Baby, speak slowly, I\’m listening

Recently, my son has become a talkative person. For example, when I go to the toilet, if he has not finished speaking, he will stand outside the door and continue to talk to me. And in the elevator, it sometimes seems awkward. One day because the underground parking lot has been dry lately. I just said that the underground parking lot has been very dry recently, and there was always water in the past. My wife didn\’t…

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No matter how hard it is, you must take care of your children yourself

I remember that I had just graduated. Once, there was a dinner party with old classmates, and a classmate brought his boyfriend over. At that time, everyone had dinner together and talked about their ideals in life. When talking about children in the middle, I said that the children I gave birth to were better raised by myself. The man spread his wine glasses and said, \”It\’s not necessary. The child is not sensible, so just give it to the old man…\”

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To raise a child who talks to his parents about everything, you only need to do one thing

Last month, when I came back from Japan, the flight was delayed on taking off due to weather conditions. People sitting on the plane waiting were scrolling boredly on their mobile phones. While the children were asleep, I quickly responded to friends’ WeChat messages and found that my friend W sent a series of voice messages, which made me anxious. One day, W went to pick up her 5-year-old daughter from kindergarten and found that her daughter’s hair, which was originally tied into a ponytail,…

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What about preventing sexual assault? Why do you let your children dress so casually when the weather is hot?

A group of pictures on the Internet of a grandma taking a little girl wearing only a pair of shorts on the subway made people go crazy. Some people said: \”You should wear short-sleeved clothes for your child, after all, she is a girl.\” Others said: \”This grandma must not know about \’pedophilia\’\”! Someone else said: \”I told you not to let the elderly take care of their children. Let\’s see!\” Although…

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Child Sexual Assault: Don’t let your unspeakability push your child into the abyss

I just read a piece of information: A 16-month-old baby girl was sexually assaulted and her diaper was covered in blood. Looking at the bloody diaper, I felt a dull pain in my heart, wishing I could develop superpowers and wipe out that beast. When I watched \”Sowon\”, I watched it twice and didn\’t finish it. It was a Korean movie about child sexual abuse. I just watched it online…

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This is the kind of kid who will be the most hopeless in 10 years!

Two days ago, I went back to my hometown and heard that my neighbor’s son, Xiaojun, had resigned again. In the first year after graduating from college, Xiaojun worked as an intern in a decent public institution. He received meal tickets every month, big gift packages every holiday, and a generous year-end bonus. He basically had no food expenses and was envied by his neighbors. endless gaze. Later, Xiaojun called home every three days…

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Fortunately, I was never absent during the first few years of my child’s life!

My boss is also my best friend, a trapeze artist. I often go to bed in New York at night and wake up in Tokyo in the morning, like a superwoman, full of fighting spirit. If pictures of two children hadn\’t often appeared in her circle of friends, I believe no one would have known that she was a mother of two. Less than a week after returning to Beijing, she told me that next month she planned to go to France for further study…

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Just look at Ping\’er and Jiaqing to see how much influence a mother\’s mirror has on her children.

Recently I am watching \”The First Half of My Life\”, in which there are two children of the same age: Ping\’er and Leng Jiaqing. Although the two children are the same age and come from divorced families, their personalities are very different. I like Ping\’er, he is innocent, kind and cute, and has the happiness that children of this age have. If you don\’t like living in a small house, you will cry and make noises. No matter you have to go to school tomorrow, or if you don\’t think about your mother\’s last…

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The first half of my life: Parents’ marriage determines the fate of their children

Recently, the TV series \”My First Half of Life\” is being aired on major media platforms. Discussions triggered by this TV series are also endless. Some people see the marriage, and some see the workplace. But Beaver Mom, as a mother audience, naturally pays attention to The two children in the play come from different families and have very different personalities. The two children, Ping\’er and Jiaqing, come from three families. Although they face…

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Be careful of the harm \”controlling\” can do to your children, it is more terrible than losing your temper.

Learning to let go is harder than loving your children… We all feel bad about losing our temper with our children. Because under the roar, the child trembled, or stared and resisted. When controlled by anger, parents often fall into a state of control. So when I calm down, I will reflect on it, regret it endlessly, and warn myself not to do it next time. When we see something being held tightly by a mother…

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