Yesterday, my upstairs neighbor talked to me about her son\’s obsession with video games, and she felt helpless. Of course she knows that she should limit the time and frequency of her children\’s play, but every time she gives up her principles because of her son\’s crying and fussing. \”Every time, when I said that he was not allowed to play games, he immediately started crying and fussing, and even rolled on the floor. I couldn\’t help him, so I had to let him play.\” The neighbor was very bitter…
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I\’m divorced, should I tell my children?
A mother asked me: \”My husband and I are divorced. Should I tell my children?\” \”Of course you should tell your children! He is an important member of the family and he has the right to know.\” I said. \”But he is still a child, and I am afraid of hurting him.\” The mother said awkwardly. \”Just because he is a child, what he needs most is trust. If you hide it from him, he will know sooner or later…
Children, no one in this world can only do what they like
I signed up my 5-year-old daughter for an English learning class. She takes classes once a week. I don’t expect her to learn well or get high marks in the exams in the future. I just hope that she can develop some sense of language during her language-sensitive period. Besides, the classes in the class are mainly It is mainly about playing and entertaining. This Monday night was the second class, and her father took her there. After returning home from class, her father taught me his daughter\’s original words. \”…
Opportunism is the core of Chinese wisdom
When I was a kid, I couldn\’t understand my dad\’s three iron rules the most. First, you are not allowed to throw dirty things into any water source; second, you are not allowed to trample and kill new lives; third, you are not allowed to speak ill of others behind their backs. I once stood by the river to urinate, and a charity dad slapped me in the face without saying a word. He looked very scary when he was angry. Dad was silent for a while, then turned around and scolded me: They are all like you…
Let me tell you in the name of the people: What is more terrifying than divorce is pretending to be a couple in front of children
Recently, everyone is following \”In the Name of the People\”. In addition to serving as secretary Dakang in traffic, my eyes have always followed Gao Yuliang and Wu Huifen, a fake couple who are divorced but continue to act as a gracious and respectful couple in front of others. In the TV series, the couple pretends not to be divorced in order to protect their reputation, but in real life, some couples barely maintain a relationship in name only for the sake of their children…
A single word from a mother can cast a shadow on a child for a lifetime! Don\’t say it again
What saddens me the most is that my mother called me a \”shameless bitch\”… This is a passage I saw in an article on Moments yesterday, and it was said by a girl\’s mother herself. This girl had a boyfriend when she was a sophomore in college. They were in a long-distance relationship, but they had a good relationship with each other. During the holidays, her boyfriend’s mother invited the girl to play at home for a day. The girl was filled with joy and ran…
Parents’ love debt cannot be paid by their children
Recently, I saw a news report about the actress Huang Yi: In 2011, Huang Yi put on a wedding dress and married Huang Yiqing, with a sweet look on her face. But when the shelf life of love expired, the two began to fall out and quarrel with each other. You said I was a domestic abuser, and I said you were cheating. They got into trouble and finally decided to separate. In 2014, after the two officially divorced, because their baby daughter was sentenced…
What happened to the kid who loved to hit others?
Before our eldest daughter, Xiao Xi, was two years old, we lived in the family building of Nuo Xi’s father’s workplace. There are several family buildings, almost like a community. There were several children about our age living there, and we often played together. For a while, there was a huge pile of sand piled in the open space in the middle of the family\’s courtyard, and the children had a great time playing there every day. That day, Xiao Xi and a few children were playing on the beach…
4 celebrities have 4 parenting styles, which one do you \”pretend\” for your children?
Which one do you \”pretend\” for the sake of your children? A wolf in sheep\’s clothing? Or a sheep in wolf\’s clothing? … In parenting, sometimes we unknowingly act as the big bad wolf in our children\’s hearts, and sometimes we are tender-hearted and willing to be the gentle little sheep. Is it a sheep or a wolf? In addition to the parents\’ own personalities, experiences, and educational concepts, the child\’s personality…
The worst parents are always \”for their children\”
When I was studying abroad, during a festival, a few people got together to make dumplings. Some people cried while wrapping their bags, saying, \”I miss home, I miss my parents.\” There was a visiting scholar at that time who was a few years older than us and kept silent. After finishing the wrapping and eating, even the chopping board was cleaned, the host girl made a pot of strong tea, and we talked around the fire. In the early hours of the morning, the scholar who had not been talking much suddenly started…