One weekend not long ago, I took Xiaonuo to play in the community. She was recently obsessed with scooters, spinning around and around in the open space. I sat next to her and watched her. After a while, Grandma Chenchen came with Chenchen. Chenchen was a little over three years old and was fairly familiar with us. Chenchen\’s grandma led him over and said, \”Call Auntie!\” Chenchen didn\’t call and hid behind her a little shyly…
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This is a story with a tragic beginning. Fortunately, he has two mothers
Have you ever thought about losing your child? I\’ve thought about it. I also had this nightmare, we went out to play together, and then somehow, we couldn’t find Liuliu. We searched everywhere, desperately looking, and saw the back of a little girl looking like Liuliu from a distance. I rushed over and grabbed her, but it turned out to be an unfamiliar face. I went crazy. The despair at that moment was cold. When I woke up…
Accidentally, I yelled at my child again.
A few days ago, I took my son out to have breakfast together. Directly in front of us sat two mothers pushing their babies. They had just finished their meal and were chatting with their babies in their arms. One of the little guys always stares at his son as he eats, which is so cute. Both little guys should be less than 1 year old. I heard them say that their children always have to be held and cry when they are put down. I remember when my son was six years old…
How parents decide their children\’s lives
Brother M\’s child took the college entrance examination this year. Before the results came out, I asked him about his preference for applying. \”I want to study abroad for my undergraduate degree, and I just signed up for an intensive IELTS training class…\” I went directly to study abroad for my undergraduate degree. This direction surprised me a little. I know more children who finish their undergraduate degree and then go to study abroad for graduate school. way. \”Going directly to study abroad for undergraduate studies will be beneficial to your future graduate studies, so that you can…
90% of daughters-in-law can’t stand these five bad habits of mother-in-law, but she can handle them well
It was well known that Meili and her mother-in-law got along well. In the community, when an old man meets Meili\’s mother-in-law, he always says, \”Your daughter-in-law is nice. She says good things about you every time. You are really lucky. My daughter-in-law always says bad things about me when she meets people.\” Young mothers tell Mei Li Li said: \”Your mother-in-law looks very qualified, I really envy you.\” Meili works as a full-time mother at home, her husband earns an average income, and her mother-in-law…
The highest state of raising a second child is for them not to be brothers and sisters!
One day not long ago, I took Xiao Nuo to play downstairs after dinner. Not long after she was riding the scooter, she met Xiao Qu, who they often played with. Xiao Qu drove a twisting car. The two children began to compete around the big flower bed in the middle of the open space to see who could ride faster, and they would even swap bikes from time to time. Xiaoqu\’s mother and I were chatting aside, occasionally glancing at the child. Not long after, Xiao Nuo came to me crying…
A family\’s tragedy starts from not talking well!
Yesterday was my grandpa’s birthday, and a large family gathered together to celebrate the old man. My aunt\’s cousin Jiajia had just finished taking the college entrance examination. During the dinner, I asked her: \”Which university are you going to apply for?\” Jiajia said: \”Any school outside the province is good. The farther away from home the better.\” I was surprised to hear this answer. In my impression, Jiajia has always been a well-behaved and sensible girl. I don\’t know…
Mom, please go away, dad must do these 7 things!
Some people say: \”Chinese-style family = anxious mother + invisible father + rebellious children.\” Indeed, in quite a few families, fathers have been \”absent\” for a long time. Although they also stay at home, they are unwilling to participate in the tedious parenting matters, and naturally put all the burden of raising children on their mothers. A mother around me often complained: \”One night…
32 years of research reveals how parenting affects children\’s lives
The longest and most comprehensive study on temperament in the world is the New York Longitudinal Study conducted by child psychologists Alexander Thomas and Stella Chase. What psychology calls \”temperament\” is different from the temperament we usually talk about. It is more similar to \”temper\”, which is an innate personality tendency. This study found that people are already born with…
What is the key step in a child’s reading journey?
A few days ago, a mother came to my place to pick out a few sets of books for her baby. I asked her, after buying so many books, have the children read them? \”I have read a few books, but the children don\’t like some of them, and I don\’t know how to tell them.\” How to tell stories to children? Everything is difficult at the beginning, and the critical first step must be taken well. I think the critical first step often has nothing to do with books and reading itself. and…