If a child with normal intelligence is told all day long, \”You\’re an idiot\”, \”You\’re slow to react\”, \”This child is careless\”, over time, the child will really behave stupidly, slow to react, and Act carelessly. Do you believe it or not? Yesterday afternoon, my cousin needed to receive a temporary client, so she left her third-grade son Tangtang at my house to do her homework, and asked…
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Without conflict, it is difficult for children to grow
On the weekend, I took my children to the amusement castle. There were many children inside, and everyone climbed up and down according to the route, in an orderly manner. But two children got into a fight over a ball. The boy seemed anxious. Fortunately, the girl said she wanted to ask the administrator to judge, so they didn\’t fight. When they arrived in front of the female administrator, they both said that the ball they saw first should be their own…
\”Mom, why are bricks soft?\” How much misleading is there in education?
Bricks are so soft, how can they stop the big bad wolf? On the weekend, I took Xiaonuo to \”Growth Bay\” not far from home for a day. There were various professional experience projects, which are role-playing games. It was the first time for Xiaonuo to participate in this kind of activity. He was not very happy at first, but gradually he started to like it. Among the various professions she experienced, one was working as a construction worker in an architecture museum, which at that time only…
Why do children turn a deaf ear to your words? How to speak so that children will listen
Last week, my best friend and her two-and-a-half-year-old son came all the way from China to New York to experience Halloween. My best friend\’s family is traveling abroad, and no matter how busy the baby\’s father is, he will take time off from work to accompany the baby. With the grandparents accompanying him, the lineup is always luxurious. When we went out to eat together, before the food was ordered, my best friend\’s son climbed on the chair. My mother told him \”no, sit down\” several times, and he was full of…
There are no shortcuts in parenting, it’s just that some people are carrying the burden forward
There is a saying that says, \”The greatest misfortune in life is to be indifferent when you should be struggling.\” The same is true for raising children. Many people think that children should be left alone and let their nature take their own course. But you need to know: it is nature, good has good roots, but evil has bad habits. The first few years after a child is born should be the most difficult years for parents. Because facing a new life means that a young couple…
Anxious mother cannot take care of her child? Shit
I often read on the Internet that Chinese mothers are too anxious, but Dan’s mother doesn’t think so. Is there any mother in the world who is never anxious: worried about her child’s health, worried about her child’s study, worried about her child’s future… As a mother, you have either been anxious before, Or on the road to anxiety. Mother\’s anxiety is like an infectious disease, and children are all susceptible. I just randomly searched online two days ago…
Shocked! Mother punishes her child like this
Many times, when faced with our children\’s mistakes, we become confused and impulsively make some overreactions and severely punish our children. It\’s not that you can\’t be punished if you make a mistake, but punishment also requires strategy. If you handle it well, you can turn punishment into an art. 1. Treat it coldly and let the child \”try and make mistakes\”. A mother took her son home on the bus, but she had no choice but to live…
Why do children act like little bullies at home and become little white rabbits outside?
Do you have such a domineering little rabbit at home? At home, he is fearless and is a arrogant little bully. When facing outsiders, he turns into a shy little rabbit. Why is this happening? If you also have such doubts, then be sure to take a closer look at what Xiaofei will share next – How was the little bully raised? Doting too much on the child, and ignoring the child\’s crying regardless of whether it is correct or not…
Don’t let your children turn “I’m sorry” into a habit!
sorry! Does your child say this often? We often teach our children to apologize if they have done something wrong. If they accidentally disturb or hinder others, they should say \”I\’m sorry!\” in time. This is understandable and the right direction of teaching, but sometimes, some parents accidentally make this point Going too far has allowed the child to develop the habit of saying \”I\’m sorry\” without knowing how to control it…
How to get children to speak their minds? It’s too late if parents don’t master these chat skills
Let’s look at two sets of conversations first: Conversation 1 Dad: How was school today? Xiao Ming: Not bad. Dad: Is \”fine\” good or bad? The teacher criticized you again? Xiao Ming: Oh, no! Dad: That’s great! Xiao Ming: Well, not bad. Dad: I can’t beat you with three sticks. I don’t know what you are thinking about every day! Xiao Ming…