I am so patient with my children, do you know where that comes from?

There must be some people who think I\’m pretentious about raising children, but they just don\’t say it to my face, and I know that. Take the child who wants to be hugged as an example. When he was about two years old, he said, \”Mom, please hug me. I\’m so tired.\” I picked him up. Now four years old, sometimes he says: \”Mom, hug me, I\’m so tired.\” I still open my arms. He said he was tired, I was really…

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The Dragon Boat Festival is here, you must let your children know these things

Silly, I can’t tell the difference between the Dragon Boat Festival and the Mid-Autumn Festival. A few days ago, I asked Xiaonuo, a classmate in the small class: There will be a holiday next week. Do you know what festival will be celebrated? Xiao Nuo said with a confused look: Is it the Mid-Autumn Festival? I remember that when I was a child, I never confused the Dragon Boat Festival and the Mid-Autumn Festival. Why? Because they are very different! In our hometown, celebrating the Dragon Boat Festival is simply called \”celebrating the festival\”. During the year…

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My children are rude

Every morning when I send my daughter to kindergarten, when I arrive at the school gate, there will be two guards standing at the door, who are mainly responsible for the safety of the kindergarten. There is also a retired uncle who helps maintain order. When the daughter walks to the gate, she will usually look up at the two doormen, or she will go in without looking up, but she will not say hello to them. And when I see that retired uncle, I will shout \”Master…\”

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If you don’t want mobile phones to ruin your children, you must do these 4 things

They say if you want to ruin a child, give him a cell phone. It can be seen that the adverse effects of mobile phones on children are shocking. You Mom has read a lot of articles about the harmful effects of mobile phones, which can be basically summarized into the following four categories: Affects children\’s height. Many mothers complain that their children delay their bedtime because of playing with mobile phones at night. Originally it was stipulated to go to bed at 9 o\’clock, but often…

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This thing is more terrifying than a child being abandoned by his mother

On the way back from kindergarten with Xiao En, I met Lei Lei and his grandmother from the same community, and we walked together. Lei Lei is a few days older than Xiao En, and they play together occasionally. Lei Lei held Xiao En\’s hand and walked in front. While we adults were talking, I noticed that Lei Lei shook Xiao En\’s hand hard. Later, he actually grabbed Xiao En\’s hand and slapped Xiao En\’s hand over and over again. Body and face, while observing…

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Mom and Dad, do you really take my feelings into consideration?

One night, my son came to give me a pat on the back as usual. This was a little sweet moment between us as father and son. When beating, my son always asks me, \”Dad, do you want it to be gentler?\” Especially when he sees me screaming sometimes, he will quickly stop and ask if he is beating too hard. That day he said some very philosophical words while pounding. \”Dad, you know why I…

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Discovered that the child’s panda eyes were caused by rhinitis

I don’t know if you have noticed that some children have dark circles under their eyes at a young age. Maybe you think this is caused by the child\’s lack of sleep, but recently there is another saying on the Internet: the most likely cause of the child\’s \”panda eyes\” is nasal congestion! Don\’t be too surprised, it\’s true! Rhinitis can cause dark circles under the eyes of children. Parents and friends, please pay attention~ Children’s dark circles and…

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Cultivating children’s reading habits must start from early childhood

A netizen once asked me: \”What should I do if my child doesn\’t like to read?\” I asked: \”How old is your child?\” She said he was 8 years old, and I asked again: \”Have you read picture books to him before he was 6 years old? ?” She said no, she didn’t even know what a picture book was at that time. Before the child is 6 years old, it is the golden period for reading enlightenment. If he has not read any books during this period, after entering elementary school…

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He committed suicide without being allowed to play with his mobile phone, and even took his mother\’s life. Why is the child so fragile?

Talk about a sad event and an important topic. Yesterday, my WeChat group was discussing the tragedy of a mother and her son committing suicide by jumping off a building one after another because of a trivial incident. The general situation is this: The child is a second-year student in the middle school affiliated to Beijing Institute of Technology. Because his academic performance was not satisfactory, his father confiscated his mobile phone. After asking for the mobile phone to no avail, the child chose…

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Son, give you five minutes

When I\’m with my children, I always adhere to the creed of \”lead the snail for a walk\” and do everything slowly. But taking your time does not mean blindly accommodating your child\’s wishes and allowing him to procrastinate and dawdle. Children are still young and have no sense of time, let alone time management. Almost all children in the world follow the same routine. When they are having fun, when they are pushed…

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