Some signs of a child\’s growth are often mistaken for \”problem behavior.\” These misunderstandings may cause parents to miss opportunities to guide their children in a positive way. 1. Be destructive. When many children are about one year old, they will start to exhibit some \”destructive\” behaviors that are unbelievable to their parents. For example, pull all the paper out of the carton, throw things to make noise, put all the boxes,…
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Only when children are willing to use it can they become great talents.
\”I only know how to pity my children, but I am not willing to use them.\” This is the misunderstanding of the love of today\’s parents. This reminds me of the story of \”touching the dragon and talking about the Queen Mother Zhao\”. The story takes place during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. In 265 BC, Qin attacked Zhao and captured three cities. Because the new king of Zhao came to the throne, the Queen Mother Zhao was in charge of political affairs. The State of Zhao asked Qi for help, and the State of Qi replied: \”The Duke of Zhao must…
As a parent, how long will you go on the road of \”working without a certificate\”?
At first, I thought that all mothers were gifted and would become masters of love without any practice. After many twists and turns, I finally understood that in the exercise book of time, even if every page is painted with the shading of heart to heart, we still need to practice thousands of times before we can catch a glimpse of the truth of love. ——Liu Jirong Before giving birth to a baby, I had never read any parenting books, like what the writer Liu Jirong said…
You blocked the child\’s mouth with your own hands, but complained that he had nothing to say to you
have you eaten? –have eaten. Dress warmly. –knew. Don\’t be tired. –Um. In addition to forced marriage and induced birth, when your daily conversation with your child only consists of these three sentences, you have to think about whether you are a successful parent. A few days ago, a mother left a message for me in the background, and her words were very anxious. Her daughter is in junior high school and starting from this semester…
You are also raising a child, why are you so anxious?
One day at the weekend, Rooney had been watching cartoons for a long time, so I took him to the balcony to look at the green mountains in the distance. Suddenly, he seemed to have discovered a new world and said: \”Mom, how strange! When I look at the mountains in the distance, the anti-theft net in front of me becomes blurry. When I stare at the anti-theft net, the mountains in the distance look like I can\’t see clearly.\” I was happy that he could clearly describe his observation…
The cultivation of parents is the education of children
A few days ago, another incident involving passengers going crazy at the airport occurred. Dr. Zhang Dan (pseudonym) and his family of three came to Wuhan Tianhe Airport to check in. She said she was going abroad to attend an important meeting and must take this flight. After many unsuccessful attempts to communicate, something shocking happened. Dr. Zhang Dan suddenly rushed into the counter and slapped the check-in attendant hard on the face. Exit the check-in agent…
Behind the \”mother and child sleeping together, the elderly taking care of the children\”: hidden dangers of children\’s psychological problems and misalignment of family relationships
In families in China or Asian countries, including some places in the United States, it is a normal phenomenon for mother and child to sleep together. It is just like what many parents (especially the older generation) think: This is how it is in other families, so you have to How can you, a mother, let your child sleep on his own at such a young age? Today I would like to use 3 examples to tell all parents about this issue: at least 5 years old…
There is a saying, have you ever said it to your children?
I watched \”Dangal\” a few days ago. I was a little disapproving at first (I don\’t think children should devote their lives to realizing their parents\’ dreams). Until the end, when the elderly father said those words, I was so moved. of. \”You are my pride.\” How many children want to have such words from their parents throughout their lives? How many adults have never waited their whole lives…
A child in captivity, his world is just a circle
Some time ago, there was a report in the American \”Overseas Chinese News\” that many international students were saddened by their inner melancholy and bitterness. Although many people are from well-off families and have no worries about food and clothing, they not only achieve nothing in learning, but also waste a lot of time and youth. They have not learned foreign languages well, but have almost forgotten Chinese. They live in chaos abroad, and they are accompanied by Japanese. Online gaming day after day. Why…
Worry is a curse to children
Sometimes, I have to be thankful that I am busy. I force myself to code every day, and I am \”entangled\” by my two babies every day. The remaining time is just enough for eating, drinking and sleeping. Therefore, I can sleep in seconds every time I go to bed, and I eat well, and I hardly have time to think too much. Many others. Sometimes after dinner in the evening, I would take Ning Ning for a walk downstairs, and I would often meet a mother in the next building. She always…