A few days ago, a high school classmate came to New York for a business trip and went to dinner with her on the weekend. A classmate’s son is about the same age as Su Bao. She told me that the older the child is, the more difficult it is to manage him. He is disobedient and loses his temper when he disagrees. I feel like this is not going to work. I want to set rules for my child, but I am worried that if I deny my child too often, he will become timid and hesitate to move forward. I thought it was terrible…
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A father’s tearful reflection: I raised my daughter to suffer from depression
A few days ago, while browsing Zhihu, I saw a story told by a father. I was deeply shocked and once again felt that \”parents are not easy to do.\” Sometimes education is like an uncontrolled magic wand; we want our children to see the rainbow, but accidentally lead them into the shadows. Therefore, we can only work hard to find a new way out and move forward. This is a real reaction from a father…
I had a falling out with my mother-in-law! It’s over 20 degrees and I still insist on wearing long johns for my children
The spring has been bright and sunny recently. Hua Ma is very happy – I want to take my children and take off my long johns for a picnic, ho ho~! Xiaoyi took off his long johns and put on light spring clothes, while Tuanzi put on the little girl\’s gauze skirt. The two babies awakened like magic in an instant, and they kept making sexy looks. However, the child\’s grandmother secretly observed, stuck out her head and warned heavily: \”It\’s cold in spring, and cotton wool…
Mom and Dad, it’s okay! I have become accustomed to you not being around. The truth is heartbreaking…
A few days ago, in a variety show, Huang Shengyi and his son Andy participated in a question session. He was asked, \”Does Andy feel lonely when his parents are busy at work?\” Huang Shengyi said guiltily that his son \”should be lonely.\” But the son\’s answer was: \”I\’m not alone, I\’m used to it.\” When he said this, he still had a cute smile on his face…
Another child was seriously injured by being \”teased\”, please stop hurting my child
It is a good thing for parents and children to have fun and play, which is a good thing to enhance the relationship between parents and children. However, a few days ago, a heartbreaking and regretful thing happened to a 2-year-old girl Feifei. Source: Hubei Economic Television Feifei’s father saw a parent-child interactive somersault game on a video platform and thought it was very fun. In order to make his children happy, he also wanted to try it with his daughter. result…
Having a son has driven my mother crazy!
How wild is your baby boy? In 2016, I gave birth to my second child, a boy, and my first child was a girl. As a result, I received many praises from my relatives and friends: Congratulations, it all comes together as a good word. Wow, I have a son and a daughter, so perfect! I can\’t tell that you are so good at giving birth… I smiled softly: Men and women are the same everywhere! …
Either beat the child to cry, or make the child cry in anger? That\’s because you\’re too tired
I\’m particularly busy this week because Nuo Xi\’s father is on a business trip. What does it mean to me that Nuoxi\’s father is on a business trip? This means that I have to take Xiaoxi to school in the morning, which means I have to adjust the alarm clock from 6:00 to 5:50 to allow 10 minutes for washing and dressing, and I don’t have the half-hour to get back to sleep after cooking. This means that Xiao Nuo must also be forced out of bed by me at 6:20…
The child insists on wearing sandals in a low temperature of 5 degrees. This mother’s approach is admirable
If your child insists on wearing sandals when the temperature is 5 degrees Celsius, and wears a down jacket with a bunny ears hat in the dog days of summer, would you agree? I\’m afraid the vast majority of mothers would disagree. What did mothers who disagreed miss? Today, I want to talk about something that happened when Edamame was just three years old. In Beijing in mid-March, although the grass has sprouted and the spring flowers have bloomed, it is early…
\”Mom, your starting point is so high, why do you do so poorly?\”
Yes, these are the exact words my own son Wan Wan said to me. One day, just when I was arrogantly and eloquently pointing out the words Jiang Shan Ji Yang, Wan Wan suddenly said this sentence: \”Mom, you started from such a high place, why did you do so poorly?\” This sentence was like a wake-up call. Cold water poured over me from head to toe. He also said: \”If you are enough…
How to raise a child with a bright mind, so useful!
Children need appreciation from adults. There is no education without appreciation. Mr. Tao Xingzhi, the great Chinese educator, profoundly pointed out half a century ago: The whole secret of educating children lies in trusting them and liberating them. To believe in children and liberate them, we must first appreciate them. There is no education without appreciation. However, in our lives, how many mothers truly appreciate…