What determines a child\’s life is not scores or efforts, but…

Yesterday I had dinner with a friend and talked about his neighbor: The atmosphere in the neighbor\’s house has been very bad recently, and the couple quarreled every day. The reason is that their daughter recently chose to commit suicide by cutting her wrists due to too much homework and too much pressure. Although she was rescued, her body is still very weak, so the couple blames each other and quarrels endlessly every day. Their daughter Xiaoli is twelve years old this year. She is a key child…

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This innate emotion affects a child’s life-long happiness. How to counterattack?

Yesterday, several girlfriends gathered at my house with their children. Dabao and Xiaoyuer played the piano impromptu. The melodious sound of the piano was unanimously praised by the girlfriends, especially Lin, who applauded warmly and praised her endlessly. People gathered around the piano and asked Xiao Yuer questions about the piano. When the atmosphere was peaceful, suddenly, my best friend Lin\’s child Maomao jumped out…

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Your child likes to lose his temper? Read this amazing picture book

A mother asked me: \”My child is two and a half years old and has a very bad temper. For example, when he plays with other children and wants other people\’s toys, and they refuse, he will cry and make a fuss, waiting for the child to hand the toy to him. When he took it over, he smashed it! He is so young and has such a bad temper, what should I do?\” This question suddenly reminded me of the picture book \”Feifei is Angry\”, so, today…

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\”My child is so useless!\” It\’s because you don\’t know how to use it.

My son\’s school is holding an autumn sports meeting, and he signed up for the 400-meter run and the standing long jump. Xiaopang has been a good friend with his son since childhood, but he did not participate in any of them because he was completely unqualified. Speaking of the sports meeting, the little chubby mother seemed very angry and complained to me: \”Wanwan mother, let me tell you, my son makes me angry when he talks about it. He can\’t do anything well. Study…

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Why do we work so hard to raise our children, but their children don’t appreciate, appreciate, or understand us?

A rebellious little boy ran away from home after a quarrel with his mother. After walking for a long time, it was getting late and he was tired and hungry. I saw a noodle shop on the roadside and was about to go in to eat some noodles, but I realized I didn’t have any money with me. The noodle shop is run by a kind old woman. Seeing the helpless look on the little boy\’s face, she asked: \”Child, do you want to eat noodles?\” The little boy said: \”Yes, but I don\’t…

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High-level parents will grow up with their children

Yesterday I had lunch with a boss of the company and colleagues from the branch. During the conversation, the topic of fitness was discussed. The boss said that after stopping exercise for 20 years, he started working out again. He practiced plank support every day and lost a lot of fat on his stomach. I asked casually: \”Why did you start exercising all of a sudden?\” Unexpectedly, the boss took a sip of tea and spoke to me seriously…

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How important is it for children to have a father who can cook?

I discovered that I am a person who really enjoys the kitchen. Especially after having my son, I like the feeling of cooking even more. When a child comes into the world, the first taste he feels is the fragrance and sweetness between his lips and teeth. Mothers are born with milk to feed their children. And what about dad? Then go to the kitchen and cook for your children. Because isn’t this also a loving way of breastfeeding? …

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Parents who don’t know how to withdraw cannot raise promising children.

There was something going on at home last Friday, so my dad asked my brother to take leave and go back. At noon, my brother said that the workshop director did not allow leave and that the evening shift could not leave until 9 o\’clock today. However, there would be no shuttle bus back to the countryside at that time. However, if there was an emergency and he had to go back, my brother said, \”I can\’t take leave.\” Helpless. Later, somehow he came home on time. It turned out that my dad called a relative and my brother\’s colleague to ask…

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\”Why cry? What\’s the use of crying?\”

Recently, Rooney\’s allergic rhinitis became more and more serious, and his nose was runny all day long. I couldn\’t stand it anymore, so I took him to see a doctor. Along the way, Rooney said worriedly: \”Mom, I don\’t want an injection.\” \”Listen to the doctor.\” I was noncommittal. After arriving at the hospital, the doctor examined Rooney\’s nasal cavity and suggested drawing blood to test for allergens. As soon as I heard that I needed to draw blood,…

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When a child is least cute, it is when he needs your love the most

I remember one day at noon. I just had to go out to run errands and asked my son to take a nap in his room. Before, I usually slept with him. Because of the holiday, a little aunt was playing with him at our house. So at noon I am usually so excited that I don’t want to sleep. Before I hurriedly went out that day, I went to his room to see if he was asleep. He was sitting on the edge of the bed alone, without…

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