As the old saying goes, \”Three turns, six sittings and eight crawls\”, based on the growth patterns of most children, time points and milestones are set for their gross motor development. As a result, some new mothers began to become anxious. How come my baby is too old and hasn’t mastered these basic skills? Isn’t it lagging behind others? For such inquiries, my answer is usually: excluding very few pathological factors…
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Isn\’t it a good thing to be a weak mother?
It is said that a mother is strong and a mother is strong. As an unqualified mother of two children, I am slowly trying to show weakness to my children, and I am gradually realizing the sweetness of it. Going to sleep every night is a sweet and painful moment. Often I would lie on the bed with my sister Xiaowanzi, and I would close my eyes and fall asleep, quietly opening a crack with one eye to look at her, for fear of being discovered by her. She rolled around for a while…
The brain is a good thing, please take it with you when raising a baby
The baby cries, should I hug him or not? For mothers, this may be more of a question than \”life or death\”. If you don\’t hug me, there will be a little person in your heart who says: You don\’t hug the baby even when he cries. Why are you so cruel? Are you your biological mother? If you hug her, another little person will say: You hug her whenever she cries, dote on your child, and spoil her again. You are an unfit mother! …
When the child was young, I didn’t have time to accompany you, but when I am old, you should come home often to visit me.
My friend Xiaoxue had a fight with her husband and decided to run away from home. So, he came to stay with me at night. She said angrily that I was determined to get a divorce this time. I knew she was just talking casually, so I deliberately provoked her, \”Where will you go after divorce?\” Xiaoxue said, I will live here with you. I said, please, you are such a troublesome woman, I don’t want to live with you. Then I\’ll rent it alone…
What is the true meaning of \”boys raised in poverty, girls raised in wealth\”? It turns out we\’ve been doing it wrong all along…
My friend A Dong broke up with Yuanyuan for the simple reason that they were not in the right family. I don\’t understand this very much. Yuanyuan is my junior high school classmate and A Dong is my high school classmate. They have been classmates for four years. I know their conditions well. It was precisely because I felt that they were a good match that I decided to bring them together. Now Yuanyuan complained to me: \”You know how…
A comic tells you that parent-child reading is not that simple
Before parent-child reading, what should you read every day? It is hard to imagine that as parents, we can consume all the entertainment items, but we are unwilling to pick up books. As children, we can only become self-taught in such \”adversity\”. There is only one correct parent-child reading experience: parents should maintain the good habit of reading, set a good example through words and deeds, and let the children experience reading for themselves…
Parents who don’t know how to say no are not good parents
Oscar Wilde once said: \”The best way to make children well-behaved is to make them happy. And most adults in this society are surprisingly stingy when it comes to making children happy.\” Making children happy includes material things Enjoyment and spiritual satisfaction, however, parents born in the 80s and 90s are always happy to meet their children\’s material needs, so that their children never feel…
When I stopped losing my temper with my kids…
I often hear a mother downstairs scolding her child and yelling fiercely: \”I\’ve told you so many times, why can\’t you remember!\” \”Hurry up! You\’re always like this, I don\’t want you anymore. !\” Sometimes the scolding continued for several minutes, occasionally mixed with the sound of throwing things. At this moment, your mind will instantly see this furious mother…
What do the strictest traffic regulations in history have to do with me? Parents, stop it!
For an outing to enjoy flowers, the Qingming Festival is a good time for a self-driving trip. However, please note that Shanghai has issued the \”strictest in history\” traffic regulations, one of which is about baby\’s travel safety: Children under 4 years old must be equipped with and use safety seats correctly. Children under 12 years old are not allowed to sit in the front passenger seat. Not only Shanghai has implemented the \”strictest traffic regulations\”, every parent must take care of their children…
Boys who didn’t cry enough when they were young, how can their emotional intelligence be so high?
When a crying boy is not blessed, will you give birth to a boy or a girl? Have you ever thought that our attitudes towards boys and girls crying are completely opposite? If a girl falls while running, even if she just scratches a shallow skin with her palm and starts crying, her parents will come over and ask, \”Oh, does it hurt?\” If it\’s a little boy, the attitude is the opposite: \”No. …