Parental anxiety is a curse for children

Photo/Viktoria Sorochinski Chinese parents are more or less anxious, and my sister-in-law is one of the more serious ones. She gave birth to my cousin Ning Ning in 2004. She joined the army of anxious parents and has never looked back. I remember that when my cousin could not walk, if he sneezed a few times or had a runny nose, my sister-in-law would be worried and send her to the hospital immediately…

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If you continue like this, your child\’s future will be a replica of you

\”I\’m six years old and you still beat me. How old are you going to beat me?\”; \”If you say something and I don\’t listen, you have to say it properly. You can\’t hit anyone.\”; \”Those words Is it hard to accept it? But you have to accept it too”… A video of a 6-year-old girl crying while “educating” her mother has become popular on the Internet recently. This girl is called Daidai. Generation after generation was lectured for being beaten…

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A mother who loses her temper is a good mother

\”My daughter is in middle school. She has been fussy since she got up this morning. It took her more than ten minutes just to put on some clothes. This one is not good and that one is not good. She also refused to brush her teeth for a long time, and she thought the breakfast was not good. No matter how hard I push, I can\’t push her quickly. I\’m in a hurry to go to work, and I yell at her when I\’m in a hurry, making her cry. I usually read parenting books and know that I need to be friends with my children, but I\’ve never sent this to my children before…

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Before the age of 6, never let your children do these 3 things! It will be too late if you don\’t pay attention

When Youma was chatting with Luo Jing, a doctor of child psychology from the Chinese Academy of Sciences a few days ago, she learned a new term – \”moist cement period\”. This means that during the period from 3 to 6 years old, a child\’s personality, ideals and lifestyle are all in a critical forming period, and can be shaped at will like a ball of wet cement. But once this period is passed, the child\’s life…

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Mothers must have known these 6 things if their children don’t cry or fuss when they enter kindergarten.

Xixi is more than two months younger than classmate Zhe. Her birthday is at the end of August. She is destined to be the youngest in the class after entering kindergarten. Her friends are worried that her daughter’s development will not be as good as other children in all aspects, so she decided to enter kindergarten half a year later. In March, Xixi transferred to a private kindergarten. But these days, my friend has been very worried. She feels that her child\’s temperament has changed drastically after entering kindergarten, and her reaction is very strong. I have to go through three battles every day…

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In family education, one is a good person and the other is a bad person. Why is 1+1=0?

During the weekend, Lele was doing homework. Dad came over and took a look. He thought his writing was too sloppy, so he tore it up and asked him to rewrite it. It was almost finished, and Lele was obviously very unhappy, but intimidated by his father\’s majesty, he obediently started writing again. After not writing a few words, my father was still dissatisfied, so he rewrote it twice. Lele cried anxiously, and my father became even more angry…

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Li Yapeng has said so many sweet words, but these few words will bring you back to nature when it comes to raising children.

Since I became a fan of \”The Reader\”, even though I don\’t watch much TV, I have begun to look forward to the new program aired every weekend. Sure enough, after watching the program, I was filled with emotions and emotions, especially when Li Yapeng told the stories between him and his father, and between him and his daughter Li Yan. Li Yapeng talked about a detail between himself and his father that touched me very much. Sometimes his father would reply…

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Why can’t my mother-in-law become a “real mother”? This is the best answer I’ve ever seen…

I am not an only child. I have an older brother. He got married several years before me and his children are in primary school. I used to often tell my mother: \”To me, you are a qualified mother; but to my sister-in-law, you are not a good mother-in-law!\” Whenever I mentioned this, my mother would tell me to get out… I remember my sister-in-law\’s first When I was pregnant, the whole family was very happy, especially…

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Let children grow up with painting

A parent brought his child to sign up for an art class. His goal is very clear: \”I hope my children will grow up to be great painters.\” Creating art and creating beauty is indeed respectable and enviable. But I asked again: \”If your child cannot become a painter in the future, will you still support your child to learn painting? Because it is difficult to become a painter, and it is even more difficult to become a great painter.\” He hesitated. ..

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I played some tricks and my husband turned from cell phone cancer to child slave

Every day, countless mothers ask questions in the background – \”How can I make my husband put down his mobile phone and have a baby immediately?\” Well, this is a good question, and I am also looking for the answer. I want to say, who doesn’t have a mobile phone slave? I often laugh at myself in a joking way to Mr. Liu who is crazy about using mobile phones: \”I might as well make a mobile phone!\” Well, that\’s right, my guy is not a bad guy…

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