Why does Chinese-style parental devotion often end in tragedy?

When you ask a mother if she wants to have a second child. Many mothers will answer \”I don\’t dare to give birth.\” It’s not that I don’t want to, especially mothers who like their children are willing to give their children a sibling. But if you look at these data, you\’ll probably understand. Some time ago, HSBC released a global education expenditure survey report. In terms of education expenses from primary school to university, China…

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Arson case of naughty children: How dangerous is it to spoil your children?

Recently, I saw a piece of news on the Internet: Mr. He from Yunnan placed a CT machine worth 270,000 yuan in his warehouse, but it was set on fire. Mr. He was confused and called for surveillance, and found that it was two children who set the fire. The child who set fire was obviously not joking. Because when they first entered the warehouse and set fire to it, they didn\’t set the machine on fire. So, the two hearts…

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A 4-year-old girl is forced to cook by her mother every day. The truth behind it makes people cry

A 4-year-old child is in a carefree stage. He grows up happily under the protection of his parents every day and does what he wants to do as he pleases. But a 4-year-old Japanese girl was not so lucky. At the age of 4, she was forced by her mother to cook every day. Not only did she have to cook, but she also had to wash the bathtub, clean the room, etc., and do all the housework that should be done by adults, even in kindergarten…

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collapse! The child is obviously very sleepy, but he refuses to sleep no matter how much he is coaxed…

Some time ago, a mother of a two-year-old child asked in a WeChat group: \”It\’s time, but the child refuses to sleep no matter how hard I coax him, what should I do?\” As soon as this question was raised, the originally silent group suddenly became noisy, and the mother They complained one after another: \”My baby is the same. Every night before going to bed, he makes all kinds of troubles. Sometimes he wants to drink water, and sometimes he wants me to tell stories…\” \”My baby doesn\’t do anything before going to bed every night…\”

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When a child is bullied, this is the best way to fight back

Not long ago, one day I was playing with my classmate Zhe in the community and witnessed an incident of \”turf grabbing\” among children. A \”showdown\” with great disparity in strength. Next to the community square, there is an abandoned flower bed. There are no flowers in it, but more grass and trees. Once, classmate Zhe was playing with slides and fitness equipment in the square. I was standing by the flower bed waiting, and saw two three-year-olds…

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Don\’t let this mentality ruin your child

My classmate Ali has been very busy recently. She wants her child to go to a good kindergarten. However, top kindergartens have strict entrance exams, including English tests. So Ali began to encourage her child to learn English better. She showed him English cartoons such as \”Happy Burger\” and \”SpongeBob SquarePants\” all day long. She also spent a lot of money on him and hired a one-on-one foreign teacher. She told him,…

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A 4-year-old boy and a girl kissed each other on the school bus. What do you think of this \”gangster\” behavior?

As a parent, how do you feel when you see your 3 or 4-year-old child hugging and kissing other children of the same age like adults? In Lianyungang, Jiangsu, a 4-year-old boy and a little girl of the same age were photographed and uploaded kissing on the school bus. In the video, the children first hugged each other and kissed each other, then turned their heads and shouted: \”Teacher, are you watching?\”. Having said that…

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90% of parents have faced the dilemma: Should we spank our children?

The day before yesterday, I took Guoguo to play at a friend\’s house. My friend\’s son Xuanxuan is one year younger than Guoguo, and the two children had a lot of fun chasing each other in the living room. While my friend and I were drinking tea and chatting quietly, I suddenly heard an \”ouch\” coming from outside! It turns out that Xuanxuan and Guoguo fished out the fish in the fish tank with their hands, and the equipment used to circulate water in the fish tank was plugged in. Auntie thought they were in danger…

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You are always scrolling through your mobile phone, why should you ask your children to study?

Starting from the campus ballads \”My Deskmate\” and \”Brother Sleeping on My Upper Bunk\”, I like Gao Xiaosong very much. To this day, these two songs can still touch me at any time, making me miss those youthful years that are gradually disappearing and the people I met in youth. Gao Xiaosong has multiple identities: a famous musician, songwriter, producer, director, talk show host, bringing campus citizens…

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Children don’t learn if they don’t want to. Parents are so wrong.

We have a custom here of giving a banquet to a child\’s twelfth birthday, which is called \”round lock\”. I have participated in several children\’s \”round lock\” banquets. Almost every time, after the host\’s opening remarks and the parents\’ speech, the \”round lock\” banquet turned into a special talent show for the little birthday girl. Piano, cucurbit flute, flute, dance… On this day, children will almost have to show off their eighteen martial arts skills…

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