Parents in different eras face different propositions and challenges in raising children. In today\’s era, due to the influence of various factors, parents may invest more energy and effort in their children\’s education than in any previous era. This is a good thing, but the side effect is that parents\’ educational anxiety has also increased, and parents\’ excessive attention to their children\’s studies has also caused…
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What are the benefits of having children memorize ancient poems from an early age?
Many parents have questions, why should their children memorize ancient poems from an early age? Is memorizing ancient poems useful? There are also many parents who let their children carry it when they see everyone else carrying it. Anyway, they feel that there must be advantages and no disadvantages to carrying it. There are many benefits to memorizing ancient poems, such as enhancing memory and improving children\’s literary accomplishment. These intrinsic benefits were not visible at the time, so some parents had questions. …
If you want your children to become better and better, mothers must know how to become “bad”
As a mother, you need to learn to put a knife in your heart. What does \”a knife in the heart\” mean? Even if I can watch my child suffer, even if I feel extremely distressed, I can still stand behind him and watch him stagger forward. What we call \”enduring hardship\” is not the narrow \”hard life\” or \”suffering poverty\”, but the pain of growing up. Kazuo Inamori once said: Being poor does not mean suffering, being poor is…
How to set house rules for children
Italian educator Dr. Maria Montessori pointed out: 2-6 years old is a critical period for the formation of children\’s rule awareness and early behavioral habits. If no rules are established for children before the age of 6, no matter how good the education is, it will be useless. I was chatting with a friend today and talked about the issue of children\’s education. She said that children must be educated well from an early age, otherwise it will be difficult to change them when they grow up. He also said that the neighbor’s…
Do you know how to chat with your children?
After not seeing each other for a while, I noticed that my best friend’s 4-year-old son Youyou was speaking more and more fluently, and chatting with him often made people around him laugh. \”My son must have inherited your sharp tongue, so good at talking.\” I joked to my best friend. \”I think that\’s why he and I chatted often during this period. Youyou is quite timid and doesn\’t dare to chat with other children. Once I went to listen…
The more parents are willing to do these three things in raising a boy, the more capable the child will be in the future.
Every parent will spend a lot of effort in educating their children, because educating children is a very profound knowledge. It is not only about taking care of children\’s learning, but more importantly, the education of children in daily life. Some parents think that in educating children Boys spend more energy than girls because boys are always naughty and difficult to discipline. After my best friend got married, she gave birth to a lively…
Why does the baby vomit milk?
Vomiting up milk is one of the most common problems encountered in parenting. The child is very uncomfortable when vomiting milk. The most important thing is that if the vomit is accidentally absorbed by the child, it may cause suffocation. This is a problem that parents are very worried about. Therefore, most parents really want to know the reasons that cause their children to vomit milk so that they can take preventive measures. In addition, when will the child become less likely to vomit milk and…
How to improve your child’s self-esteem by avoiding these 4 things
How strong is the child\’s self-esteem? I once saw a video like this: A 5-and-a-half-year-old boy was told by the teacher that he had gained weight during an online class. He couldn\’t help but cry in grievance. He stood up and exercised while crying. We always think that children don’t understand anything. In fact, when children are very young, their self-esteem has already begun to sprout. Research shows that children around the age of 2 will begin to care about…
How to train children’s self-discipline
I was chatting with my best friend a few days ago. When talking about educating children, she said with emotion: \”When we were children, our parents didn\’t care much about us and we continued to learn and grow up. Today\’s children are really difficult to teach.\” In fact, children are always children. The difference is parents. Kant once said: \”The so-called freedom is not to follow one\’s will, but to be self-dominated.\” It is difficult for children who cannot be self-dominated to follow \”heteronomy…\”
How to praise and encourage children so that they are willing to do the right thing
How should we praise our children so that they will become more and more willing to do the right things? Everyone needs praise, but children need it more than adults. why? Because their mental abilities are relatively weak and they are not sure whether they can survive to adulthood, the more their parents affirm them, the more confident they are that they can obtain more resources. But many parents are worried and express…