me: \”Go buy some calcium supplements and come back to give the child a supplement.\” \”What\’s wrong? Is he deficient in calcium?\” \”I see other people\’s children are as big as him. He can walk, but he still can\’t walk. He must be suffering from calcium deficiency. Why don\’t you go to the hospital for a check-up to see if there is something wrong with him?\” \”He is still a few days shy of one year old, so you…

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Will I have a second or third child? The difference is really not just money.

In recent years, the second/third child policy has been liberalized, and many friends around me have begun to plan to have a second child, and are even preparing for a third child. Some mothers also left messages and said to me: They want to struggle with it for a while, but they are afraid that it will be difficult to have children in a few years as they get older. \”To live or not to live\”, this seems to be the question of now or never. I would like to share my opinion with you through today\’s article. First…

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The calmer the parents are, the better the children will be

As a parent, it is difficult to calmly read the news on the Internet: \”Writing homework with your children will cause a heart attack\”, \”30,000 yuan can\’t afford a summer vacation\”, \”The election of the parent committee is comparable to the company\’s CEO election\”… This is a matter of national anxiety. In this era, the most anxious people are parents. Nowadays, there are more and more Buddhist young people. They can do whatever they want and look down upon everything. But when they have children, they will…

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The interview with the small test questions for junior high school students is difficult! Andy Yang, who plays with foreign language skills, can\’t answer this question.

Nowadays, many children have to go through interviews to advance from kindergarten to primary school, and the competition for educational resources is becoming increasingly fierce. The story of \”Starting Line\” is performed every day. Even Andy Yang, the son of Yang Zi, the president of Juli Group, still has to face the strict kindergarten requirements. Interview for promotion to junior high school. Not long ago, in the program \”Mom is Superman 3\”, the director team showed us a typical interview for a junior promotion…

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There is a child at home who loves to pick up \”rags\”. How to break them?

The branch on the left hand and the fruit shell on the right hand. Yesterday, Chuan’s father took Xiaochuan to the park to play, and I was coding at home. More than an hour later, they came back. Before anyone arrived, the voice came first: \”Mom, Mom, come and see my camera!\” Then, a little man rushed to me, holding something like this in his hand. Gadgets. It really looks like it. I asked him: \”It really does look like it. Where did you get it from?\”

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