It\’s normal to lose your temper with your children, but please don\’t say \”I don\’t love you\” in every sentence

I took Su Bao to the Children\’s Museum on the weekend. When I was tired from walking, I sat down to rest. Not far away, a two- or three-year-old child suddenly started crying. The mother first picked her up and comforted her. The child started to cry while kicking his legs, and eventually he rolled all over the floor. The mother of the child got mad and yelled at the child: Why are you like this! I will never bring you here again! After being scolded by the mother, the child cried so hard that he couldn\’t breathe…

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Why can\’t Tihai help children become academic leaders?

There is a famous 10,000-hour theory in psychology: Anyone who practices in any field for more than 10,000 hours can become an expert in this field. Many people were inspired by this theory and began to train continuously. This theory has even become a strong support for the question sea tactics. So, scientifically speaking, does this theory hold up in practice? Why do some children…

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Sharing is not always a good thing, teaching your baby this way will harm two children at the same time

During the first few days of CC\’s kindergarten, she accidentally met a little girl from the same kindergarten as her in the elevator. When I chatted with my children’s grandmother, they were in small classes and we were in nursery school. She was very excited, and so was I. Everyone knows how much it helps children to adapt to kindergarten if they have a companion. I secretly thought that I would try to go to kindergarten with them in the future. Who can imagine…

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My child, even if you will eventually be mediocre, please don’t be willing to be mediocre.

Whether we admit it or not, most of us will live an ordinary life. No matter how much expectations we have for our children, most of them will eventually embark on an ordinary road and live an ordinary life. . This is not negativity, this is facing up to it. Except for those very few people who are gifted with extraordinary intelligence or born with a golden key, the rest have mediocre qualifications, ordinary appearance,…

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When raising children, how many parents make it an arrangement to accompany them?

The grass is bearing its seeds, the wind is shaking its leaves, we are standing, not talking, it is very beautiful – \”In Front of the Door\” by Gu Cheng. What is companionship? Companionship means actually having someone listen when you want to talk, someone who will echo you when you want to share, someone who will be happy with you when you are happy, and someone who will comfort you when you are sad. Companionship is like a heater, as long as you are close to him…

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I have a shy baby, here’s what I do

According to surveys, about 1/5 of children are shy, and they cannot completely get rid of it as adults. If the child\’s shyness is not changed in time during the critical period of growth, the child is likely to become a sensitive and shy adult when he grows up. So, how does shyness arise and how can it be avoided? Ruirui\’s mother has been a little anxious recently. …

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Even if the baby belongs to your family, you can’t take care of her like this.

Giving birth to a baby is not easy, and raising a baby is also difficult. Harmonious families are always similar, and families with conflicting parenting have their own conflicts… Scenario 1. – \”The book says that when the baby\’s first tooth emerges, you should brush your baby\’s teeth.\” – \”Look The baby\’s teeth haven\’t all grown yet, so why brush them?\” – \”But the book says so, and don\’t feed the baby after brushing!\”…

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A 5-year-old girl is about to die in Lop Nur! Get to know the parents behind her

Lop Nur is an uninhabited land with no vegetation and no birds or animals. It is mysterious and full of dangers. Even many backpackers are afraid to stop there. However, a 5-year-old girl actually plans to hike deep into the hinterland and head towards What kind of experience is it to challenge the \”Death Forbidden Zone\”? News Review This little girl’s name is Wenwen, from Shangrao, Jiangxi. She has dark skin,…

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There are two major failures in family education: being caught by the child and driving the child to a dead end.

There is a story that is very popular: The father discovered that his 15-year-old daughter was not at home, and left a letter that read: \”Dear Mom and Dad, Randy and I eloped today. Randy is a very unique person. Tattooed with all kinds of patterns, he is only 42 years old, which is not old, right? I will live with him in the forest. Of course, it is not just me and him, Randy and several others…

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Does your child hit others at home? Maybe you did something wrong

Doudou\’s mother was very distressed some time ago. She said that the 2-year-old little Doudou was lively and cute, but he had a problem that was difficult to change despite repeated education, that is, he loved to hit others. Anyone? No, only to family members. They would attack if they disagreed. Sometimes, even if they were having a good time, they would come over with a playful smile and slap them in the face. Pulling hair, pinching arms, scratching face, these are Doudou\’s common methods. As we get older,…

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