Whether your child loves reading or watching TV, it’s up to you

Written in front: Today I want to talk to you about reading. The article has 3,300 words, so you can read it slowly. I mentioned my own story of studying later. You are welcome to leave a message for discussion and tell your own story. It is recommended that all parents develop the habit of reading in their children as early as possible. Don\’t wait until your children are older to regret it. These days many parent groups are discussing their children’s summer vacation arrangements. …

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Kissing a child of the opposite sex makes parents happy, but experts say the opposite

It is said that a father\’s attitude toward his daughter and mother\’s attitude toward her son are very different, just like a little cotton-padded jacket that cannot be draped around the body but must be held in the arms. Especially those celebrity parents who have attracted much attention, the scene of asking for a kiss from their children is really fascinating~ Huang Lei and Duoduo, Li Xiaopeng and Ollie, Lu Yi and Belle, Wang Yuelun and Wang Shi…

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The way the child looks today reflects the hard work of the father yesterday.

The German philosopher Fromm said: \”The father is one of the children\’s mentors. He shows the child the way to the world.\” My understanding is that showing the child the way to the world is nothing more than helping the child develop a specialty, help Children find a role model to help them form high-quality thinking. Every child has the shadow of his father’s hard work. Daughter Lulu has been in her father\’s house since she was a child…

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Be careful: \”emotional parenting\” is harming you and your children

I received a message from a mother a few days ago: \”I had a disagreement with my dad today, and I yelled at him a few words. My dad was so angry that even when I tried to communicate with him in front of my child, he still looked dead. He has a tough mouth and doesn\’t admit his own problems at all, which is very annoying! The reason is this, the child is playing well, but he has to tease him. As a result, the child gets angry…

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There are no stupid children in this world

01. Your unrestrained words destroy more than just your child\’s self-confidence. At the school gate, a young mother looked eagerly toward the campus. A little boy of seven or eight years old came out. When he saw his mother, he ran over happily and threw himself into her arms. With a smile on his face, his mother helped him take off the heavy schoolbag and put it on her shoulders. Then she asked expectantly: \”Today\’s test…

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Letter from dad to daughter: Don’t do it for men

Dear Baby, Recently, your mother and I wanted to search for a question on Google. But before the question was finished, Google listed the most popular searches around the world. Number one on the list is \”How to keep him attracted to me.\” I was shocked. I have read many articles on this issue. Many of them teach girls how to stay sexy and when to give it to their boyfriends or husbands…

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If you want your children to develop awesome self-care skills, all talk about patience is nonsense.

Mao Tou is six years old and has recently learned to take a bath by himself. What I did was to adjust the temperature of the water in the shower head. Mao Tou undressed by himself, washed his hair and body by himself, then turned off the faucet, dried himself, and then went in by himself. I put on clean clothes in the room and it was done in one go. I just had to lean on the sofa with my feet up and wait, and a clean and sweet-smelling baby appeared automatically. …

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These 5 words, you would rather rot in your stomach than say them to your children! Every sentence is like a knife

A sense of security is the source of children’s courage to face the world. Children who feel insecure will close themselves off or put on a defensive posture. We try our best to protect our children\’s sense of security, try not to beat or scold them, and try our best to help them avoid harm. We think this is enough, but what is unimaginable is that a parent\’s casual words can make a difference. Children\’s safety…

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In marriage, what is really difficult for women is not having children.

I had a caesarean section. After the baby was born, I was pushed into the ward. My husband arrived at the hospital a few hours later. When he walked to the bed, he didn’t lower his head and said, “Thank you, my wife.” He didn’t ask me if the operation was painful. Then he looked at me. I looked at the baby next to me and smiled softly and said that the baby was chubby and cute. I also smiled. Then the doctor came over and lifted up my clothes, revealing the caesarean section wound…

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Should parents give material rewards to their children?

Recently, a colleague talked to me about her troubles. Her son is very smart, but his grades are always good or bad, which gives her a headache. So, she decided to use a \”reward\” to motivate her children. One day, she called her son in front of her and solemnly promised him: \”If you can get into the top ten in the class in the final exam, my mother will buy you a mobile phone…\”

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