As parents, why should we work harder?

Some time ago, an old classmate started a WeChat group. He said that he accidentally heard a song that he often listened to while studying. I just wanted to bring in a few friends who are good friends to chat. Someone posted a sentence: \”Where have you been these years?\” This made everyone very sad. \”In the past few years, I have become a father\” \”In the past few years, I have become a mother\” \”How have you been?\” …

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The hospital does not lack a nurse, but the child lacks a mother

A friend of mine is a nurse in a large hospital. Her child is about to be one year old and she has to work night shift. He said that if there was no one to take care of the child, he would either send it back to his hometown or hire a nanny. But neither was desired. I want to resign and ask me for any advice. I said, let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, there was a nurse who gave birth to a child in her late thirties. I am very happy to have a child late in life, but also very worried at the same time. I want to take care of my children by myself…

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The invisible father is the sinner who misleads his daughter throughout her life

One night last week, classmate Xiao Xi finished her homework at 8:30, earlier than usual. She was very happy and asked me to accompany her for a run in the community. Because my blood lipids and blood sugar have been high recently, I really need to exercise, so I was very moved. But my sister Xiaonuo had to wash her hair and take a bath, and then she had to blow dry her hair and tell stories to lull her to sleep. I asked Nuoxi\’s father to choose between bathing my sister or running with her…

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Why do your kids always complain?

My neighbor had a lot of trouble with his daughter for a while. Because no matter where she goes for activities, she always loses her energy and is very lazy. The family took her out to play, to flower shows in the botanical gardens, and taught her how to recognize beautiful hyacinths or tulips. However, facing the blooming spring flowers, she was in low spirits, with a bored look on her face. She pouted, fiddled with her pigtails, and twisted her light eyebrows into a small…

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Parents should be as smart as Yang Lan

As parents, why shouldn’t we be grateful to our children? Children remind us of the beauty of life and the power of love with their existence. During the most difficult time in my life, when I think of them, I feel so at ease and become more powerful. Parents have talked about respecting their children many times, but very few have done it. They keep saying it is for the good of their children, but they don’t know…

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How terrible is it for a mother who has lost herself?

For several days, my colleague F told me about a mother and son she saw on the bus on her way to and from get off work. The mother must be less than thirty years old, and the child looks four or five years old and is in kindergarten. They first attracted F\’s attention because of the woman\’s loud voice. That morning, F was listening to music with headphones on in his seat, closing his eyes and relaxing. I was suddenly startled by a shrill female voice…

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Children are heroin, they are long football games, they are expensive commodities that cannot be returned

The vast majority of parents believe that raising children is one of the happiest things in life, but a Harvard University survey made a surprising discovery: people\’s subjective happiness actually drops rapidly after giving birth to children. Raising children may not actually bring you happiness, but may just make you \”feel\” that you are happier. When we think of children, we think of the world…

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Parents\’ ignorance will ruin their children\’s lives

It should be the truth that the same kind of children are the same kind of parents. High-quality, high-level, and thoughtful parents will open up a bright road for their children, while parents with poor knowledge and short-term knowledge will limit their children\’s lives, and some short-term knowledge may even destroy their children\’s lives. 1. Lack of knowledge in education and psychology will destroy a child’s sound personality. A few days ago, a piece of news appeared…

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Is it great to make money to support a family? Being a stay-at-home mother in China is a true warrior

The National People’s Congress and the National People’s Congress were still in session, and I happened to see a name I was familiar with—National People’s Congress Representative Huang Xihua. I interviewed her before when I was a reporter, and she was already paying attention to population and family planning issues at that time. This time, she said in the media that she would submit a proposal \”on incorporating infant care into government public services\” and would also specify the leading department. In human terms, this advice is…

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If parents don’t know a little bit about psychology, it will be difficult for them to educate their children.

How terrible is it to cry about poverty with your children? Excellent parents will never pin this matter on their children. How to minimize the harm to children when parents divorce. This evening, there was no sunset and the sky was gray. The wind seemed crazier than usual, causing the branches to sway wildly. The campus seemed particularly silent. Suddenly, there was a \”bang\” sound, and a heavy object fell to the ground from a high place. Then, fresh…

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