One day, while reading a picture book story with my son, I saw a sweet scene of a princess and a prince getting married. I told him: \”Dad is really looking forward to the day when I drink your wedding wine.\” My son asked: \”What does the wedding wine taste like?\” \”It\’s sweet, the taste of happiness,\” I said. \”Then I\’ll drink it too and see what it tastes like.\” The little guy said happily. \”Okay, that\’s you…
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Poor children also need to be rich
Last week, my husband\’s cousin was sick and hospitalized, and we went to the hospital to visit. When he arrived at the hospital, his cousin was lying weakly on the hospital bed receiving infusions. His face looked very ugly and he looked exhausted. When asked about the condition, it turned out to be various deficiencies caused by long-term malnutrition. I wonder, I only heard that people are over-nourished, and some people are taller than others. How come they are still unhealthy? After coming out of the ward, I…
If you are reluctant to spank your children this year, they will spank you next year.
The consequences of spoiling minors must ultimately be borne by adults. Someone asked on Zhihu: What is the worst child you have ever seen? Some people say that they bully other children because they are bigger than others; some people say that they are young and full of swear words; others say that they are sneaky and deceitful; these children are undoubtedly bad children, but the worst child I have ever seen is so…
Be careful with these magical logics, they are quietly harming your children.
If you think about it carefully, we have many such adults. With this kind of divine logic: I think the most effective way to discipline is to scare the child with words or violence. I encountered something outside the kindergarten a few days ago that I have never forgotten. After school that day, I played with my son on the edge of the playground. Outside the railing, a pair of beautiful twin sisters are carrying schoolbags…
If you give money to do housework, will your children become bad? Who are you trying to scare?
During the summer vacation, 12-year-old Xiao Xi saw a four-leaf clover bracelet and necklace in a magazine. She was immediately attracted and said it was beautiful. She asked me to buy it for her, but I didn\’t agree. Children can\’t wear jewelry. She pestered me for several days, saying that she bought it and kept it for admiration without wearing it, she just wanted to own it. Everyone has their favorite things, and it is human nature to want to have beautiful things…
Can\’t stop yelling at your kids? The real reason may be here
A few days ago, I took Chengzi to extracurricular classes. The teacher called the name before class. When Orange was called, the teacher\’s pronunciation was a little inaccurate. Orange didn\’t realize that he was calling himself. The teacher called again. Chengzi hesitated and agreed in a low voice. The teacher didn\’t hear it and thought the student didn\’t come. I happened to be behind Cheng Zi, patted him, and asked him to raise his hands to tell the teacher that he was here. …
Are those families that favor sons over daughters really happy after giving birth to a son?
Yesterday I went to a relative\’s house, a cousin. Their family once had a family feud because their first child was a girl. After they were allowed to have a second child two years ago, they quickly got pregnant and gave birth to a boy. They thought they had a good luck and their life would be happy. Unexpectedly, everyone was complaining about the misery. Families that favor sons over daughters always think that having a son will make them happy, but this is really the case…
To give your children a sense of security, in addition to love, you need to do this one thing
A few days ago, a friend expressed his bitterness in the group. He said that since his son was born, he has insisted on taking care of him personally. I am afraid that the elderly will not be able to take care of them well, and I am also afraid that the children without their mothers will lack a sense of security. She felt fine before, but since sending her child to kindergarten, she felt confused. On the first day of school, my son hugged his leg and refused to let go. …
Children always cannot afford to lose, so comfort is effective
Two days ago, I saw a message like this in the background, which really touched me. The problem this mother mentioned is actually a problem I often hear when communicating with my friends. The mothers around me feel quite distressed. I myself have even encountered conflicts that broke out directly in front of me because my children refused to admit defeat. That scene left a deep impression on me. That time, my father and I…
The upbringing that children lose is all due to laziness on the part of their parents.
Walking home at night, I was attracted by a burst of noise. At first glance, it was a couple riding an electric bicycle and a boy riding a bicycle who were confronting each other. At first, I thought the two adults were making things difficult for the child. Only when I walked in did I realize that the truth was not what I thought. The boy rushed downhill without braking, and he veered off the road and hit a young couple pulling a car on the side of the road. A small hole was made in the woman\’s leg and she was bleeding…