The house is rented, but the child’s childhood is not

My friend M was moving, and I sent him a message on WeChat to help him. He said he was just helping me, but he was just looking after the kids. If I remember correctly, this should be M’s fifth move in Shenzhen. M is a colleague I met at my first job in Shenzhen. At that time, the company was in Luohu, so we shared a two-bedroom apartment in an urban village near Laojie. Later, my job changed and I moved out of the shared house. M and other roommates…

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It is the duty of a son to be filial to his parents, and it is the duty of a daughter-in-law to be filial to his parents-in-law.

There is a message like this: My father-in-law passed away three years ago, and my mother-in-law has been living alone. Now that she is seriously ill, my husband asked me to quit my job and go home to take care of her. My husband is a public employee and cannot ask for leave at will. I was in a private company and couldn\’t take long leave, but because my income was much lower than my husband\’s, he asked me to resign and go home to take care of my mother-in-law. The reason is, \”My family doesn\’t need me this little money anyway.\” But my heart…

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Father and son always quarrel, this mother’s method is simply amazing

Many readers said they like to read articles about my interaction with my son. From time to time, I will pick out a few snippets of my life and talk about my thoughts on parenting. In the study room, I caught a glimpse of my son doing homework, with one leg crooked outside the desk. I thought I should take this foot back. But I said, \”Well, that\’s great. Your back is so straight. No wonder the teacher asked you to demonstrate!\” Then I walked away. a while…

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My child, I forgive my mother for not being able to accompany you.

Many years ago, I often saw this scene: a child called for his mother at the door, with tears in his eyes. The mother ran away with her bag on her back, and the child followed behind. When she got tired of following, she squatted on the ground. cry. The grandpa or grandma next to her held the child and comforted her: Mommy has gone to work, so please don\’t cry. At that time, I couldn\’t understand the tears in that mother\’s eyes, nor…

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Seeing Ma Rong angrily scolding Wang Baoqiang, do we really still need to teach our children to be kind?

The night before yesterday, Ma Rong, who had been silent for more than a year, suddenly spoke up. But her statement really made people feel uncomfortable after reading it. She said this: To sum it up briefly, she mainly made three key points: 1. It took me a year to speak out. It’s not that I don’t want to respond, but that I Weibo is out of use and cannot respond! 2. Even if there is such a big public outcry, I am still trying to be a…

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A 13-year-old left-behind girl was raped and found out she was pregnant one day before giving birth: her father actually said she was ignorant

Last week I was shocked beyond measure by a piece of news: a 13-year-old left-behind girl was raped by her neighbor and gave birth to a baby girl. She didn’t know she was pregnant until she gave birth. One day in January 2017, Fengfeng (pseudonym), a 13-year-old girl who lives in Lanshan County, Yongzhou City, Hunan, passed by the door of her neighbor Huang Mouli\’s house and was forced into the house by 48-year-old Huang Mouli and raped. The villain immediately threatened Fengfeng: \”Sue…

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The winter solstice is here, the most ferocious season for influenza is also the best season to take supplements, so your baby won’t get sick.

Today is the winter solstice, the shortest day and longest night of the year. It is also the day of the year when yin energy is at its strongest and yang energy is at its weakest. After the winter solstice, Yang Qi slowly recovers and Yin Qi gradually weakens. Until the summer solstice, Yang Qi is at its strongest and Yin Qi is at its weakest, and then they rotate with each other. Because the change of seasons is gradual. Therefore, we cannot feel the rotation of yin and yang immediately. After the winter solstice,…

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Seeing Chen Shifeng exchange 20 years for Jiang Ge\’s life, I decided that I must teach my children these things

After more than a week of trial in the Jiang Ge case, the verdict was announced yesterday afternoon. I have been staying in front of the computer, waiting for the final trial results to be announced. The moment I heard that Chen Shifeng was finally sentenced to 20 years in prison in Japan for intimidation and murder, I felt a little mixed. From the perspective of Japanese punishment, this punishment is already very severe. The prosecutor made the greatest effort for this…

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Teachers are not round-the-clock nannies, and schools are not unlimited liability companies.

In the past few days, the sharpest criticism that parents have made against teachers is the angrily rebuke of the Xiamen parent: \”Is this what a teacher said in the class group?\” It turns out that the teacher in the class where the parent\’s child was in was A message in the class group said: \”Parents, as long as the children who respond slowly are willing to learn, our teachers are willing to teach them. What we cannot teach are those who learn…

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