Behind the growing mother, there must be a child who can play independently

Mothers often tell me that they feel that their self-growth has stagnated after giving birth to a baby. They are stuck with their baby every minute after get off work, and they don’t have a single minute of their own time. The reason why spending time with children is tiring, for many people, is that continuous high-intensity companionship is tiring. If you can stop and rest for 10-15 minutes before continuing with your baby for 1-2 hours, your parents\’ mood will be better…

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Your child is taking time to do things. Have you done these 3 things?

Tingting\’s mother has been very distressed recently. It has become a big problem to send Tingting to school every day. She keeps urging her every day, but Tingting is still late. The battle between Tingting and her mother started when she got up in the morning. The weather was getting colder and colder, and it became more and more difficult to get up. Tingting\’s mother would prepare a meal at 7 o\’clock every day and go to wake up Tingting. She stood at the door and shouted no matter how hard she answered, hum. He groaned and squirmed around but refused to let go…

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How bad can a child be?

Zhihu once had a very popular question and answer called: How bad can people be? The answers are diverse and can be called a collection of evil people in history. Some of the perpetrators are only a few years old or even teenagers. Although they hate naughty children deeply, in most people\’s perception, naughty children only stay in the category of \”naughty\” and cannot be too big of a monster. Because we always put our children…

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The efficacy and function of this dried hawthorn and how to eat it can make you 10 years younger

Female friends always feel uncomfortable for a few days every month. Drinking hot water is ineffective, so why not eat some hawthorn? With this addition, you must know that it can regulate menstruation, activate blood circulation, relieve waist pain, reduce fat and lower blood pressure, and give you a good complexion! Hawthorn + brown sugar: regulate menstruation and activate blood circulation. During those few days of each month, many female friends will have dysmenorrhea problems and often feel restless. Drinking more hot water has little effect. It treats the symptoms but not the root cause…

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The ordinary days that you despise are exactly the happiness that others yearn for

When I returned from traveling and dropped my luggage, the first thing I did was to stand on the scale in the living room, fully expecting to lose a few pounds. Just imagine, walking 20,000 steps a day, you are half exhausted, sweating endlessly, not eating well and sleeping well, it is strange that you are not thin. When I saw the numbers, I yelled: Ah! Why have you gained weight? And it’s three pounds! In order to verify whether the scale was accurate, Wan Wan and his father also stood on…

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She did not hesitate to fall out with her parents-in-law, just for the most precious ability of her child

During the holiday a few days ago, I took my children out to eat. The couple sitting next to me kept making a lot of noise. The sound was so loud that I couldn\’t avoid it even if I didn\’t want to listen. It probably means that the mother wants to bring her kindergarten child back from grandma\’s house, pick her up, drop her off, and educate her by herself. This means that the time of the young couple will be infinitely compressed. Needless to say, it\’s hard work. What\’s important is the mother\’s reasons for her husband to explode. …

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To cultivate children’s sense of security, don’t miss these important periods

When chatting with readers, I often receive questions about the sense of security: \”Will it cause a lack of safety for the child if the child is taken care of by the grandparents in his hometown?\” \”The child cries every day when he goes to kindergarten. Isn\’t he not feeling safe enough?\” \”My child is sensitive and introverted. Doesn\’t he feel safe enough?\” … We often hear about security, but it\’s difficult to describe it…

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Why are more and more children trying to commit suicide? The reason is this…

When we become adults, we are very surprised by the psychological process of children collapsing and even dying when faced with trivial things. However, if you look back on your own childhood, you will understand that adults\’ neglect of children\’s inner feelings is often the source of children\’s pain. In fact, life and death are just a matter of thoughts. On the way to the amusement park with Xiao Yu\’er and his cousin Xiang in the afternoon, the two children were behind the car…

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Tell your children: Life is not a race, but a journey

While traveling during the National Day, we had dinner in a restaurant at noon one day. While waiting for the meal, my son happily told us some interesting things he discovered during the trip and his thoughts. At the end, he said: \”It\’s great. I don\’t have to worry about my composition this time. I can write several travel notes. Traveling is great. It can help me gain a lot of knowledge. I can\’t learn from textbooks…

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After the long vacation, I faced the children who refused to go to school. What did I do wrong?

Every first day of school after a long holiday, Rooney would make a fuss – not wanting to go to school. Of course, usually he just expresses his emotions, just like getting out of bed. As long as I use the two tactics of \”empathy\” and \”gentle and firm\”, he will definitely go to school in the end, but I didn\’t expect that this time he would be so of determination. Yesterday morning, before half past seven, he was drowsy…

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