Don\’t be a mushroom, children with feelings can live a happy life

In the story of \”The Little Prince\”, the little prince traveled from star to star. One day he came to a star and found a man who kept doing arithmetic problems, trying to figure out how many stars he owned. So Night after night, year after year, there was no time to stop and breathe. The little prince said: Why don\’t you look at the sunset? He said he didn\’t have time. He didn\’t have time for anything. little Prince…

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Should I attend early education classes?

Too many mothers asked me in the background and in the WeChat group, \”Should we enroll our children in early childhood education classes? Is early childhood education useful for children\’s growth?\” I am asked, someone who has never enrolled children in any early childhood education classes, to talk about this topic. I\’m afraid of being biased, so I\’ve been avoiding this topic. But everyone is still asking questions as always. Especially the day before yesterday, a mother said she wanted to give herself three months…

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Huang Lei: Eating well with your children is a compulsory course for parents

In the popular urban emotional drama \”Midnight Diner\”, starring Huang Lei, every dish he cooks brings out a series of heartwarming life stories, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens. In fact, as early as Hunan Satellite TV\’s \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” variety show, Huang Lei took his daughter Duoduo to participate. In the show, his cooking skills gradually won the recognition of other guests and the audience…

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If this link is missing in education, boys will not become good husbands

University of Virginia psychologist James Kaon and his colleagues conducted such a psychological experiment. James told the women participating in the experiment that they were about to receive electric shocks. In Experiment 1, women were not allowed to hold anyone\’s hand. In Experiment 2, women were allowed to hold a stranger\’s hand. In Experiment 3, women were allowed to hold their husband\’s hand. (The electric shock didn\’t actually happen…

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This is the kind of kid who will be the most hopeless in 10 years! Don\’t blame me for not reminding you

I accidentally offended a cousin-in-law. She first scolded me in front of my mother for being \”unrelative\” and \”looking down on people.\” Then she said something wrong about me in front of relatives back home: \”Grandma is a jerk. She came to my house when she was a child. Come on, I\’ll give her some peach cakes to eat. Now that I\’ve become more capable, I don\’t even do a favor, I just look like a wolf…\” The cause of the matter is that her daughter Xiaohui graduated from college this year…

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What kind of children will parents who don’t read educate?

We all envy those highly educated parents because they are knowledgeable and reasonable, but more often than not our parents are not highly educated and do not study. What impact does this have on their children? Parents who don’t read raise children who don’t read. One time I went to my cousin\’s house and found that there was not a single book in the huge house. My cousin said that his parents usually don\’t read books, and…

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What to do with a child\’s bad temper? Parents often look for reasons from themselves

01. Parents repeatedly give in, but children are proud of themselves. In the evening, I was walking in the park, and there was a family of three walking in front of me. The little boy looked like three or four years old, making milky sounds and jumping around, looking happy and happy. As they were walking, the little boy suddenly shouted: \”How annoying! You are so annoying!\” As he said that, he stood still. In fact, just because his mother said that during the parent-child trip a few days ago…

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Without awesome parents, the only way out for ordinary people is to study more

My niece took the college entrance examination, and her scores came out in the past two days. When I was chatting with her before, she asked, \”Sister-in-law, is it really that important to get into college?\” I was afraid that if her grades were not satisfactory, I never answered the question directly. The results came out the day before yesterday, and she scored well. The stone in my heart finally fell, and I can answer this question directly: It may not be that important to get into college, but studying in ordinary…

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A truly high-level education is to allow children to be themselves

I remember a point in an article I read before. A common misunderstanding in Chinese-style education is that no matter what parents do or say, it is for the benefit of their children. As a child, you can only accept and obey unconditionally. You can\’t even raise an objection, let alone make any rebellious behavior. Otherwise, it means being disobedient, unfilial, and ignorant. Among those…

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Mom who is not defeated by these five words, I respect you as a hero

When I survived the two years of breastfeeding, I thought I could finally let the baby\’s father take over the job. Who knew that Riyaojun would not be able to take charge of the job on his own? Xiaowei still shouted: \”Let dad go to work, and mommy will stay with me at home!\” \”I don\’t want dad to play with my toys, I want mom to play with me!\” \”I don\’t want dad to hug me, mom will hug me! Hug! Hug!\” When Xiaowei finally stopped taking night feeds, I thought…

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