Is it bad for children to lie? Don’t go online! These 5 suggestions can help you (parents should read this)

A mother told me that her 10-year-old son did poorly on a math test, but lied and said he did well but lost the paper. Then he imitated her handwriting and signed the paper, but the teacher finally found out. Children lying is a problem that many parents encounter. When some people mention \”lying\”, they elevate it to the level of \”morality\” and \”character\”, thinking that children who love lying are definitely not…

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Remember to take your children’s personal opinions and requests seriously!

In the process of educating their children, \”bad\” parents usually have their own way of dealing with their children\’s requests. They often do not overly spoil their children and dare to say \”no\” to their children, but they do not ignore their children\’s rights and do not respond to their children\’s requests. Personal opinions and requirements are often taken seriously and handled and resolved correctly. In fact, what should parents do in response to their children\’s requests…

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We don’t want to fight but can’t help ourselves and feel guilty after the fight. What’s wrong with us?

On the day when her son turned three years and five months old, Xiaolan spanked her son for the first time. When she was pregnant, Xiaolan discussed with her husband that the child\’s education should be based on reasoning and try not to be violent. However, Xiaolan still couldn\’t hold it back. Xiaolan\’s family lives on the 15th floor. For her son\’s safety, they not only installed protective screens. Every time her son comes near the window, Xiaolan will tell him that it is dangerous and give him…

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If you were given another chance, would you still choose to be a stay-at-home mother?

Sister Li is a mother of two children and has stayed at home full time for many years. Now her eldest child is about to graduate from elementary school and her younger one is in kindergarten. A few days ago, Sister Li read my previous tweet \”What to do when a stay-at-home mother encounters an affair with her husband?\” She was very moved and added me as a friend to chat with me for a long time at night. She said that her heart had been severely broken recently, and she was so devastated that she needed to talk to heal: Li…

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My child, this world will never give way to you.

I took my son to go hiking a few days ago. The almost 4-year-old little guy was very excited and climbed up very hard with his bag on his back. On a steep slope, the mud and rocks under his feet slipped and he had difficulty walking. But we were halfway there and it was impossible to go back. He stood on a ridge, unable to advance or retreat, and was very anxious. I say you try to lie down and slowly move to the side, you can find a support…

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It\’s all grandma\’s fault, the child\’s concentration has been ruined.

Our family, Chenchen, has been a child with ADHD since he was a child. He cannot sit down. I have always been worried about whether he will move around and be distracted in class. In this regard, I have thought of many ways, such as playing puzzles with him and playing Sudoku games. Of course, the most common thing I do is to take my children to read books. During the summer vacation, when the weather is hot, I often take my children to the Book City. There is a large children\’s book area there, and every day…

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The child is disobedient and talks back, \”You are not my teacher!\” What should parents do in this situation?

It’s the end of the month again, and my money is getting tighter and thinner, including mortgage, living expenses, insurance premiums, water and electricity bills, childcare fees… I can’t help but feel a little annoyed. Summer noon is always extraordinarily long. The sun exerts all its power tirelessly without a trace of wind. I wish my daughter could take a nap quietly, but she was playing in full swing. I told her: Kindergarten The teacher said that the children have to go to bed at noon,…

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Essentials of the most effective communication skills with children! But 99% of parents are wrong

As the saying goes: \”Respect is the first bridge of communication.\” In society, this is how you should behave. In the family, communication with children should be based on respect. \”Bad\” parents always believe that respecting their children is the most sincere expression of parental love. In this society, everyone needs respect, including children. What we need to know is that every child is a…

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The 3-year-old son contracted a strange disease as soon as he arrived at kindergarten, which made his family miserable. The truth enlightens everyone

Although women are fragile, mothers are strong! Five years ago, my son Xiao Ran was three years old. Like all mothers, I happily sent my son to kindergarten and happily welcomed another stage of Xiao Ran\’s life. However, when I went to pick up Xiaoran again, the kindergarten teacher called Xiaoran and me to the office. \”Xiaoran\’s mother, Xiaoran is in kindergarten…

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