If you want your children to listen to you, you must first learn to \”listen\” to them

I have taken many parenting and self-growth courses in the past few years. After each course, there are always some scenes that are permanently etched into my mind. For example, at the end of 2016, there was this scene in Teacher An An’s PET class. She invited the parents present to the stage to talk about the problems they encountered in life, and she acted as a friend and sat aside to listen. Single mother Xiao P volunteered to go up. She said she…

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Ever since she had a child, Zhang Ziyi’s style of painting has become completely different.

A friend I haven\’t seen for a long time said that I have matured a lot. I smiled meaningfully. If you have a child, you will also grow up. Because every woman has two opportunities to grow, one is when she is born, and the other is when her child is born. In the recently popular variety show \”The Birth of an Actor\”, I saw Zhang Ziyi, whom I hadn\’t seen for a long time. She is still so proud…

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It’s fun to take your baby to play in the snow. If you don’t pay attention to these things, you may risk your baby getting sick.

With the arrival of snowflakes, when you wake up one night, the whole world turns white, and it has become the children\’s favorite world! Playing snowball fights, building snowmen, taking photos… However, some parents find that after taking their babies to play in the snow, they feel a little uncomfortable, and some also develop colds and fevers. This is because parents do not do enough when playing in the snow…

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A 4-year-old boy is \”addicted\” to smoking. If he continues to raise his child like this, it will be ruined

Recently, a video of a 4-year-old boy smoking and chewing betel nuts in Xinhua, Hunan Province hit the internet on social media. The boy blew smoke rings and flicked the ashes. His movements were so skillful and his expression was so leisurely that people were shocked to see him. It is understood that the boy\’s parents work outside the home and he lives with his grandparents. Because grandpa likes to play mahjong and grandma is busy with housework, I don’t know when he got infected with these…

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Your child won’t tell you how terrible your self-righteousness is.

Recently I have noticed a new conversation pattern at home. \”It\’s not good for you to lose your temper all the time. You have to learn to manage your temper.\” We told our son seriously. \”You should also take care of your temper.\” \”Don\’t always think about watching more TV. Pay attention to protecting your eyes.\” \”Don\’t always stare at your mobile phone. Protect your eyes.\” \”Go to bed early, go to bed early Get up early to get healthy…

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Reading, communication, security, three gifts I give to my children

If a child is compared to a mobile phone that has just left the factory, then the importance of developing good habits is like installing the smoothest system on the mobile phone. As the child’s first character builder and guide in life, I choose to give these three good habits as gifts to my baby. Develop the habit of reading. In this era of rapidly updating knowledge, we need to read a lot every day…

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How to help children have appropriate self-esteem?

In a short video, a little boy hit his classmate because he called him a bald boy in a joke. The principal criticized him, and the little man cried and shouted in a tone that changed due to excitement: \”I want dignity. Even if I am beaten to the ground by them and my face is bruised and bruised, I still want dignity…\” The following is The comments overwhelmingly praised the boy for his strong self-esteem and backbone. actually…

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The most failed parents are those who set rules for their children and then break them themselves.

Linlin, the neighbor\’s little girl, is two years old. She got cavities just after her teeth grew. When she went to the pediatrician for a dental appointment, the doctor said that her teeth were not good and she was prone to dental caries. In addition, she ate a lot of sugar and the caries was already severe. After coming out of the hospital, Linlin\’s mother bought special dental appliances for children and urged her to brush her teeth on time. Brushing her teeth does help, but I think Linlin\’s mother should let her eat less chocolate…

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Excellent children are better at being alone

My best friend and her husband got into trouble and came to my house to stay for a few days. After just one day, she began to question my parenting style. She is also a stay-at-home mother. She feels that I take care of my children too casually and do not pay attention to them. For example, after dinner, my children and I usually have free time. I will turn on the computer and write a manuscript, my daughter will do homework or draw, and my son will play with toys…

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