Parents’ nagging and distrust are a lifelong nightmare for children

Recently I have noticed that my son talks more and more. You have to ask several whys for everything. If you don\’t have a little patience, you will really get annoyed. So when grandma is often asked about her situation and is at the end of her rope, she can only say begging for mercy, \”Go find your dad.\” The kid comes running to ask me. But many times I can only turn to the almighty circle of friends. But no matter what, I…

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My child, don’t settle for second best and break your wings to fly.

Because I have written some articles about education before, some teachers from middle schools and even universities have shared them with students in class. Many children followed the pictures and followed my WeChat official account. There is a kid named Pengpeng, a junior high school student, who occasionally leaves messages behind my backstage. Most of them talk about how to get along with classmates, parents don\’t care about him, etc…

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Doting, a hurdle that cannot be overcome by raising children across generations?

Nowadays, whether in big cities or small villages, \”elderly parents\” are not uncommon. In the garden of the community, they push strollers together in twos and threes to exchange experiences in raising children; at the gates of kindergartens, primary and secondary schools, they crowd among the people picking up their children, calling their grandchildren\’s names. This kind of grandparents lives with their grandchildren and assumes the main or even full responsibility for raising and educating their grandchildren…

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10 types of pancakes that don’t require kneading, simple and delicious, hands-free, perfect for baby snacks

For many mothers, various stalls are not only the best choice for a quick breakfast, but also a perfect snack for their babies. But kneading the cake is annoying! die! Got it! The hands are very dirty and hurt (T︹T) Especially in the winter, it is unbearable. The dough is cold and cold, and I have to endure the bone-chilling feeling and knead it repeatedly… Today Doudehui will introduce 10 pieces to you. No need to knead the dough…

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When I think about the possibility of raising four grandchildren when I grow old, I simply regret having a second child.

I went back to my hometown during the Spring Festival and had a small gathering with some of my high school classmates. Naturally, we reminisced about the past and talked about the present at the dinner table. My husband and I were high school classmates, and we brought our second child, Xiaonuo, with us, so the topic of the second child soon came up. Will you have a second child? The answers of several female classmates were basically the same: they are too old to take risks. The male students\’ answers were varied, including those who had already given birth…

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How can I save you, my emotionally broken little monster?

On a June day, a child\’s face changes at will. It wasn\’t until I had a child that I truly understood this sentence. One moment there was a dazzling smile like a little sun, and the next moment there was lightning and thunder + heavy rain. In addition to making high-decibel deadly noises, it will also be accompanied by a series of behaviors that make parents want to crawl into cracks in the ground, such as beating people, throwing things, rolling on the floor, hitting walls and floors…

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The 4-year-old son asked his mother to issue an IOU because he was afraid that his mother would pocket the new year\’s money.

The content of the IOU written by a child: Giving lucky money is a custom during the traditional Chinese Spring Festival. It is also the happiest time for children, because after the Spring Festival, they become \”nouveau riche\”. However, it may also be accompanied by \”searching\” by parents. This Spring Festival, how do you handle your children’s New Year’s money? Yesterday, netizen \”Xiao Xiaocao\” posted on the 19th floor website…

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How much impact does your anxiety have on your children?

A few days ago, a mother left me a message: School is about to start. She has a three-year-old baby at home, and she has been taking care of it by herself. Are you hesitating whether to send you to kindergarten? The reason is that I am not optimistic about kindergartens, because there are often negative messages from mothers, for example, teachers are too cruel to their children, and children are too depressed, which is not conducive to healthy mental development. And my own children are more…

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If you really love children, please take off your armor and spikes first

A few days ago, a mother left a message saying that she and her husband were already incompatible. Because during the Chinese New Year, children love to eat snacks, so my husband indulges them in eating all kinds of snacks and drinks. When I told myself that the drink had additives and that I should drink less, my husband said that it would be fine if I drank it. When I say that my child eats too many snacks and skips meals and needs to be controlled, my husband says that he cares too much. The reason is that since this is not good…

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Either you accompany me, or your child is satisfied with your company.

There is a picture that once hit the circle of friends. Indeed, it is easy to understand the difference between accompanying and accompanying. This is the topic we are going to talk about today. Is he satisfied with spending time with his child every day? Obsessed with browsing mobile phones and neglecting communication with children When taking Liuliu out to play, it is easy to see such a scene. \”Mom, look, I built a castle!\” Amusement…

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