Most parents do this without realizing it will cause harm to their children

I saw a fable on the Internet, which roughly tells the story of a lion who was tagged with a donkey on his tail. He was very angry and could not tear it off no matter how hard he went. He would carry the tag with him wherever he went. When other animals saw it, they would point to its label and say, \”Look, this is a donkey.\” The lion didn\’t believe it at first, but after hearing other animals calling it \”donkey\” too many times, it began to become suspicious. ..

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Educate children to be independent, but also teach them to learn to leverage

When she was washing her daughter\’s clothes at night, Li Jie found some blood on the child\’s pants. The child is in the first grade of junior high school. The menstrual period this year must have started again today. Thinking that her child had grown into a little woman, Li Jie felt inexplicably soft in her heart. After cleaning up the house, Li Jie knocked on the door of her child\’s room, wanting to chat with her and ask her how her day was at school. child…

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Another child committed suicide because of these 5 words from his parents! Don\’t say it again

Do you still remember that some time ago, a Sichuan boy committed suicide after taking the college entrance examination? He even wrote in his suicide note: Either burn my body or throw it away. Don’t take me home! Why do you have so much hatred for your parents that you don’t want to go home after you die? Rui\’s mother carefully studied Xiaosi\’s suicide note and found that although Xiaosi repeatedly emphasized that he had low emotional intelligence, his parents\’ emotional intelligence was…

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The way you get along with your children is the way you get along with the world.

This topic starts with my \”entanglement\”. A long time ago, I discovered that I am a troubled person. I am most afraid of making choices. I will always waver between two choices. I can\’t afford to take them up and can\’t let them go. It\’s very painful. I still remember that when I was a child, my cousin would always bring me some gadgets, two rain flower stones and two small toys. I would choose first, one for each of us. alright…

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Can\’t afford to lose? Can\’t afford to be hurt? How to improve children’s resilience

The summer vacation has just begun, and the staff at Shaoxing Railway Station have already intercepted 24 children who had run away from home. According to statistics, the reason why these children ran away from home was just because they were scolded by their parents for playing games, and some children did not want to attend tutoring classes during the summer vacation… According to statistics from the Chaoyang District Police Station of the Beijing Municipal Public Security Bureau, more than 90% of children lost their… .

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Don’t be a good mother in the eyes of others, just be a good mother in the hearts of your children

During the summer vacation, I took my children to my grandparents’ house in the countryside for a few days. There is a very small express delivery point opposite, with only a mother and a little boy of about seven years old inside. My mother is busy all day, and when she is free, she can only stay here to send and receive express delivery. For several days, I have never seen this little boy come out to play. Every time he brought his children over, he would eagerly…

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Whether a child is successful or not is related to these 4 laws! Mom must watch it

Every mother hopes to raise a good child who is sunny, cheerful, confident and optimistic, and also hopes to be a good mother who is gentle and delicate. But when it comes to disciplining children, they can easily become grumpy and impatient when faced with their stubbornness and willfulness… Why does this happen? Teacher Chen Qi from the Chinese Academy of Sciences said when sharing in the \”Parents\’ Must-Read Lecture\”…

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Simon Yam’s wife posts family photos, and her 12-year-old daughter’s long legs attract attention

Recently, Simon Yam\’s 12-year-old daughter Ella, accompanied by her mother (supermodel Qiqi), went to Universal Studios in Hollywood, USA. As can be seen from Qiqi\’s Weibo photos, Ella is not only tall and slender, but also has really eye-catching legs, almost catching up with her supermodel mother. It seems that he is another typical example of winning at the starting line because of his innate genes. Apart from…

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Child, please slow down and grow up

At noon in midsummer, I was writing an article in front of the computer. When I turned around, I found that my son had fallen asleep on my bed. He was lying in the middle of the bed in a \”big\” shape, with long arms and legs, head tilted, breathing evenly, quiet and well-behaved. Now, only when he is asleep, such a harmonious and beautiful picture will appear. More often than not, I keep reminding him: put down the phone, go play ball, go write…

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Danger, never praise your child like this

My best friend has a beautiful daughter, whose English name is \”Rose\”. True to her name, she is as lovely as a rose in spring. Her best friend braided her hair into nice little braids, put her on a chiffon floral skirt, and walked around the neighborhood. Everyone who saw her praised her, kept saying she was beautiful, and said she would be very stunning when she grows up. , and touched her pink little face lovingly. Boudoir…

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