The shadow of your parents is deeply hidden in your marriage

In \”The Unbearable Lightness of Being\”, there are many descriptions of the influence of parents on their children\’s marriage that is difficult to detect. When Franz first met Sabina, he said to her in a solemn tone as if Columbus had just seen the American coast: \”Sabina, you are a woman.\” He emphasized the word \”woman\” and said to him The word is not used to refer to the two genders of human beings…

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My mother can only do housework and nothing else

Daqin recently suffered a critical blow from life. The incident stemmed from the fact that my daughter, who is in fourth grade, participated in an open research project group at the school. Since it may involve some relatively complex research, the school also invited parents to participate in order to provide the children with necessary support. The eight families in the group agreed to meet on weekends to get to know each other. Daqin is afraid of…

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If you can\’t help but get angry at your children, it\’s not because you have poor self-control, but because you are too tired.

It\’s not that you have poor self-control, it\’s that you are too tired. A few days ago, I wrote in \”Why Are Children Disobedient?\” You will understand after reading these cartoons! \”The article talked about how to communicate with children. A mother left a message and said: When you are in a good mood, everything is good. When you are tired or in a bad mood, it seriously affects the quality of raising your baby… I have read a lot of parenting books and learned theory. A basket cannot hold up my body…

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As soon as the child was born, the husband died

A widowed marriage begins in the year the child is born. When the husband returns home, he either surfs the Internet on his mobile phone or lies in bed pretending to be dead. He doesn\’t understand how hard it can be to just raise a child. Just as he didn\’t understand what kind of suffering and despair his wife was going through at this time. This month I received a letter from a reader: The reader said that she had thought about dying a hundred times. When it comes to marriage…

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A child\’s attachment style determines the child\’s future. Don\’t miss the critical period of cultivating \”secure attachment\”

When I got home from work, my son was like a little chick waiting to be fed. He ran towards me with his arms outstretched. I also picked up my son affectionately and spun him around. After that, my son followed me step by step, calling me in a sweet voice to play with him. The game was caught in the hand by a toy, and she asked me to blow her with tears in her eyes. Her cute look made me burst with maternal love. Suddenly, this harmonious scene was broken by the mother-in-law\’s words…

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More than half of Chinese children do not reach their genetic height! How to make children grow taller than their parents?

When it comes to children\’s height, some people are always happy and some are worried. Of course, parents whose heights are not ideal are those who are worried, but many parents comfort themselves: They say that the waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead, and if living conditions are better and nutrition is richer, their children will definitely be taller than when we were children. However, is this really the case? Half of Chinese children are less than the genetic height of their parents. Indeed, there is a statistic…

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What happened to the children who were called wimps by their parents?

What does it feel like to be scolded by your parents? I can neither tell my lover nor confide in my friends because others cannot understand my depression. But when I was growing up, the label given by my parents was deeply engraved in my heart, and it didn\’t pop up. Xiaoran is such a girl. After graduating from college, she worked for a foreign company in Shanghai for three years and then chose to be independent…

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Behind the carelessness lies the learning killer! Heal your child in one minute

When test scores are not ideal, some children will say: \”It\’s all because of carelessness!\” The subtext is: It\’s not because I\’m stupid or because I don\’t know the questions, I\’m just careless! Qinglanjun also often hears parents say to their children: \”This child is very smart, but a little careless!\” The implication is: carelessness is not a disease, just pay attention next time! Many teaching experience…

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The child is a genius, but he strongly denies it. The reason behind it is sad

In May and June of this year, a friend strongly recommended the movie \”Girl Genius\” to me, but at that time my third child was about to give birth and I was so busy all day long that I didn\’t have the time to think about it. After watching \”Genius\” last week, I always felt that the name was very familiar. Then I remembered that the movie a friend recommended to me also had the word \”Genius\” in it. Maybe watching movies can become addictive…

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Wu Zun and his daughter eat steamed buns. This is the best tutor.

Watching the variety show \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, I was not only fans of Wu Zun\’s good looks, but also impressed by the way he educates his children. Most of the programs of \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” are recorded in the countryside, and the environment and food are relatively simple. During the recording of a program, the breakfast given by the program crew was steamed buns and eggs. For the children of the Wu family who live in Brunei and come from a very wealthy family, steamed buns…

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