At what age should you sleep separately from your children? I\’ll really regret it if I know it\’s too late

A few days ago, Dan\’s mother returned to her hometown and took Dingdang to visit her husband\’s sister\’s house. She found that Dingdang\’s 9-year-old cousin was still sleeping squeezed in between her sister and her brother-in-law. She asked her sister why she didn\’t give the child a separate bed to sleep in? My sister said disapprovingly: \”He doesn\’t want to sleep alone. I\’m also worried about him kicking the quilt and catching cold at night. However, the child always likes to touch me when sleeping. Is this supposed to be okay?\” My answer was firm:…

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The miraculous tricks that foreign super mothers remember with their babies have made the naughty children obedient from now on.

There is a popular phenomenon recently. When young people see a baby, they will say wow, how cute and adorable. However, when they are asked to give birth to one, many people will hesitate. In addition to factors such as being unable to raise a baby and having a baby, it is too painful. There is an important reason, and that is – the naughty children are too! Tao! people! It’s so difficult to carry! A sister who has given birth to a baby told me that since she had a baby, she has been reading…

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Whether a child\’s personality is good or not depends on how well his parents get along! No matter how busy you are, you still have to watch it

A child is the face of a family. His words, deeds, and actions reveal the upbringing of a family and subtly reflect the relationship between family members. For a well-mannered child, everyone thinks that his parents must be well-educated, sincere and simple; for a child who acts recklessly and even urinates everywhere in the restaurant, no one believes that his parents are…

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You yourself have lost your empathy, but you blame your child for being ignorant

I saw a mother complaining about her child on WeChat. I accidentally broke my child\’s beloved piggy bank. I apologized to my child and promised to buy a new one right away. But the child still refused to let go. He cried all morning and was angry with himself. He said it was so difficult to raise a child and I really wanted to beat him up. Wouldn\’t it be enough to just buy one? Is it really enough to just buy one? child…

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There is a naughty child, what should I do?

Before baby Lu Zimi was born, I already had a daughter named Lu Sidi. Lu Sidi is an obedient princess-type little girl. When she was very young, no one taught her how to clean her mouth after eating and not to paint her face and skirt. All the educational theories I read had an immediate impact on Lu Sidi. I don’t need to repeat myself, the little girl did it in a very orderly manner. …

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The terrifying power of suggestion, the “three words” parents should never say to their children

A few days ago, several old friends got together to chat at the end of the year. A friend told me about a primary school classmate of ours who was recently being collected for debt. As a result, he injured someone and was imprisoned. I remember that many years ago, we went to catch fish in the river together and went to work-study programs together. However, what appears with him in our memory is his mother\’s face that has never smiled. There seems to be endless posts…

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Why can’t you be a good parent despite being well versed in all kinds of parenting knowledge?

One day I joked with a friend: When we were young, all parenting problems were children\’s problems. Now it\’s our turn to take care of our children, and all parenting issues have become parents\’ issues again. One sentence cannot conceal the various feelings. We, a generation that grew up under the sticks and authority of our parents, now have to raise the next generation with love and freedom. We often don’t know how…

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If your child has low self-esteem, it may be because you love in the wrong way

A few days ago, a well-known blogger on Weibo initiated a topic discussion – \”What kind of harm did adults do to you when you were a child.\” This topic immediately attracted the attention and heated discussion of a large number of netizens: \”Always say\” I\’m your mother, and if I say no, I can\’t!\” I always tell others about my embarrassing things as a joke, and I\’m still there. The sarcasm and ridicule of those who thought they were provocative made…

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