Believe it or not, children are sometimes driven by a special power to do something unconsciously to save their parents? First, let’s take a look at what “family system sorting” is. Family system sorting is a new family therapy method in the field of psychological counseling and psychotherapy, developed by the German psychotherapy master Bert Hellinger…
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Why do I allow my children to watch Ultraman?
Ogawa is a huge fan of Ultraman. He couldn\’t remember what kind of coincidence, but after watching \”Ultraman Tega\” for the first time, he fell in love with Ultraman completely. I\’ve been debating whether to ban him from watching Ultraman. In addition to worrying about the bad effects on his eyes if he watches too much, he is also worried about the possible impact of \”violent\” content on him. Later, I didn\’t allow him to contact TV series for a while…
My husband doesn’t have a baby, how to treat this disease?
\”I\’ve thought about divorce many times, but I\’m worried about my children.\” Little T asked me for help in answering questions, and his words were full of helplessness. She said that she encountered a husband who never participated in childcare, but also pointed out that this was not good and that was wrong: Every day when he came home from work, the man would lie down on the bed after dinner and look at his mobile phone. The children wanted to play with him. He ignored… There was something wrong with the child…
Don’t blame the child for being disobedient, it’s just that you don’t understand the truth [Good in-depth article]
On the weekend, I made an appointment with a friend to take the children out to play, and the location was set at the Botanical Garden. But early in the morning, a friend called me and said, \”I guess there will be no chance today!\” After asking, I learned that the child was having a tantrum with his friend, and he was crying more and more. My friend was also very aggrieved, \”I accidentally broke my child\’s toy box. I told my child to buy a new one, but the child still refused to let me go…
Being a stay-at-home mom can also be the most exciting career
Through the omnipotent Internet, I got in touch with a friend I had lost contact with for ten years. Talking about their respective lives after the breakup, my friend said with embarrassment: \”Sister, don\’t look down on me after I told you. I have only been working for a few years and have been taking care of my children at home. I can\’t compare with you office workers, so I I\’m too embarrassed to contact you old friends…\” I can understand my friends\’ feelings…
Whether your child\’s future marriage will be a disaster or a blessing is all hidden in this truth.
When I call my mother every day, she will tell me all kinds of gossip: For example, someone\’s tall and handsome son is a good person and can make money, but he has found a girl who is lazy and lazy to have sex. The whole situation is so chaotic that her mother complains to others every day; another example is the beautiful daughter who is the host of a TV station. She has to find a 40-year-old man, and her husband doesn\’t care about her after giving birth…
Can you just sit back and relax after giving birth to a son? NO! Preventing sexual assault is more urgent for boys than for girls
A few days ago, a reader told me about the experience of her 11-year-old son (let’s call him Xiao Ming) who was almost sexually assaulted. She hoped that I would share it to remind all parents of boys: One day last week, Xiao Ming’s mother accidentally It was found that in the search history of the computer browser, there were keywords such as \”gay\” and \”like boys\”. She was very surprised and asked her husband and he said it was not him who searched…
Children, please don’t be clever. Keeping promises is a kind of ability.
How to break love entanglement? A mother of a sixth grader came to me for consultation. According to this mother\’s description, the thing that troubles her the most is that her children like to make stringent demands, are impatient, and do not keep their promises. They often conflict with their mothers over trivial matters in life. Mom often fails to argue with him, so she will lose her temper to suppress him. Mom knows that this hurts the parent-child relationship, but she also…
Every child who “doodles” is perceiving the world with his heart
When Ogawa was just 3 years old, I enrolled him in a painting class. Some friends around me said: \”What can he learn at such a young age? You are just wasting money!\” Indeed, for a long time, from a professional perspective, I really couldn\’t see Ogawa\’s talent in painting. Unique talents and amazing progress. However, I still insist on sending him to class every week. Because he is free and happy…
So, as a father, you can’t control your children?
A few days ago, when I sent CC to kindergarten, I saw a mother at the gate begging the teacher for mercy. The teacher discovered that the baby had a coin in his hand, and then informed the mother that for safety reasons, the child could not bring coins into the kindergarten. The mother said it was okay, he wouldn’t eat it. But teachers insist small items pose a risk of being swallowed. My mother has obviously made a lot of efforts to understand and understand…