Children\’s imagination is terrible

When you see this picture, do you think of \”Life of Pi\”? Yes, it is this movie, a fantasy and magical adventure between a boy and a tiger, which brings too much shock and thinking to the audience. Every time Dan Ma thinks about it, she still has the lingering feeling of \”having a tiger in my heart and sniffing the roses.\”

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Mom, please stop using me as your \”shield\”

A few days ago, I had another argument with my mother. The reason was that when we were visiting the supermarket, she took a nectarine from the fruit section of the supermarket, stuffed it into Tong Bao\’s hand and took it out because Tong Bao wanted to play with it. This is not the first time that she has used the reason of appeasing her children to justify her \”little actions\”. In the past, I often looked back and saw her peeling off peanuts to eat. Several times…

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Rational brain vs primitive brain, where does the self-control that affects a child\’s life come from?

During the summer vacation, our family of three went on a self-driving trip. Hearing the news, Chengzi was very excited – he could finally play with his iPad! Because my family’s rule is: you can’t play with the IPAD in normal times, but you can play with it when traveling. After holding it in for a semester, Chengzi couldn\’t stop the car. When he arrived at the hotel in the evening, he hugged his iPad and wouldn\’t let go. As soon as I opened my eyes in the morning, I didn\’t bother to wash up…

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Father, don\’t let your daughter become Hepburn

Recently, I read the book \”Audrey Hepburn\”. The narrative about her father in the book was unforgettable to me. Divorced mother Ella, with two babies, married divorced Roxton and gave birth to Audrey Hepburn. My father is serious, withdrawn and picky. He often travels on business. When he is not traveling, he always goes to the city center to discuss current affairs. Hepburn really wanted to express what she had learned…

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Be careful, don’t wear these clothes on your children!

In September, another large number of children entered the kindergarten. When a child is born, when we become mothers for the first time, we are a little at a loss. When facing a child entering kindergarten for the first time, some friends are also a little confused about how the child will adapt and how to communicate with the teacher more easily and effectively. It\’s the first time that my baby has left my sight. I can understand the concern, and I hope that my experience and that of those around me can help my family…

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When my 4-year-old son yelled \”Mom, don\’t accompany me!\”, I finally understood what effective companionship is.

Last Sunday, I was playing the \”Car Gestalt\” game with Edamame. This game is very special. It involves stuffing plastic blocks of different shapes into the car so that they are flush with the car. What is exercised is the child\’s ability to recognize, complete and construct shapes. Such an interesting game, but Edamame was having a hard time playing it. His face was tense and he was about to cry. Under my expectant gaze…

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The cultivation of parents determines the level of their children

At the entrance of the kindergarten, a mother was selling second-hand course cards to everyone with a helpless face. There are many people watching, but not many buying. She said this was a piano course card bought for her children. In order to provide their children with artistic influence, they bought a piano worth more than 10,000 yuan and signed up for a piano class worth 8,000 yuan. The child became interested in three minutes and took two lessons. There is no way to survive. I am a piano student, so…

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Parents are waiting for their children to thank them, but their children are waiting for them to apologize.

I originally wanted to share a relaxing and happy theme today, but I saw a paragraph in Nancy’s article, “My parents have discouraged me since I was a child. When I grew up, my personality became very introverted and I did not dare to express my thoughts easily. In the circle of friends When I was very young, I always tried to please others when communicating with others. If I didn’t do things well, I would feel guilty for a long time, even if it was someone else’s fault.” Deep in my heart…

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As long as you cultivate in this way, you can also raise \”other people\’s children\”

I shared some good news with my friends: this semester, my son was re-elected as class president for the third year, joined the student union, and was elected captain of the school basketball team. Some friends cheered: Wow! This is the legendary male god! Tell me how this little male god was made? If you are not a man, you don\’t care and you don\’t dare to act like one. But, watching him progress little by little, step by step…

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