\”Wuwen Xidong\”: These educational details of Tsinghua University are touching

Four generations of Tsinghua people performed a sentimental \”Wonderful West and East\”. As a gift film for Tsinghua University’s centenary anniversary, what concerned me the most was education. There are many educational details in the film that are touching. Losing reality, your youth is just these days. 1923, Beijing. Wu Linglan\’s physics score test result was \”not listed\”, so she should…

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I cry as soon as I get an injection. How to deal with the medical trouble?

Every time a child goes to the hospital for an injection, it is an \”alternative symphony\” of crying sounds from children of all ages: the baby in the swaddling clothes is \”ouch~ouch~ouch~\”; the 2- and 3-year-old children are \”wow wah wah\” ; 4 and 5-year-old children are rap types, crying and negotiating with their parents: \”I don\’t want 5555, mom, let\’s go, let\’s go…\” The flu has been raging recently, and many children…

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What\’s different about children who love reading?

In the past few years, I have been working hard to promote parent-child reading. As a result, the more you do it, the more addictive you become. Because when I receive feedback from many parents, I feel happy inside. Many children begin their reading journey and can listen to their mother tell a story before going to bed. Or when mom is busy with housework, she can find a book and read it quietly. From the bottom of my heart…

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Why don\’t you praise your children for being smart?

Even before I had children, I read some experts’ advice: Don’t praise your children for being smart or awesome, but praise them for their hard work. As for why, I didn’t take it to heart at the time and forgot about it after reading it. After becoming a mother, I watched Rooney grow up step by step, watching him gradually learn to crawl, run, jump, talk, and…

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How much impact does the absence of parents in childhood have on children\’s future emotional choices?

Family members said that my nine-year-old niece committed suicide because her grandfather picked her up from get out of class late and her grandmother was busy taking care of her sister and did not answer her phone calls. She said that no one in the family loved her, so she might as well take medicine and die. When I heard the news, I began to think that this was a kid\’s joke, but when I thought about it carefully, I couldn\’t help but feel worried. My cousin is doing business outside all year round, and my niece was raised by her aunt since she was a child. Small…

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The cultivation of parents determines the education of children

Every family has a unique family culture, and you can feel it just by walking in. I still remember when I was in middle school, I went to a friend\’s house to play. At that time, it was the era of two young boys playing around, but I will always remember that experience. When I went, of course I was empty-handed and didn’t bring any gifts. But my friend\’s mother treated me like a distinguished guest, and…

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I feel sorry for your child being bullied, but you treat him like this

\”When Maodou was in the kindergarten, he was queuing up to slide on the slide. When he finally got there, he was pushed down by a rampaging little boy. Then the little boy climbed up the slide. Maodou started crying. I gritted my teeth in pain and anger and coaxed him. The wronged edamame.\” \”Mi Li was in class and was slapped by a child at the same table just because of a piece of candy. Later I saw that little red face…

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Parents\’ \”three incorrect views\” will lead to a tragic life for their children

My classmate D, whose parents work in the government, has a mysterious belief in being an official. The daily chats in his family basically revolve around the highest ideal of promotion. The topic that parents are most interested in is always who is getting promoted. Anyone who is helpful for promotion is a god in their family. D has been taught by his relatives since he was in elementary school, \”You have to be a monitor.\” He grew up with his parents…

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I will work hard from now on to find a wife for my son

Over the years, I have been hearing people say that the population ratio is unbalanced, with more men and fewer women. I don’t know if there will be any improvement in the next few years. I gave birth to a son, so I was more worried about whether he would be able to marry a wife in the future. I was very anxious when I gave birth to him in the hospital. I don’t know if it was a coincidence. In the same ward, there were people walking on the front foot and people coming on the back foot. There must be six or seven families in total, and these six or seven families all gave birth to…

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The best way to love a child is for mom and dad to sleep together

Some time ago, my father came to stay at our house for half a month. Mr. Li, who originally slept in the children\’s room, had to move back to the big bed in the master bedroom with pillows in his arms, and let his father sleep in the children\’s room. Unexpectedly, such a small change made my son very happy. Every night before going to bed has become his happiest time. One moment he climbs on his father\’s body, rides on his father\’s belly and rides on the rocker, and the next…

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