Benben\’s mother is very ordinary, and her family is very ordinary. The most ordinary thing is that his mother is extremely anxious about her children like all adults who suffer from anxiety disorders. Benben was helplessly forced to become the anxious child. As early as Benben was still in her belly, she was forced to listen to all kinds of classical music, classic stories, and some foreign languages at every turn. He actually doesn\’t like hearing it at all, just…
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The baby loses his temper, this is the right thing to do
Children losing temper easily is the biggest headache for mothers. Especially for those mothers who have worked hard to learn some parenting knowledge and hope to feed their children with \”love\”, \”maternal love\” will be greatly frustrated. You may be frustrated and wonder if there is something wrong with your own education methods, or worry about something wrong with your child. ,or…
Mom, you look so scary when you\’re angry
A mother left a message saying, \”When I see my son doing things slowly, I feel angry. I can\’t help yelling at him every time. But I really regret it after yelling. I really don\’t know what to do. My son once told me before going to bed. She said, \’Mom, you look so scary when you\’re angry,\’ and I burst into tears instantly. Feeling sorry for my son became an outlet for my crazy emotions.\” Many parents have this…
Have you fallen into the trap of early admission?
Recently, the \”Notice on Compulsory Education Enrollment in 2017\” issued by the General Office of the Ministry of Education mentioned that the cut-off date of birth for children in the first grade of primary school shall be determined by the provincial education administration department based on the actual situation. In other words, the birth deadline for children entering primary school can be postponed to December 31. This means that it is very likely that in the near future…
In this era, are you still comparing yourself to “other people’s children”?
A best friend, the mother of an 8-year-old girl, sent a message late at night: \”A classmate who practices dance with my child was selected for a TV children\’s program. My child was not selected. Why do I feel so lost?\” I asked: \”You Do you want your child to become a dancer? Or to get extra points in exams? Or to cultivate temperament?\” She thought for a while and replied: \”Just as a hobby or skill.\” I…
\”Frustration education\” is so important, but 99% of parents do it wrong
\”I want my children to know from an early age that frustration is a blessing in disguise.\” Last Sunday, my friend and I just watched a chicken soup movie. At the end, she said to me in a touching and intoxicating way. Shit! I asked her: \”Then do you know what to do in frustration education?\” \”When a child cries, do you comfort it or wait for him to recover on his own?\” \”When a child encounters difficulties, do you help…
Only failed women will use their children as a \”tool\” to maintain their marriage.
For conflicts between adults, just resolve them between the adults. Don\’t involve the children. What\’s the point of using children to vent their anger and use them as a shield! Is it really good for the child to make do with it for the sake of the child? I went back to my hometown a few days ago and saw Xiaomi again. She was no longer the same person I knew when I was young. The once gentle, sweet and innocent girl gradually changed into someone after getting married and having children…
What should I do if my child doesn’t eat? Who will suffer more?
Because eating is human instinct, even if you don’t pay so much attention, children will slowly learn to eat sooner or later. Xiaofu\’s transition to learning to eat has been fairly smooth, but there are always some mothers who are more anxious about their children\’s eating issues, or there are always some children who are particularly troubled and painful about the issue of eating. Some mothers also left me messages and suggested that their children…
Whoever marries him is willing to have three children for him! This is the love of \”three lives and three lives\”
The best love for a child is a mother who loves her child well. This is a TV series that everyone is following – \”Three Lives Three Worlds\”. The circle of friends was also flooded with a picture. The picture showed a little black snake. The narration was: \”Mr. Ye Hua, let\’s go home.\” Well, loving someone promises her three lives. This reminds me of Sun Li, who is now pregnant with her \”third child\”. but…
Children, \”can afford to lose\” is more important than \”must win\”
Such an incident happened in Xiaobao’s kindergarten parent group. Late at night, a parent called the teacher in the group and asked why other children got candy but their own child didn\’t: \”The child cried when he came home and said that the teacher didn\’t like him and he didn\’t want to go to kindergarten in the future.\” He just finished speaking. On the ground, another parent immediately responded: \”My baby didn\’t get any candy, and he said the teacher didn\’t…