At the end of education, all that matters is the attitude of parents

\”Attitude is everything.\” is Carnegie\’s famous saying. This statement is equally true when it comes to education. Recently, I have discovered that there are some very powerful parents around me. They seem to be born with the ability to make us feel that their children always naturally exude obedience and understanding. And this kind of obedience and sensibleness is not inner rebellion but superficial obedience. This kind of ability has nothing to do with their academic qualifications…

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Sorry, I\’m not what you expected me to be

A relative has a child who is smart and loves to play. In the first few years after he was born, his parents were always busy living their own \”personal lives\” and often inadvertently neglected that there was a child who had just come into this world at home. Children sometimes come up with weird ideas, but they just don’t think about whether it will cause trouble to others. When he learned that he had done something wrong, the hot-tempered father would only…

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Kindergarten teacher: Two very important things when entering kindergarten, but 99% of parents don’t know

Hello, kindergarten is about to start again! Whether it is a 3-year-old child who has just entered kindergarten, or a four- or five-year-old child returning to kindergarten after a summer vacation, adapting to kindergarten has become a very difficult thing, and you have to put some effort into making it smooth for your child. Go. Regarding preparation for kindergarten and precautions in kindergarten, many parenting websites have actually said this…

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Baby, this separation is your path to independence and my path to growth.

These days, everyone is talking about the issue of children’s schooling. Especially when a child enters kindergarten for the first time. The parents are even more nervous than the children. Why do some children get through this stage successfully? But some children are surrounded by separation anxiety and have difficulty adapting for a long time? This is often related to the child\’s inner sense of security. Starting from the birth of the child. …

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All naughty children are the result of their parents\’ habituation.

On weekends, my neighbor\’s family came to my house for dinner with their children. The little guy is very good-looking, just like the boy dolls with pink makeup and jade in New Year paintings. His eyes are bright and bright, and he is full of intelligence. He is really cute. But it didn’t take long for my impression of him to completely change. When this child arrived at someone else\’s house, he didn\’t feel alive at all. He soon started running around all over the floor, rolling and crawling…

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If you don\’t give love and respect, why should your children listen to you?

When Xiaowei was still young, Riyao Jun discussed with me seriously: \”You must give your children someone to be afraid of, so that they can be easily disciplined. Let\’s do this. From now on, you will play the red face and I will play the bad face, both of us.\” Cooperate with education. Therefore, Riyaojun\’s usual sentence pattern for educating children is often: \”Yang Xiaowei, let me tell you, you can\’t…did you hear…\” But Xiaowei is so stubborn…

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Children need to dawdle

Whenever parents get together, there are often more complaints about their children than praise. Children\’s procrastination in doing homework has become one of the focuses of parents\’ complaints. \”Only for that little homework, I have to work until after 10 o\’clock every night.\” \”Every time I let him do homework, the number of times he drinks water and goes to the toilet will increase significantly. It seems that he only needs to drink water and go to the toilet when doing homework. Toilet.\” Even though…

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You have lost weight! It’s tiring to go to work, and it’s hard to take care of the kids.

During the summer vacation, I took my son back to my mother’s house in the countryside. A neighbor saw me and said, \”You have lost weight.\” It’s tiring to go to work, and it’s hard to take care of children. I have lost a lot of weight, but I still look better if I am fatter. Some classmates saw me and said, \”You have lost weight.\” You are living a good life and have time to exercise. I have lost a lot of weight and look better. A friend saw me and said, you are finally back. He still looks the same, depending on his age…

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\”Three major preparations\” for your baby to enter kindergarten, one less preparation will lead to more crying for a week

Please click here to enter a description of the image. The summer vacation is coming to an end and the new school year is about to begin. The most anxious people at this time are the parents whose babies have turned three years old and are preparing to enter kindergarten. A baby who has been around every day from birth to now and has never been separated from his parents suddenly has to go to school and be away from his parents for a whole day. He must be uncomfortable in various ways, right? Whatever we have…

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If you are reluctant to educate your children, society will educate them hard for you.

Recently, there have been a lot of \”various bear deeds\” about \”naughty children\”. Reminds me of Zhang Xinzhe\’s song, \”How can I bear to blame you for making a mistake? I went too far in giving you freedom\”… Two days ago, I saw a netizen breaking the news that an 11-year-old child was playing with his younger brother in a hotel in Beijing. Peeing on the lobby couch. The staff came out to coordinate, and the child\’s mother shouted loudly: \”My child is 11…

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