Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said something very heart-wrenching: Home is a channel for conveying love and warmth, but also a channel for conveying hatred and harm. However, filial piety allows us to only see the former and deny the existence of the latter. Therefore, under the banner of \”all parents in the world\”, parents can hurt their children as much as they want, just like their own parents hurt themselves, thus mixing hatred and hurt…
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What should I do if my child refuses to admit his mistake after making a mistake?
Children will always make mistakes, and the different ways we treat them will result in different children: If your education habit is to criticize and correct mistakes repeatedly, you will eventually get a child with low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and self-doubt. , broken cans, broken things, children with more and more problems. If your education habit is to recognize, encourage and support more than to criticize and correct mistakes, then you are constantly strengthening your children…
The best education is not to be a perfect mother
I wonder if mothers have such a feeling? After having children, I can’t help but feel anxious: “Anxious that my parenting techniques are not scientific enough”, “Anxious that I have not created better learning conditions for my children”, “Anxious that I have not done enough for my children…” Facing learning , I am worried that I am pushing my children too hard, and I am also afraid of…
How to solve children’s social problems
When children face social problems, parents do not need to be anxious, let alone get involved immediately. Instead, give children the opportunity to try to solve problems on their own. Only in this way can children slowly learn how to socialize and get along with others. During the Mid-Autumn Festival, I took Dabao to the playground. During the play, Dabao had a conflict with one of the children. The kid picked up Dabao into the round hole…
When raising a daughter, it is better to teach her to be thorny than to teach her to be like a sheep
I was stung by a scene in the hit drama \”Love Happens in Three Days\”. The girl Yuhan is a typical good girl. At school, she had a simple social life and focused solely on her studies. She lived a balanced life and never went out to play with her classmates. At home, she is well-behaved and sensible. She never goes west when her mother tells her something, even if she is wronged. But she was so well-behaved, but she didn\’t live a very happy life…
How to develop children’s brain potential is hidden in these daily life
Many of you may have heard Professor Hong Lan’s previous TED talks. In her speech, she introduced how the brains of men and women are very different. Her humorous and in-depth speech suddenly narrowed the distance between brain science and life and parenting styles. Professor Hong Lan told everyone: Forced learning is difficult to achieve for children. Children who want to learn learn the fastest by secretly learning; there is no such thing as losing at the starting line…
Tsinghua professor: How to accompany your children to grow up to be better
Dong Qing once said in \”The Long Reader\”: Companionship is a kind of power. In this world, if you lose companionship, you lose the meaning of survival. But what is the purpose of parents spending time with their children? The purpose of accompanying children is actually to enable them to become independent one day. Yesterday I took Dabao to play in the sand at the playground. While playing, I saw a mother who kept…
A state that allows children to receive the best nourishment and protection
I know a mother who is thin, has very white skin, is very beautiful, gentle, and always smiles. I often think that she has never been angry with anyone, or that she has no strength to be angry or manage it. own children. But experience also tells me that such a person will be very frightened when she is angry, or she will not be angry at all and will directly get sick, because she usually…
Why do children like to play devil’s advocate?
What should we do if our children always like to play devil’s advocate? A mother in Jiangsu, because her child did not want to clean up his desk after attending online classes, angrily threw his books all over the room and asked her child to clean up immediately and \”stop the loss in time\”. But the child protested and said plausibly: I am only in the second grade and I don’t understand some words! But I know that bamboo shoots are edible! Complete Collection of Audio Novels Xiaolu Storytelling [China…
Children like to hear what their parents say
Sorry, someone said something like this: \”Parents spend their whole lives waiting for their children to say thank you, and children spend their whole lives waiting for their parents to say sorry.\” Some parents rarely apologize to their children. Even if they are really wrong, it is difficult to say \” Sorry\” these three words. In fact, there is no shame in saying sorry to our children, and our children are less likely to look down on us because of it. Top ten bestsellers list…