Son, you can cry too

Today is April 1st. In addition to being April Fool\’s Day, there will inevitably be a lot of people missing my brother Leslie Cheung. I sent Xiao Fuqi to kindergarten in the morning. During the morning check at the door, I saw a little boy crying loudly. The little boy\’s father threatened, \”Why are you crying? If you continue to cry, I won\’t come to pick you up in the afternoon. You are still crying, and you see none of your classmates are crying…\” Out of instinct, I felt that…

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Mom, please look at me carefully

When Rooney was 5 years old, I signed him up to practice Taekwondo. After class, he asked me: \”Mom, did you look at me?\” I perfunctoryly said, \”Yes.\” \”Then what did you see?\” \”Uh…\” In fact, I had been watching him while he was in class. Look at your phone. \”You must be looking at your phone again! Mom, don\’t look at your phone anymore, look at me!\” From then on, on his…

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Confessions of a mother-in-law: I don’t want to be complained about by my daughter-in-law…

Looking back on the conflicts between myself and my daughter-in-law, I want to say… The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. Women from two eras, from being strangers to each other to living together, will have various conflicts due to different living habits, ways of speaking, and behaviors. I was born in the 1950s and am one of thousands of mothers-in-law. Background introduction Grandson is born…

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Behind children’s lies, there’s more than just routines hidden behind them

A few weeks ago, my almost three-year-old son went to the bathroom, brushed his teeth, and crawled into bed as usual before bed. When we were saying good night to him, he suddenly said, \”Mom, I need to pee.\” However, he had just finished peeing six minutes ago. I suspected that he wanted to go to bed late, so he was deliberately playing tricks, but I didn\’t want to tell it like this. So he sat on the chamber pot, and after a while…

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The lower the level of parents, the easier it is to ignore this matter

Is this a small thing? Yesterday I went to the supermarket. There were many children around the supermarket where I bought books. Some were reading with their children, and some were reading independently. Because it was a professional relationship, I couldn\’t help but pay more attention to it. One of them, a mother and daughter, caught my attention. The girl is about six years old, and the mother is also very young. I saw the child holding many, many books in his hands and looking around…

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The truth about the new global epidemic, the World Obesity Alliance tells you

Those chubby little nubs make people want to kiss and pinch them. Although cute, have you ever realized that your baby is already overweight? ! Most parents think that if their children grow taller, they will be blessed if they take more supplements and eat better, and they will be fat and fat! Only by eating more can you grow strong and healthy. Is this idea correct? In fact, obesity is harmful to the baby\’s physical and mental health…

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I only changed one sentence, and the child turned out to be so obedient…

We had just walked a few steps hand in hand. Once again, little Ye Zi, who was over 2 years old, opened his arms, looked up at me, and hummed, \”Mom, give me a hug!\” There was still a long way to go before I left home. My arm strength really can\’t hold it for too long, but if I refuse, how can the child easily cooperate? I\’m afraid it\’s inevitable to start working on the same spot. When my husband was around, relying on his strength, he was most afraid of his daughter crying, and would often…

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When you secretly admit that your child is not that good…

Every pair of parents will have ardent hopes for their children: The first time he went swimming, the father had already begun to imagine that his children would grow up to become good swimmers and dominate the pool. The child hears the unconscious rhythm of the music, and the mother has already imagined a huge stage. Under the spotlight, the child\’s figure jumps and nimbly moves. The child turned over for the first time and danced with joy; for the first time…

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Will a child like mine be easily bullied in the future?

|Your worries are probably unnecessary| OK has been a child in the traditional concept of \”timid and introverted\” since he was a child. The most superficial manifestation is that he is not good at fighting and always gives in. When children of the same age play together, some children will take the initiative to \”hook up\” other children and take other people\’s toys to play with, but OK is always the one being \”hooked up\” and starts to back away as soon as others come…

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Mom, did I pay for the phone bill?

Diandian, who is in middle school, is a cheerful and generous little girl with a very sweet mouth. She is really loved by everyone. However, some time ago, many of Diandian\’s behaviors regressed. She became more and more clinging to her mother. She already slept alone and asked her mother to sleep with her. If her mother disagreed, she would keep crying. One time I talked in my sleep in the middle of the night and cried loudly for my mother. Mom patted and coaxed her a few times, then opened her eyes…

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