Parent-child relationship is ten thousand times more important than education

For Pai and I, this is the first Spring Festival with three children, and for Xiao Pai, this is the first winter vacation with two younger sisters. In addition, my aunt is off for nearly a month before and after the Chinese New Year. The two-to-three pattern during this holiday is a great challenge for everyone in our family of five. Although I had just taken the vaccination with Xiaopai, \”Baby, this holiday, Dad…

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The quality of shoes has such a big impact on children [attached to my painful experience]

A few days ago, I was cleaning up the shoe cabinet at home with my mother-in-law, and sorted out a bunch of shoes that Zizai could no longer wear. While sorting them out, my mother-in-law said distressedly: \”Oh, why don\’t we want such good shoes when they are still new?! \”I sighed and said, \”No, Zai Zai\’s feet have grown too fast and he can\’t wear them anymore!\” My mother-in-law said, \”In the future, when you buy shoes for him, don\’t buy shoes that are just right…

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To stimulate children\’s imagination, you have to read some nonsensical books

The development of imagination is closely linked to the development of thinking and memory, as well as the child\’s emotions and mood. It plays an important role in the child\’s understanding of the world. ——Polish child psychologist Galina Filiplik In the eyes of children, the “luxury car” that is more luxurious than Masatini is the double-decker bus! For example, you will never…

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The more parents teach like this, the more they will raise white-eyed wolves! Worth reflecting on for all parents

\”I slowly and slowly understood that the so-called relationship between father, daughter and mother only means that your fate with him is that you will continue to watch his back fade away in this life.\” ——Long Yingtai On this day, Yueyue took her son Xiaoyi to visit Sister Ai\’s house, but she was surprised by Sister Ai\’s 4-year-old son! Her son\’s name is Xiao Ji Zhi, and he is a very well-behaved boy. When Sister Ai cuts the water…

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What about child rebellion?

Educating children is a cliché in itself, especially children in the rebellious period. I would like to share with you the following seven points. I hope every parent who has poor communication with their children will take a careful look at it and find out how to solve the problem of how to communicate with their children now. In fact, after all, the most important thing when communicating with children is to be patient! patience! patience! 1. Communication between parents and children This is the most fundamental, maybe very…

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Effective communication skills with children are the foundation of family education

Communication is an art and a homework, especially between parents and children. As the child\’s first life mentor, the quality of communication between parents and their children determines, to a certain extent, the quality of the parent-child relationship, the quality of family education, and the results of the child\’s mental growth. It can be said that the way of communication with children is the foundation of family education. The communication method is a bit general, but specific…

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There are three levels of Chinese parents. Which level are you on?

1. Parents from the bottom: Completely free-wheeling, unable to raise outstanding children. Which is more cruel, forcing children to study or letting children indulge? Hidden in the plan for the child is the pattern of the parents, and the pattern of the parents determines the future of the child. Parents at the bottom have no life but survival. They are busy making a living every day and have no time to think about their children\’s future. Look at the street vendors…

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What should you do when your child doesn’t want to share?

\”Everything must be placed where she expects it to be. If others touch it, she will be very upset. Is this obsessive-compulsive disorder? Also, how should I teach her to share? Everything I bought her, I Can\’t move…\” A friend sent a WeChat message to complain. He felt that his three-year-old child did not know how to share with others, and even felt a bit obsessive-compulsive. I\’m right…

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Does your child cry as soon as he enters kindergarten? These \”stop crying\” methods shocked me

Yesterday was Goddess\’ Day, and the kindergarten held an open day, inviting parents to play games, do crafts, eat with their children, and experience their children\’s daily life. It was morning exercise time when our parents went in. The children who were doing exercises to the music were very happy when they saw their families coming. They had to keep up with the teacher\’s movements, jumping high and squatting low to show their parents. I am having fun taking photos of Guoguo…

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